"You suck the hole and you'll suck the pole"

[DubStyle311]

Thats an old Italian saying referring to cunnalingus. It used to be in the Italian community that a man couldnt go down on a woman for fear he would be suspected as a finocchio. Thats like a reall off the boat g-ball thing. Some of you might remember The Sopranos episode that dealt with it. "Ya know, you put that in your mouth, youll put anything." Clearly we are past that in this modern world.

I was just listening to an interview with Joe Frasier. He made an interesting comment. He said that in the black community, it used to be that men wouldnt want to go down on a woman either. Something about them being too proud to do something like that and not wanting to bow down to a woman. I have no clue if thats a real phenominon or not, but based on what I know about the eye ties, its not that much of a stretch.

Anyone have any insights?

[spicoli]

I'm so glad the Italian community has changed their views on this subject.
More specifically, my own personal Italian Stallion.
For some reason, I'm sure I've heard the same thing regarding the black community.
I don't know what truth to it there is though.

[JcP]

Why do you keep posting sex threads in higher thoughts? Third one in a week.

[Prophet Saddam]

Some of us like to talk dirty in an intellectual, higher thoughts forum.

Personally, I enjoy the talk about the racist heritage of Italians. As a WOP myself, I always get a chuckle out of generalizations...of which I almost forgot - the one about black people. Hardly a higher though, I'm sure, but it seems most appropriate for this forum.

So, what is the answer?

[DubStyle311]

The thread really inst about sex persay. More along the lines of culture and attitude.

[FineazPR]

Based on personal experience and having been around that proverbial block a few times...I can tell you...A Black man who is truly interested in a woman will do whatever she asks him to. Just ask real nice and then do return the favor...thoroughly! and like with any Man, sometimes YOU gotta be SPECIFIC. PS: I am not above or beneath drawing a Freakin' map, complete with arrows and cribnotes...! And FINALLY, he has graduated to Expert.

[The Rev]

I loves the box lunch!



The Rev

[Parallax]

i heard if you wear white shoes in italy, people will think you are a gay

[tedkennedy]

Originally Posted by DubStyle311

Thats an old Italian saying referring to cunnalingus. It used to be in the Italian community that a man couldnt go down on a woman for fear he would be suspected as a finocchio. Thats like a reall off the boat g-ball thing. Some of you might remember The Sopranos episode that dealt with it. "Ya know, you put that in your mouth, youll put anything." Clearly we are past that in this modern world.

I was just listening to an interview with Joe Frasier. He made an interesting comment. He said that in the black community, it used to be that men wouldnt want to go down on a woman either. Something about them being too proud to do something like that and not wanting to bow down to a woman. I have no clue if thats a real phenominon or not, but based on what I know about the eye ties, its not that much of a stretch.

Anyone have any insights?

it has nothing to do with race, more so to do with sexism and homophobic tendancies. coincidence you picked the sopranos and black people (presumably rappers)? two over-inflated masculine homophobic groups?

[OldMan&TheWeed]

When I was about fourteen, my father gave me a sex talk. It was really a series of conversations about how one should treat a lady in bed. Part of the wisdom he shared with me was the place of oral sex in a relationship. The thought of it disgusted me, and I let him know. He replied by saying, “Yeah, I used to be disgusted, but now I’m only amused.” During high school, little by little I tried it, and found that I liked it. I loved bringing a girl to orgasm with my tongue — especially if I was the first one.

A few years later when I was on my own (this was before AIDS), there were many more opportunities for us to have sex than young people have now. As long as you used birth control there was very little to worry about. Around this time I used to date a lot of Black women. For many of them it was their first time with a White guy, and I didn't want to disappoint them.

Almost none of these lasies had had any experience RECIEVING oral sex. I remember Black buddies of mine asking me if I (as a White guy) “sucked on pussy.” When I told them yes, they’d always holler out something derogatory and announce to everyone how nasty White people were. I’d just shake my head and grin. If I were the only White guy in the bar, it was just free advertising!

I still carry with me the satisfaction of bringing many Black ladies to their first oral orgasm. I know for a fact that I "ruined" one woman. She wouldn't stick with anyone afterwards who didn't go down on her. She wound up married to a “converted” friend of mine.

[DubStyle311]

lol

[generic_hippie]

I'd just like to point out to dum, err, dubstyle that just because his pecker stands up when he thinks about the sex related topics & things, it doesn't necessarily make them higher thoughts.

His last four threads in higher thoughts have been retarded sex related tripe.

More suited to the Inquiring minds section than higher thoughts.

[Jimmy Coonan]

Yet more proof that Italians and blacks are pretty much the same....

Say, what's that saying in Italian dub? Does it rhyme in Italian too?

[Jimmy Coonan]

I've heard Russian men have the same kind of attitudes. Don't be shy with your tongue Dex, you could do more for America's reputation over there than 50 years of Cold War propaganda.

[Hooked]

Originally Posted by Jimmy Coonan

I've heard Russian men have the same kind of attitudes. Don't be shy with your tongue Dex, you could do more for America's reputation over there than 50 years of Cold War propaganda.

It's true as far as I can remember. Chicks have it rough there. Pretty much every woman has been forced into having intercourse they didn't consent to. It's a rule of thumb that women don't show interest in any man they're not in some way attracted to, because it's pretty much a given that said hombre will force themselves onto said chica.

I couldn't believe that shit when I was there. But the majority Russian men seemed fairly misogynistic, though not in an overt way.

Somehow, Dex doesn't strike me as the type that eats cat. But I've been wrong before.

[vanilla]

well im not black or italian but guys, come on...


if you can honestly look at that and tell me you don't wanna dive in headfirst, maybe some naked dudes would be more appealing.
stop being such a "pussy" and try it out, you will (and her) definitely love it, especially after getting decent at it.
happy diving