| Guidance And Support Questions and issues of a serious nature including health, medicinal cannabis use, personal issues, relationship issues, communication problems, parenting, cross-generational issues, problems with parents, giving up and overcoming obstacles. |
06-20-2009, 09:37 AM
|
#1 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: gulf islands bc
Posts: 2,602
Thanks: 112
Thanked 195 Times in 137 Posts
|
bad to good to absolute worst in 30 seconds
so me and the wife have been having real tough times financially recently, like it's been rough, after i paid to get my wisdom tooth pulled, and we both paid off all our bills and insured the car, my bank account was cleared out and hers is 2k in the overdraft.
i did start a sweet new job, which pays nicely but we've been expecting to get these cheques in the mail (unemployment insurance, if you get fired / laid off / get your hours cut and quit) for like 1600$ which was gonna be our lifeline to somewhat get back on our feet for now.
but when the goverment called my old job to make sure everything is a-ok the new manager's a fucking miserable indian cunt and LIIED LIIIED LIEEED to them (no clue why we always got along!!) saying how i had plenty of hours and its a real shame that im gone cause she could of really used me.
which is total bs, my hours got cut in half and i would of been getting more on ei so now i dont think im getting the 1600$ or the 275$ a week for the next couple weeks.
its like wtf, the other managers at work are all like wtf too theyre on my side but what's been said has been fkin said and now im fucked. suuure i can go and 'appeal' the decision but fuck appeals never work and shit just doesn't work out for me.
im digging in the couch for change to buy some kraft dinner and a can of corn for supper tonight.
/rant
__________________
RIP Gov
|
|
|
|
|
06-20-2009, 09:39 AM
|
#2 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: gulf islands bc
Posts: 2,602
Thanks: 112
Thanked 195 Times in 137 Posts
|
and i was all bummed out about us being broke and stuff, so i wanted to see if i am still eligible for the ei claim and i was, so they let me file 3 reports in one sha-bam. so it went from bad to good! then this cunt just ruined everything for no fking reason like i dont understand why!!
and when i seen her she's all like i like the scam ur trying to pull, and im like wtf what scam u cut my hours go look at the old schedules,and she did and then just went like, oh, well i guess whats been done has been done.srry!
__________________
RIP Gov
|
|
|
|
|
06-20-2009, 10:08 AM
|
#3 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: las cruces, New Mexico
Posts: 422
Thanks: 71
Thanked 83 Times in 77 Posts
|
I don't mean to tell you what to do, but you really should try and appeal. whats the worst that could happen?
__________________
^
nigga went to "dont know what the fuck is going on" college - GHM
"well, they say that life is a joke. so try not to wait til the last moment to laugh at it." -verklingen
|
|
|
|
|
06-20-2009, 10:14 AM
|
#4 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Outside of L.A.
Posts: 2,292
Thanks: 202
Thanked 98 Times in 62 Posts
|
i got denied unemployment because my company used ADP totalsource for their payroll, which means they are technically called the employer. I talked to my hr and the only option other than quitting was to take family leave and not get paid for. i have to be with my with who is pregnant and help her and her disabled mom like three hourse away from where i worked, and neither of us have a car. so not getting paid was not an option, especially considering the people i was living with moved with someone else so i had no place to live.
ADP said that i didn't try to find all my options, etc etc, but my real employer knows i did. Its just a bunch of bullshit tax evasion shit. ADP is a piece of shit and always fucks up everyones checks and holiday pay.
definately appeal, i'm going to. my sister in law did and got hers approved. get copies of the old schedules and appeal.
__________________
|
Originally Posted by Seeds&Stems
|
after another opie binge, I'm happy to be able to shit also.. six fucking plunges it took to go down, I mean jesus, some got on my socks. It was like "Go down please god make it go down please ill never steal from work again oh shit above the rim...please god i'll stop pissing in the neighbors pool.....fuck its getting on my sock.
but hey at least I shit.
|
R.I.P. Gov
|
|
|
|
|
06-20-2009, 10:22 AM
|
#5 (permalink)
|
Join Date: May 2006
Location: Tyrannosaurusonto, On
Posts: 2,649
Thanks: 0
Thanked 143 Times in 121 Posts
|
canada doesn't work the same as the us
__________________
|
Originally Posted by Sk3tchyD4ZO
|
|
no doubt. the first place i had these was at Space Camp.
|
Originally Posted by Former President Hayes
|
stfu with this pretend bullshit cutesy "lol @ bears"
you don't know what its like to like in CONSTANT threat of bear attack.you don't even FUCKING KNOW.
|
Originally Posted by zoltron
|
Strain Description:
I don't strain when taking a shit...it just flies out.
|
|
|
|
|
|
06-21-2009, 09:51 AM
|
#6 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 1,111
Thanks: 631
Thanked 290 Times in 199 Posts
|
Best of luck to you Mikey. Things always have a strange way of working out, best of luck to you.
|
|
|
|
|
06-26-2009, 07:20 AM
|
#7 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Unceded Carrier/Sekani Tribal Land
Posts: 4,341
Thanks: 931
Thanked 741 Times in 565 Posts
|
Hope things are going better today for you Mikey.
