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pravakar · 04-10-2009, 01:04 PM

So it's not a huge problem but I figured advice wouldn't hurt.
I'm having problems finding girls. Girls here on campus are either not interested in me, I'm not interested in them, or way too closed to talk to. Being in boarding school, it's hard for me to know many girls from my actual home because I was hardly ever there. And when I actually do date someone, they crush my heart in one way or another for all kinds of crazy reasons and I'm sick of getting hurt. Any advice on what I should do?

**SageTree** · 04-10-2009, 04:13 PM

Putting this is Guidence and Support.

Kishar · 04-16-2009, 07:36 PM

Originally Posted by pravakar

So it's not a huge problem but I figured advice wouldn't hurt.
I'm having problems finding girls. Girls here on campus are either not interested in me, I'm not interested in them, or way too closed to talk to. Being in boarding school, it's hard for me to know many girls from my actual home because I was hardly ever there. And when I actually do date someone, they crush my heart in one way or another for all kinds of crazy reasons and I'm sick of getting hurt. Any advice on what I should do?

dont be so sissified for starters. what you need to do is bang some skanks and get some pussy under your belt and then you wont fall in love so easy in the future. i know that sounds harsh but thats the only way i know of puttin it.

once you reach MAC status like me you'll also be back handin bitches off your front porch.

it's a fine art that must be mastered over time, your not born with it.

Grieves · 04-16-2009, 07:47 PM

this may be totally off but...

Stop looking...Get over the need to attach to every woman and talk to women with no attachment...

Dozer McDozer · 04-16-2009, 09:55 PM

I'm gonna go with what Grieves said.

First though... Be a man. A Man i said.

Hopefully a girl will find you instead of the other way. Sometimes you gotta let things happen.

Patience.

or you want a girl real bad then you could take Kishars advice.

but seriously man, and don't get offended please, don't be such a girly man. Women can be cold though i know.

jag8 · 04-18-2009, 11:18 AM

like the above said, women tend to want a man. they have enough girlfriends.

im also going to have to go along with kishars advice and recommend a high dose of skanks.

its whats best for you man.

herbinator45 · 04-18-2009, 01:47 PM

the ones that find you are always better than the ones you find or look for.

Grieves · 04-18-2009, 02:01 PM

skanks aint gunna love you like your wife does...

Grieves · 04-18-2009, 02:21 PM

dude she is as bored as you are...do something for her and you bro...

Grieves · 04-18-2009, 02:27 PM

get over yourself...we all have to work hard to sustain our life's, loves, and mental health...If your not working hard for you, no one will...If you feel taken advantage of make a reasonable alternative and offer it up in discussion, stop stewing on it because that will lead to unwanted/unhelpful results...

Grieves · 04-18-2009, 03:47 PM

reasonable alternatives don't always mean to start over...

toastyroach · 04-19-2009, 03:55 PM

Originally Posted by pravakar

So it's not a huge problem but I figured advice wouldn't hurt.
I'm having problems finding girls. Girls here on campus are either not interested in me, I'm not interested in them, or way too closed to talk to. Being in boarding school, it's hard for me to know many girls from my actual home because I was hardly ever there. And when I actually do date someone, they crush my heart in one way or another for all kinds of crazy reasons and I'm sick of getting hurt. Any advice on what I should do?

stop trying to get into relationships and focus more on dating. a relationship is something that should just happen from dating.... (by dating i just mean meeting women & hanging out with them)

meeting women is easy when you stop caring about what people think of you.. actually, a lot of things in your life will get better when you stop caring what people think...

just say 'hi' to every single good looking girl you see.. hell, say it to the ones that aren't even that good looking just for fun & practice... then go in and start bullshitting with them, make a joke, blahblahblah and then by the end of the convo get their number... just keep doing it over and over again until it feels completely natural and you can do it with your eyes closed... don't 'hit on' them.. don't call them beautiful or anything like that, in fact, depending on the girls self esteem, you should even do the opposite and try to take them down a notch to lower their defenses... once you have the number, remember to let them come to you, never buy them gifts or do any stupid shit like that to try to get them to like you, and always make sure they know that they are just 1 in a million and if they don't like you, it doesn't matter because there's 999 etc more of them out there that will talk to and like you

That Stoner Kid · 04-19-2009, 07:38 PM

Stop being a pussy.