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Old 04-23-2009, 01:01 AM   #1 (permalink)
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potential online suicide

fuck online people that you've known for a long time that say they are gonna kill themsleves and leave you fucking hanging not knowing how srs they are or not. She doesn't know how this makes me feel gg feeling completely helpless and irrelevent
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Old 04-23-2009, 01:14 AM   #2 (permalink)
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if u know someone that says they re planning to kill themselves its better to report it somewhere (their parents, relatives, local authorities etc), than see them die
 
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Old 04-23-2009, 01:23 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Well i cant because they havent fucking given me any such detail and i feel fucking completely responsible for not being able to help fucking WTH CAN I DO
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Old 04-23-2009, 10:09 AM   #4 (permalink)
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You call the emergency services, and give them their email address or whatever, myspace page name etc.... There's shit in the news every other month about some social networking tween saving a life doing this.
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Old 04-23-2009, 12:51 PM   #5 (permalink)
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fuck online people that you've known for a long time that say they are gonna kill themsleves and leave you fucking hanging not knowing how srs they are or not. She doesn't know how this makes me feel gg feeling completely helpless and irrelevent
Yeah, fuck, it's a shitty thing to do. It sucks having to call their relatives/whatever, and having to tell them their daughter/son said they were going to kill themselves.
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wake up, call some girl you know, give her the sob story, get some and get fed... it surprisingly works more often than you would think... its the whole motherly instinct thing...
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Old 04-23-2009, 02:13 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Honestly I think this has happened to me two or three times, people just sayin shit and signing off.


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Old 04-23-2009, 04:33 PM   #7 (permalink)
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lol this thread wasn't neccesary at all. Just gotta distance myself from emotionally fucked people is all. I only felt bad cuz when she said she was gonna slit I responded with 'have fun'. then a couple messages later etc she made it seem real. I suck oh well. rawr!
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Old 04-23-2009, 04:55 PM   #8 (permalink)
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lol this thread wasn't neccesary at all. Just gotta distance myself from emotionally fucked people is all. I only felt bad cuz when she said she was gonna slit I responded with 'have fun'. then a couple messages later etc she made it seem real. I suck oh well. rawr!
Yeah, you gotta be aware of people who need that kind of attention and, like you said, distance yourself from them.
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wake up, call some girl you know, give her the sob story, get some and get fed... it surprisingly works more often than you would think... its the whole motherly instinct thing...
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Old 04-23-2009, 05:11 PM   #9 (permalink)
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People who a seriously going to off themselves will, you wont find the note until its a done deal, there is no drama or tease. They show up dead.

People who threaten and talk smack and all that shit will probably out live most of us.

This isn't to say there aren't exceptions to the rule, some wolf criers will actually do themselves in, but it probably wasn't what was intended.

Something to think about...
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Old 04-23-2009, 05:15 PM   #10 (permalink)
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lol you met this girl online, that is all.
 
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Old 04-23-2009, 06:28 PM   #11 (permalink)
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^ you just met me online, kiddo. The fuck is your point, genius?

and yes, I do realize this, Number One. Like I said this thread really didn't need to be created. I'm a drunken idiot sometimes (or a lot)
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lol you met this girl online, that is all.
That is all?

Dude, a person is a person whether it's your best friend or some dude half way around the world. Just because it's over the internet doesn't mean you should not care about the life of another human being.

Man, you're fucked up if you care so little about a life
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:03 PM   #13 (permalink)
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No shit Aurora, but are you my online friend? My point is get a life, you must be pretty stupid to think I was trying to say otherwise.
 
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Old 04-24-2009, 05:55 AM   #14 (permalink)
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damn i wouldn't say distance yourself from them as someone above suggested.. If anything be as supportive as you can, let them know that you are there for them, etc.. and def try to notify the authorities if it appears to be that serious. some people that do stuff like this do so to get attention, and some are very serious about it.. A friend I've known since preschool left an away message on his msn "a fuckin hole in the head" and he shot himself in the head.. I guess there's not much i couldn't done, seeing as I didn't notice it until after he killed himself.. but i did still feel a little guilty for some reason
 
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Old 04-27-2009, 09:53 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Yeah people who are serious normally wont say anything like Oneder said

And most people who attempt suicide never wanted to die in the first place i know this.
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Old 04-27-2009, 09:57 PM   #16 (permalink)
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People who a seriously going to off themselves will, you wont find the note until its a done deal, there is no drama or tease. They show up dead.

People who threaten and talk smack and all that shit will probably out live most of us.

This isn't to say there aren't exceptions to the rule, some wolf criers will actually do themselves in, but it probably wasn't what was intended.

Something to think about...
that's all that needs to be said. agreed 100%.
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