Who is attracted to YOU?!

**Canuck Wisdom** · 07-08-2008, 09:54 AM

I want to know, what sorts of people are sexually attracted to you. Not who your attracted to, but what sorts of girls/boys give you eyes, try to hook up with you and have pursued relationships with you?

Why do you think that is? Are you attracted to those who seem most attracted to you?

I'm thinking mostly physically, but character wise too. Often a persons character is reflected by their outward appearance.

So? Who digs your vibe?

The SARS Volta · 07-08-2008, 10:19 AM

this is a good thread idea. props.

i get a lot of attention from weird skinny guys with long hair, and then conversely some frat boys. unexpectedly (to me anyway) when I was thicker and had a butt i got far, far more shoutouts from the dudes.
and sometimes i get random lesbians trying to holla. they never seem to be attractive from any standpoint, even if i were a gay.

noregretsyet · 07-08-2008, 10:23 AM

Very old men here in sunny Florida....I am almost 60 and live in an over 55+ condo....average 90.+...and lots of horny men armed with VIAGRA here.....disgusting LOL!!!!! Not really as sex and love is alive with our seniors. Thank God for pharmaceutical help though. Glad us women don't have that failure of equipment problen.....NEVER MIND..........have a good one my fellow stoners around the world.

dandeliion · 07-08-2008, 10:42 AM

Old men of Latino descent, but honestly I think a lot of them are attracted to anything with a vag. +Guys I have no interest in whatsoever.

=
I'll be single for ever.

**Canuck Wisdom** · 07-08-2008, 10:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The SARS Volta

this is a good thread idea. props.

Thanks! I thought so too

I bet you'd get some holla's, I personally am really into a nice curvy, healthy looking and filled out behind.

For me, I find that women with dark hair seem to look me over more than others. I wonder if its because I am fair with light hair and it comes down to our immune systems being different and the intrinsic knowledge that if we bred together our offspring would be all the stronger for it.

I seem to appeal to strong woman who know what they want and are willing to make themselves known. Perhaps its because my mom is a strong woman and won't get pushed around that I expect that from a good girl.

For my own part, I too am really attracted to brunettes and raven tops. They have something that I can almost smell that just turns my cranks. And beyond that, someone not too tall, not too small, not too thick, not too skinny, sort of medium and well shaped, like I think of myself.

**AlteredStateGrl** · 07-08-2008, 10:49 AM

Ok. Well, my husband is super attracted to me. He loves every little bit of me from head to toe, inside and out. When it boils down to it, on top of me loving myself, he's the only one that matters as far as who finds me attractive. SO, who finds me attractive? THE MOST INCREDIBLE MAN ALIVE, that's who!

That being said, what makes me attractive to others? That's hard to say. So, I'll take some shots in the dark.
My hair
My eyes
My bewbs
My curves
My smile
My lips
I'm fiesty
Smart
Caring
Compassionate
Funny
Outspoken
Quirky

Most importantly of course:
I'M ME!

My husband is fucking sexy. He's smart, driven, amazing at what he does, smart, understanding, SO caring. He's tall (6'6), bic bald, fit, and just omgtasty. I can't even explain is awesomeness. I love and adore him.

I'm not sure if any of this answers your OP, but I tried.

**Canuck Wisdom** · 07-08-2008, 10:56 AM

Well I was looking for that traits that the people who seem attracted to you have, but good post. Its awesome you having a loving marriage.

**AlteredStateGrl** · 07-08-2008, 10:59 AM

Yeah, I kinda thought that's what you were after. Only after I got started, I couldn't figure out quite how to put it? So, I just went with all of that.

I guess it would be hard for me to answer unless I talked to people who found me attractive.

I'm a lucky and blessed girl, and I never miss a chance to say so.

Thanks CW.

**Canuck Wisdom** · 07-08-2008, 11:15 AM

haha np, I want what you have pretty desperately, so I can easily appreciate.

**Captain Cannabis** · 07-08-2008, 11:48 AM

i have yet to determine a pattern in the type of girls who find me attractive. in most cases it is girls who i have got to know on a more-than-superficial basis (that is to say we have become friends first). at one point or another pretty much all of the girls who i keep as female friends have tried (successfully or not) to hook up.

i have never had sex with or dated anyone younger than me.

surf*and*smoke · 07-08-2008, 12:16 PM

I get a lot of girls of the "surfer style" trying to get with me, which i suppose makes sense since I am the only person I know around here that avidly surfs (except most my friends) and most girls around here try so hard to fit into that stereotype of a California chick.

