sam ole stuff, just a new girl

[nicklebag05]

so it happen one more fuckin time. i been seeing this girl for ahwile. she just movd back hom frm 1000 miles away and the whole time she was gone we were constaly talkin. now shes home things are different. at least when she way away i didnt worry bout her as much i had other shit on my mind but now she back she just keeps playin wit me. she says we can see us dating but not now cuz she just got home. but wont giv me a answer when i ask her then does that mean we can see other people? so im actually trin to make this work but when im at work shes always wit this corey guy she just met. she fuckn ditchd me last nite outa the blue for no reason and now im kinda all freakd out i fuckn got dichd for this corey dude. it pisses me off i can even fuckn sleep. she swears tha hes just a friend but we used to be to until we crossd that line. so i just hope this bitch isnt playin me like my last one. i wish we could pick and choose who we have feelings for. once uve build a bond wit sumone its hard just to drop everything cuz a doubt in that back of my mind. ahhhh i need to get loaded!

[BrAneFReesE]

Originally Posted by nicklebag05

so it happen one more fuckin time. i been seeing this girl for ahwile. she just movd back hom frm 1000 miles away and the whole time she was gone we were constaly talkin. now shes home things are different. at least when she way away i didnt worry bout her as much i had other shit on my mind but now she back she just keeps playin wit me. she says we can see us dating but not now cuz she just got home. but wont giv me a answer when i ask her then does that mean we can see other people? so im actually trin to make this work but when im at work shes always wit this corey guy she just met. she fuckn ditchd me last nite outa the blue for no reason and now im kinda all freakd out i fuckn got dichd for this corey dude. it pisses me off i can even fuckn sleep. she swears tha hes just a friend but we used to be to until we crossd that line. so i just hope this bitch isnt playin me like my last one. i wish we could pick and choose who we have feelings for. once uve build a bond wit sumone its hard just to drop everything cuz a doubt in that back of my mind. ahhhh i need to get loaded!

man, you obviously care about her. Express that, put yourself out on a limb. Best i got for ya

[Lloydy]

lol you got blown out for someone called corey, id give up now

[surf*and*smoke]

if you can't trust her you can't trust her, and it will always be like that


so either learn to live with it or leave her

[gweetar]

She's playing with you. It's that simple. A 1000 miles away, and I'm sure she was saying all sorts of sweet things. Sure she was - that keeps you on the line until she gets back. And, too, in person, maybe the complete chemistry wasn't there the way she thought it would be. Face to face can be completely different than over the phone, trust me.

You need to stop messing around with her. Tell her in no simple terms that you are just going to be friends with her. This, of course, will have her being all cutsey again, acting like she likes you, trying to get you back hangin' on the line, I guarantee it. That will be your signal you know she's full of shit. If she says "okay", let's just be friends, you get your answer, too. She's playing with you.

One more question - were you ever actually seeing her, since she was 1000 miles away? Or, did this "relationship" develop while she was away? If it developed while she was away, again, harder to have the same feelings in person, to have the complete chemistry she thought you might have.

But, again, right now - she's playing with you.

[Center]

Before you EVER get involved with someone you MUST QUALIFY THEM! This situation most likely would never happen if you had made sure she was a women of quality. Don't waste your time on ones that arn't. This girl sounds like and attention whore to me. I'd get dump her as soon as possible and move on dude. This one will ONLY give you problems. Even if you DID get with her, is this the type of person worthy of YOUR TIME? Think about it.

