ugh I just want to rant

[myxomatosis]

Eh grudges weigh heavy my friend, best to let that shit go.

[clive]

I dont know why you need someone to be 'physical' with. sounds kinda messed up specially since you're pretty young. I guess we all got different issues but you can feel good without having to be with somebody.

[al-Mu'akhkhir]

plus your fingers are your best friend.

[shelbert008]

I dont know why you need someone to be 'physical' with. sounds kinda messed up specially since you're pretty young. I guess we all got different issues but you can feel good without having to be with somebody.

It's not that I "need" someone, but I enjoy being physical with someone. I've always been that way, I like hugs, I like holding hands, and I like snuggling. I've done it with my family for my entire life, so it's only natural that once I started becoming sexual that I would want to engage in those activities with a boy that I like. Trust me, I never feel like I need to have someone to make me happy or anything. I simply enjoy their company because I'm a social human being. And it's not like I was ever actively pursuing a partner, it just kind of happened that way. And in reality, I'm not THAT young, it's not like I'm 12. Yes, I am still incredibly young compared to the rest of my life, but this is the age when humans are supposed to be acting in that manner.

[slapstick]

I can relate to that. being single sucks, not because the sex is suddenly gone, its all the other little things, holding hands, cuddling, even having someone to hug on your way out the door.
its kinda jarring.

[toastyroach]

so I was talking to my boyfriend (possibly soon to be ex) today and everything was going pretty normal, we were talking about this hookah bar that he went to last night. Then pretty much out of nowhere he texts me and tells me that he asked out this chick on Thursday and she said yes but then he caught her kissing some other dude. Then he sent me another text saying that he didn't really care because she was "out of his age limit". What the fuck? All I could say was "why the hell are you telling me this". Man, I'm still pretty irritated by it. He was just like "well I felt like I needed to be honest with you", which I certainly appreciate, but still. It just really pisses me off, this guy was all like "I really like you and I just want to be with you, will you go steady with me and be my girlfriend" and yet he's going around probably using the exact same line. It's like he doesn't understand that I didn't have to be faithful to him, there were plenty of guys continuing to go after me after I had started dating him. I don't know, I'm just aggravated at the moment. I don't understand why I keep ending up with guys like this, my last boyfriend is starting to look pretty good at the moment.

i didn't read the other replies to this thread but... why are you so easy to get into relationships with people? didn't you just break up with a guy not long ago??

my personal believe is if we aren't gonna get married eventually some day, then why be in an exclusive relationship... if we're both really obsessed with eachother and both think there's potential for marriage someday, and we know eachother and trust eachother, then & only then will i be in an exlusive relationship (because at that point, it wouldn't even be something either of us would have to think about, it would just happen)... otherwise, lets just date & have fun & leave it at that & whatever happens, happens...

in all seriousness, why even bother getting into relationships with a person you know you aren't going to marry? its gay.. and posts like these are the exact reason why i'm the way i am.. how can you commit to a relationship with someone you don't even really know? it's crazy and IMO a bit immature and naive.... any kind of shit could happen, its too easy for one person to do something that turns the other off completely when you dont know eachother, then where are you left off (probably making a post like this.. no offence intended to you... i'm venting a little bit btw because i've been dealing with a lot of stalkers lately, and can't figure out hth ppl are still like this)

[turmaline]

In response to the original post.

You are still so young. Why in the heck would you want to be tied down. Why would you especially want to be tied down to someone who isn't in the same mindset as you.. At your age, you still don't even know who "you" are. Go out and live life for you. Make friends, travel be free. I have no idea why any young girl would want to waste their time in a relationship. Relationships take up so much of your own personal time.....time you could spend on yourself. Having fun andmeeting new people, learning and seeing differnt things....

Why would you feel you deserve someone who is playing with your head to begin with is beyond me.

YOU GO GIRLFREN!!

Become a strong, independant, happy, woman first! When it comes down to getting into a relationship....make sure it's what YOU want....don't go grabbing on to things just because.