I guess it is kind of weird though since I don't fit into that kinda style much, especially since I shaved my head. And I sure as hell am not trying to get with any of the girls that fit this model. It is pretty fun sometimes though cause 90% of the time they will flat out lie and say they avidly surf or spend all there time at the beach, when it is completely obviously not the case, to try to impress.

I on the other hand am attracted to just about every style and body type. Personality is just about the only deal maker(or breaker, I suppose).

Skywarp · 07-08-2008, 12:50 PM

I get alot of play from daywalkers...

I also have a gentle face and demeanor which attracts beezys that were/are in rough relationships, It's the whole security thing...

Plus I have a way with words and a sutible confidence that screams "i could have you if i wanted but i don't" which drives them nuts...

Rankz · 07-08-2008, 01:41 PM

Emotionally damaged girls are always on my shit, or really sweet virgin type girls. I don't know what else to say.

my_scatterheart · 07-08-2008, 01:57 PM

It's depressing, actually. No one at first glance. People have to get to know me, which I think is weird, because I'm not fucking ugly. Really, I swear. Who? Really broad spectrum. Primarily hippie guys, and/or insecure intellectuals.

The SARS Volta · 07-08-2008, 02:05 PM

I'm certain any guy will have to be strange to find my personality and sense of humor acceptable. I say extremely unladylike non-delicate things all the time and I'm almost never mushy/corny. While I'm easy to get along with, I would not say I'm compatible with a ton of people in a romantic sense.

_tyranT · 07-08-2008, 02:37 PM

Seems like the more slutty girls are attracted to me and drugie type girls. or big women.

that and old queers weirdo's always trying to shake my hand.

Patrick Rue · 07-08-2008, 02:38 PM

Honestly, everyone.

Except haters.

edit: and being a hater is just a form of denial.

snowmayne · 07-08-2008, 02:43 PM

The few times I've been single in the past years, I seem to easily be able to pull women of a latin background and women with more of an urban style.

snowmayne · 07-08-2008, 02:45 PM

plus geeno

he's always hit on me

and weedwax

Skywarp · 07-08-2008, 02:47 PM

grieves loves aidz too

07-08-2008, 10:49 AM	#6 (permalink)
AlteredStateGrl (òÓ,)_\,,/ Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where Trouble Melts Like Lemon Drops High Above the Chimney Tops... Posts: 8,395 Thanks: 358 Thanked 169 Times in 106 Posts	Ok. Well, my husband is super attracted to me. He loves every little bit of me from head to toe, inside and out. When it boils down to it, on top of me loving myself, he's the only one that matters as far as who finds me attractive. SO, who finds me attractive? THE MOST INCREDIBLE MAN ALIVE, that's who! That being said, what makes me attractive to others? That's hard to say. So, I'll take some shots in the dark. My hair My eyes My bewbs My curves My smile My lips I'm fiesty Smart Caring Compassionate Funny Outspoken Quirky Most importantly of course: I'M ME! My husband is fucking sexy. He's smart, driven, amazing at what he does, smart, understanding, SO caring. He's tall (6'6), bic bald, fit, and just omgtasty. I can't even explain is awesomeness. I love and adore him. I'm not sure if any of this answers your OP, but I tried. __________________ Last edited by AlteredStateGrl; 07-08-2008 at 10:57 AM.

07-08-2008, 10:59 AM	#8 (permalink)
AlteredStateGrl (òÓ,)_\,,/ Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where Trouble Melts Like Lemon Drops High Above the Chimney Tops... Posts: 8,395 Thanks: 358 Thanked 169 Times in 106 Posts	Yeah, I kinda thought that's what you were after. Only after I got started, I couldn't figure out quite how to put it? So, I just went with all of that. I guess it would be hard for me to answer unless I talked to people who found me attractive. I'm a lucky and blessed girl, and I never miss a chance to say so. Thanks CW. __________________

07-08-2008, 11:48 AM	#10 (permalink)
Captain Cannabis i hate emus Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: trapped in a computer Posts: 10,034 Thanks: 247 Thanked 208 Times in 138 Posts	i have yet to determine a pattern in the type of girls who find me attractive. in most cases it is girls who i have got to know on a more-than-superficial basis (that is to say we have become friends first). at one point or another pretty much all of the girls who i keep as female friends have tried (successfully or not) to hook up. i have never had sex with or dated anyone younger than me. __________________ fuck the monkeys