[nicklebag05]

yea im gettin what ya say. we startd seein each other b4 she moved. actually i was just the guy that pickd up the mess when her boyfriend at the time fuck it up, thats how i met her. he pissd her off and i jumpd in. weve fooled arund a few times b4 she moved. we can even poke fun bout us hookin up. she said the reason she disapperd cuz the old boyfriend was all fuckd up on pills and wouldnt leave her alone so she went to her friends house to avoid him. she says she dont wanna date me rite now cuz she dont feel i deserve to have to deal wit her gettin over the old guy. so i just stayin make not makin ne more moves nemore. i told her im tired of being the only one to make the effort and when shes ready to make a effort to get ahold of me

[Patrick Rue]

and you say he just a friend

[jag8]

Originally Posted by nicklebag05

yea im gettin what ya say. we startd seein each other b4 she moved. actually i was just the guy that pickd up the mess when her boyfriend at the time fuck it up, thats how i met her. he pissd her off and i jumpd in. weve fooled arund a few times b4 she moved. we can even poke fun bout us hookin up. she said the reason she disapperd cuz the old boyfriend was all fuckd up on pills and wouldnt leave her alone so she went to her friends house to avoid him. she says she dont wanna date me rite now cuz she dont feel i deserve to have to deal wit her gettin over the old guy. so i just stayin make not makin ne more moves nemore. i told her im tired of being the only one to make the effort and when shes ready to make a effort to get ahold of me

girls get realy jealous realy quick. lets face it right now you guys are just friends. right? treat her like it. tell her about a girl your trying to hook up with or somthing.

atrraction is a funny thing. ive noticed time and time again people always want what they cant have. make it so she just cant have you. make her work for you.

[gweetar]

jag8 - I gotta disagree. No offense meant, but if he just starts messin' with her, it's the same thing, only reversed.

But, more importantly, if he does mess with her, to maker her jealous, and that gets her interested...well, that's the wrong reason. If the only reason she's interested in him is cause she can't have him, well, when she DOES get him, she won't be interested, anymore.

No one wants to date someone if the only reasn they like them, is because they can't have them.. Just asking for more trouble, and eventually both will be so pissed at each other, tired of it, it becomes a mess, even any friendship disappears.

Better to leaver her alone.

[nicklebag05]

im so fuckn pissd jut got home frm the bar frm workin all night and shes nowehre to be found. but i found sum muther fuckers phone at her house but for sum reason i couldnt get the phone to call my phone. im fuckin done with this chick. this is the 3 time this wek she has done this shit. then i go get all fuckd up and nothin evre goods coms about. this shit is done wit im dropin this bitch like a bag of sand. i cant deal wit this. im fuckn goin crazy over this srupid fuckn girl and theres nohin i can do about? how th fuck do i get ovr her? ahhhh will this shit ever end?

[jag8]

gweetar-

im not saying it in a high school sence. making her jealous for the hell of it.

i can only speak from expirience. there are girls that ive been "friends" with. just friends. but then ill kinda like them. you let them know that, they think its cute but would never work cause she views you as a friend.

or you could mention (to the girl you like) how you've been talking to this one girl but you dont know.... yada yada..... you kinda like her but kinda dont... talk it out like shes just one of the guys. watch her face and manorisims change.


i feel that there are simple laws of attraction. for instance when a girl has a guy whipped on her within one date, whats the chalenge for her? she knows this guy would go to the end of the world for her and he barley even knows her. wheres the fun in that?

dating is a game. it realy is. just gotta learn how to play it.



this thread NEEDS a women's input.

[nicklebag05]

com on ladies help me out here. i knw that it propbally wasnt a good thing but im not gonna lie i did kinda make a scene when she calld me this morning and askd why i was pissd and i told her when she choose dto hang out wit other guy friend b4 me when we had dinner plans it pisses me off. remind ya two nights this week too. and she turned it all back around on me sayin all i do is startin fighting and shit thn hung up. i go over there and apperantly sum other dude just happen to need a place to stay and she has a basement where he slept. how fuckd up is that? i kinda freakd out and told her fuck it im done makin all the effort and thats fuckin it. and left or go kickd ot how ever u wanna see it. and now i pissd cuz now it all over. i wish it could of turnd out btter. but the fuckn same shit just another stupid girl

[jag8]

dont ask for advice if your not gonna listen to anything we say. hell you thanked me and did the EXACT oppisate of what i suggested.



you showed this girl you are insecure. not confident.





may the force be with you.

[krangs_androidbody]

I don't know the whole story exactly but try to learn from this.

Don't throw all your cards on the table until you know you can trust a person.

