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Old 06-09-2009, 10:09 PM   #1 (permalink)
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yelling during arguements

yay nay or gay?
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:29 PM   #2 (permalink)
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sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works.
 
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:32 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Kishar View Post
sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works.
takes one to know one.
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:34 PM   #4 (permalink)
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yelling during agreements is where the most progress is made
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instead of setting out to connect all the dots, the intent of zen is seeing the dots, letting them connect and then seeing how oneself connects to them.
"Knowledge speaks, wisdom listens" Hendrix
"A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger"- words to live by
 
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:35 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Kishar View Post
sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works.
Has that ever worked, ever?

If you need to yell to get your point across than you need think about who you are really trying to convince...

Yelling to me serves the same purpose as throwing blows, it is a last resort if my well-being is threatened...Not really an everyday tactic in conflict resolution though...
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:35 PM   #6 (permalink)
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i'm a loud person.
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:36 PM   #7 (permalink)
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an argument without yelling is just a debate.
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FUCK FYUCJK FYCJ!!


I just wrote like 10 gucking PARAGRAHPS AND I HIT A FUCING LINK BYACCIDENT HOLY FUCK IM ANGRY
 
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:42 PM   #8 (permalink)
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And a debait without worms kind of defeats the purpose.
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:49 PM   #9 (permalink)
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^...i totally needed that.
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Old 06-09-2009, 10:55 PM   #10 (permalink)
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you basically need lots of guns and other gun related things to win an argument. yelling's for jerks.
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:03 PM   #11 (permalink)
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hwat ever happened to a good ole knife fight?
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Life is like jumping off a cliff, living the freefall. Some cliffs are taller then others, some have clouds all the way to the ground, and some you can see it approach. Whatever the characteristics of your personal cliff, you have the same two choices. You can scream in terror at the approaching ground, whether you can see it or not, or you can yell for joy at the feeling of flying.
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:03 PM   #12 (permalink)
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the guys with guns won most of the time.
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:10 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Yelling is good when someone is about to get hit by a car.
 
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:14 PM   #14 (permalink)
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I like yelling over teh internetz like :WHAT TEH FUCFK YOU SONOFABITCHIN BAISSTARDS>!!!!!!!!! !!!11111111

what? do somethin
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Life is like jumping off a cliff, living the freefall. Some cliffs are taller then others, some have clouds all the way to the ground, and some you can see it approach. Whatever the characteristics of your personal cliff, you have the same two choices. You can scream in terror at the approaching ground, whether you can see it or not, or you can yell for joy at the feeling of flying.
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:24 PM   #15 (permalink)
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i'm curious to see what you guys think because a good friend of mine seems to always win arguements despite the fact he never makes any valid points. i never thought bigfoot was real but when a 6'3 dude is in your face screaming that he is, you tend to believe it.
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:37 PM   #16 (permalink)
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it depends... sometimes people just give in because the yeller is making a scene or being an asshole, or people just don't want shit to escalate by yelling back... would you define that as winning an argument?

I'd say it just makes the yelling person look mentally inferior, with little self control; unable to think fast enough to come up with a comment that has just as much, if not more, strength being said using his "inside voice"

Sometimes its easy to get caught up in the situation and we turn to our natural instincts, but it shows greater judgment and intelligence to remain calm.
 
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:46 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by dubtrice View Post
it depends... sometimes people just give in because the yeller is making a scene or being an asshole, or people just don't want shit to escalate by yelling back... would you define that as winning an argument?

I'd say it just makes the yelling person look mentally inferior, with little self control; unable to think fast enough to come up with a comment that has just as much, if not more, strength being said using his "inside voice"

Sometimes its easy to get caught up in the situation and we turn to our natural instincts, but it shows greater judgment and intelligence to remain calm.
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yeah, If someone is yelling at me I just relax and talk to them in a normal voice.. and like dudeman says it makes them look like a tool.
if it escalates or they say something out of line... then it's at least time to raise the voice..
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Life is like jumping off a cliff, living the freefall. Some cliffs are taller then others, some have clouds all the way to the ground, and some you can see it approach. Whatever the characteristics of your personal cliff, you have the same two choices. You can scream in terror at the approaching ground, whether you can see it or not, or you can yell for joy at the feeling of flying.
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Old 06-09-2009, 11:53 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Burner of trees View Post
i'm curious to see what you guys think because a good friend of mine seems to always win arguements despite the fact he never makes any valid points. i never thought bigfoot was real but when a 6'3 dude is in your face screaming that he is, *you tend to believe it.
* Or due to his sheer size and ability to make people shit their pants just by yelling and staring them in the eye, a lot of people give in to end the argument. Doesn't really means he convinced them he was right.
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Or you agree just to shut them the fuck up...
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