07-08-2008, 12:16 PM	#11 (permalink)
surfandsmoke I Don't Want It Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Cruisin from norcal to socal Posts: 5,579 Thanks: 20 Thanked 26 Times in 14 Posts	I get a lot of girls of the "surfer style" trying to get with me, which i suppose makes sense since I am the only person I know around here that avidly surfs (except most my friends) and most girls around here try so hard to fit into that stereotype of a California chick. I guess it is kind of weird though since I don't fit into that kinda style much, especially since I shaved my head. And I sure as hell am not trying to get with any of the girls that fit this model. It is pretty fun sometimes though cause 90% of the time they will flat out lie and say they avidly surf or spend all there time at the beach, when it is completely obviously not the case, to try to impress. I on the other hand am attracted to just about every style and body type. Personality is just about the only deal maker(or breaker, I suppose). __________________ Free yer bewbs

07-08-2008, 12:50 PM	#12 (permalink)
Skywarp More Equal Join Date: May 2006 Location: Pha That Luang Posts: 438 Thanks: 17 Thanked 44 Times in 37 Posts	I get alot of play from daywalkers... I also have a gentle face and demeanor which attracts beezys that were/are in rough relationships, It's the whole security thing... Plus I have a way with words and a sutible confidence that screams "i could have you if i wanted but i don't" which drives them nuts... __________________ ?

07-08-2008, 10:23 AM	#3 (permalink)
noregretsyet YaHookan Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 60 Thanks: 0 Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts	Very old men here in sunny Florida....I am almost 60 and live in an over 55+ condo....average 90.+...and lots of horny men armed with VIAGRA here.....disgusting LOL!!!!! Not really as sex and love is alive with our seniors. Thank God for pharmaceutical help though. Glad us women don't have that failure of equipment problen.....NEVER MIND..........have a good one my fellow stoners around the world.

07-08-2008, 10:42 AM	#4 (permalink)
dandeliion YaHookan Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California. Posts: 18 Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 2 Posts	Old men of Latino descent, but honestly I think a lot of them are attracted to anything with a vag. +Guys I have no interest in whatsoever. = I'll be single for ever.

07-08-2008, 01:41 PM	#13 (permalink)
Rankz what, what? Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 16 Thanks: 3 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	Emotionally damaged girls are always on my shit, or really sweet virgin type girls. I don't know what else to say.

07-08-2008, 01:57 PM	#14 (permalink)
my_scatterheart Today, I am alive. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 177 Thanks: 17 Thanked 13 Times in 11 Posts	It's depressing, actually. No one at first glance. People have to get to know me, which I think is weird, because I'm not fucking ugly. Really, I swear. Who? Really broad spectrum. Primarily hippie guys, and/or insecure intellectuals. __________________ ChillMill™ Crankin it out since 1990.

07-08-2008, 02:37 PM	#16 (permalink)
_tyranT YaHookan Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: dyt Posts: 1,419 Thanks: 7 Thanked 21 Times in 14 Posts	Seems like the more slutty girls are attracted to me and drugie type girls. or big women. that and old queers weirdo's always trying to shake my hand.

07-08-2008, 02:38 PM	#17 (permalink)
Patrick Rue Boss of Bluntville Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 16,429 Thanks: 356 Thanked 245 Times in 122 Posts	Honestly, everyone. Except haters. edit: and being a hater is just a form of denial. __________________ 6 Month Plan

07-08-2008, 02:43 PM	#18 (permalink)
snowmayne lolwut? Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: your moms Posts: 4,136 Thanks: 6 Thanked 37 Times in 24 Posts	The few times I've been single in the past years, I seem to easily be able to pull women of a latin background and women with more of an urban style.

07-08-2008, 02:45 PM	#19 (permalink)
snowmayne lolwut? Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: your moms Posts: 4,136 Thanks: 6 Thanked 37 Times in 24 Posts	plus geeno he's always hit on me and weedwax

07-08-2008, 02:47 PM	#20 (permalink)
Skywarp More Equal Join Date: May 2006 Location: Pha That Luang Posts: 438 Thanks: 17 Thanked 44 Times in 37 Posts	grieves loves aidz too __________________ ?