I'm definitely not saying become cynical and don't trust anyone. But your view is "this is the same thing that always happens." So maybe there's something about you that you need to change. I'm not saying you did something wrong and that's why it didn't work out. You probably didn't do anything wrong but get your emotions involved too early.

It's hard but you'll figure it out.

[nicklebag05]

haha yea ur rite, ya got me there. but i did make so she couldnt have me, i just ended everything. lil extreme ya but hey its gonna work i think cuz shes has aready calld me a few times tring to tell me excuse and apolgies bout ditchin me and thats when i threw in that she said were only friends and we can do what we want.

[nicklebag05]

Originally Posted by krangs_androidbody

I don't know the whole story exactly but try to learn from this.

Don't throw all your cards on the table until you know you can trust a person.

I'm definitely not saying become cynical and don't trust anyone. But your view is "this is the same thing that always happens." So maybe there's something about you that you need to change. I'm not saying you did something wrong and that's why it didn't work out. You probably didn't do anything wrong but get your emotions involved too early.

It's hard but you'll figure it out.

yea ur probably right. im just gnna try and stay back and let it go. i geuss i mite com on kinda stong. but i will definitly learn a few thing frm all this shit thats been goin on. realisticly this should of all work out but now i see i blew it outa proportin maybe and was to fuckd up to realize what was goin on i think. i been getin wastd at work and then goin nutz.

[JainVeganBuddha]

tap dat!

[Hedons]

When someone tells you that "we can see other people" it means several things...

1. Your relationship is no longer important enough to warrant exclusivity.

2. They have someone else they want to see.

3. They don't have the courage to tell you that it's over between you and them .


Sorry if that sounds harsh.

-Hedons

[CowMan]

Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date
But a year to make love she wanted you to wait
Let me tell ya a story of my situation
I was talkin to this girl from the u.s. nation
The way that I met her was on tour at a concert
She had long hair and a short miniskirt
I just got onstage drippin, pourin with sweat
I was walkin through the crowd and gues who I met
I whispered in her ear, come to the picture booth
So I can ask you some questions to see if you are a hundred proof
I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah
She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra
I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused
I said, how do you like the show?
She said, I was very amused
I started throwin bass, she started throwin back mid-range
But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange
Then when I asked, do ya have a man, she tried to pretend
She said, no I dont, I only have a friend
Come on, Im not even goin for it
This is what Im goin sing

You, you got what I need but you say hes just a friend
And you say hes just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say hes just a friend
But you say hes just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say hes just a friend
But you say hes just a friend

So I took blah-blahs word for it at this time
I thought just havin a friend couldnt be no crime
cause I have friends and thats a fact
Like agnes, agatha, germaine, and jacq
Forget about that, lets go into the story
About a girl named blah-blah-blah that adored me
So we started talkin, getttin familiar
Spendin a lot of time so we can build up
A relationship or some undderstanding
How its gonna be in the future we was plannin
Everything sounded so dandy and sweet
I had no idea I was in for a treat
After this was established, everything was cool
The tour was over and she went back to school
I called every day to see how she was doin
Everytime that I ccalled her it seemed somethin was brewin
I called her on my dime, picked up, and then I called again
I said, yo, who was that? oh, hes just a friend
Dont gimme that, dont ever gimme that
Jus bust this

You, you got what I need but you say hes just a friend
And you say hes just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say hes just a friend
But you say hes just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say hes just a friend
But you say hes just a friend

So I came to her college on a surprise visit
To see my girl that was so exquisite
It was a school day, I knew she was there
The first semester of the school year
I went to a gate to ask where was her dorm
This guy made me fill out a visitors form
He told me where it was and I as on my way
To see my baby doll, I was happy to say
I arrrived in front of the dormitory
Yo, could you tell me where is door three?
They showed me where it was for the moment
I didnt know I was in for such an event
So I came to her room and opened the door
Oh, snap! guess what I saw?
A fella tongue-kissin my girl in the mouth,
I was so in shock my heart went down south
So please listen to the message that I say
Dont ever talk to a girl who says she just has a friend