Is it considered cheating?

[Canuck Wisdom]

So Bearsy any word on whats happening with this now?

[Night Life]

when me and my ex would take a "break" i would always go chill and hook up with other girls i new, i dont really think of it as cheating cuz we werent legitly together, we didnt even talk really, if shes the one wanting the break then you have the right to do whatever, after about a month or so my ex would always call and wed get back together.

[Shaggy_420]

omg im nowhere on ur top 8

oh myspace

[Jakeisuseless]

Originally Posted by BearsysRevenge

So I was dating this girl(the one from my other thread) and she decided she "needs a break to sort out some issues" she's dealing with.
We've been on said break for nearly a month and she's not made any effort to even talk to me except once.
(And I know it's stupid and superficial, but on her Myspace I was her 2nd "top friend" and now I'm not anywhere on her top friends and right after that conversation she put her ex(the one that she dumped me for last time) as her number 1 friend.)
I've decided she's not worth the effort I've put in and I'm gonna break up with her. I haven't seen her since and I want to do it in person, so we're still "together, but on a break"

Now out of the blue this other(much hotter) girl starts flirting with me and dropping some crazy dirty talk and we went out the other night(not even really as a date, cause we had these plans for a few weeks before the flirting started) and things started getting hot and I stopped myself from doing anything cause I've vowed to never, ever cheat in a relationship. And that's one promise I'm going to keep my whole life.

Anyway, is it considered cheating if I do anything? We're on a break and I'm breaking up with her the next time I see her.

And on top of this a 3rd girl(not as hot as girl 2, but I've liked her for a while) tells her friend to tell me that she likes me. lol, it's a dilemma I've never had before.

And before any of you ask me, no, I don't know what my secret is, as I still don't know how this is happening or what any of them see in me.

What constitutes cheating is not near as important as how you feel about it. Don't you think that poor bitch you're "together" with deserves a bit of a notice. What happens when she's ready to come back to you?

[BearsysRevenge]

Originally Posted by Canuck Wisdom

So Bearsy any word on whats happening with this now?

All I've succeeded in doing is finally breaking it off with her, and adding a 4th(3rd now, really) girl to the mix Thursday night. lol

I was supposed to go chill with Girl 3 today but I was too sick to get out of bed, now it's too late to go over.

[Smaerd]

Haha, just don't break all their hearts at once when girl 4 comes running into your life.

[CowMan]

glad to hear you got rid of girl 1.

good luck with the other three.

[Jakeisuseless]

Originally Posted by Smaerd

Haha, just don't break all their hearts at once when girl 4 comes running into your life.

Words to live by.

[turmaline]

This girl sounds unstable and selfish. It's only been a month and she has deeply hurt you already because she needs a "break"?

You are too good for this, and deserve someone who will treat you right all the time.

Don't feel bad, look what she's doing to you on an emotional level. If you let her get away with this ,you will continue to be hurt over and over and will start to think it's normal.

It's not.

lotsa hugs Bearsy.