__________________
AWAY FOR THE WEEKEND Nov.6-8 See you Monday.
Namaste

"Peaceful be heaven, peaceful the earth, peaceful the broad space between. Peaceful for us be the running waters, peaceful the plants and herbs! Peaceful to us be the signs of the future, peaceful what is done and undone, peaceful to us be what is and what will be. May all to us be gracious!" - Atharva Veda 19.9
|
|
|
|
|
07-09-2009, 07:13 PM
|
#8 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: gulf islands bc
Posts: 2,602
Thanks: 112
Thanked 195 Times in 137 Posts
|
well the manager's been canned.
i got a letter from the owner backing up my story, and the payroll lady.
and i sent my appeal today with the owner's letter and home phone #.
wish me luck!
__________________
RIP Gov
|
|
|
|
|
07-09-2009, 07:21 PM
|
#9 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: NJ
Posts: 748
Thanks: 258
Thanked 341 Times in 245 Posts
|
good luck dood! Everything's gonna work out and you're gonna get what you need
__________________
You are beautiful.
"The people I got to know—aboriginal people in Malaysia,...they enjoyed life, they lived life. Life did not live them, as happens to us."
-Robert Wolff
|
|
|
|
|
07-09-2009, 10:15 PM
|
#10 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: in some pussy
Posts: 3,015
Thanks: 294
Thanked 187 Times in 149 Posts
|
Originally Posted by slapstick
|
|
I don't mean to tell you what to do, but you really should try and appeal. whats the worst that could happen?
|
dude I doubt you have much experience in trying to interact with the government...
He probably wouldn't hear anything from the gov't until 6 months later, when he's totally bankrupt and out on the streets...
I'm still waiting on child allowance owed to me for the time I spent living on my own when I was underage.
I applied almost a year ago for retroactive payment of 2 years time.
Haven't heard anything yet...
edit: best of luck to you mikey, I'm sure the cookie will start crumbling in your favour soon enough... loan money from someone if you have to... you can make it man!
__________________
|
|
|
|
|
07-09-2009, 10:26 PM
|
#11 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Methuen, MASSHOLE
Posts: 1,927
Thanks: 19
Thanked 79 Times in 59 Posts
|
You need to send the info certified mail so you get the date they received it and then keep following up.
I think you will win easily.
__________________
I may not agree with what you have to say but I'll defend your right to say it to my death
|
|
|
|
|
07-09-2009, 11:23 PM
|
#12 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 2,918
Thanks: 11
Thanked 42 Times in 35 Posts
|
good luck brah alot of us are have those kind of difficulties i got my hours cut down to 40 which sucks because the 20 hours a week i was getting in overtime was what was making my life comfortable and now im making about half as much.
Call your states workforce development and try fighting your employers unless you still work for them. I dont know how it is up north but i know down here WFD sides with the employee 95% of the time.
Most people would hate to do it but you can always try for food stamps or the quest cards if you need that shit for food my parents were having a really hard time back in the late 80 when there was a recession and we had to get food assistance which they thought was embarasing but they had to do iti to feed my brother and sister and be able to make ends meat. Those days are gone and now they are very comfortable not rich but comfortable.
I know it sounds cliche but least you and your lady have your health, shit will get worst before it gets better so just hang in there and think positive brah
__________________
"You want to have sex with The Max"
LOL
|
|
|
|
|
07-15-2009, 11:15 PM
|
#13 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: gulf islands bc
Posts: 2,602
Thanks: 112
Thanked 195 Times in 137 Posts
|
thank you all for the positive comments, nothing yet in the mail I know it takes a while but I cant help but check it compulsively, I really need some good vibes sent this way...
the way I look at it it's me and the old lady nothing ever works out for us, it's always the hardway or the longway it's just always fucking hard, we never get nothing handed to us we're always fucked and struggling and maybe this one time whoever is up there might throw us a bone, I hope soo
__________________
RIP Gov
|
|
|
|
|
07-16-2009, 12:03 AM
|
#14 (permalink)
|
Yahoooooooooooooooooookan
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Canada
Posts: 741
Thanks: 76
Thanked 55 Times in 42 Posts
|
so if I understand correctly...
- your hours were cut
- you applied for, and were approved for, EI benefits based on those hours being cut
- your application was then rejected because of your manager telling them something that is directly contradictory to the schedules
- said manager got fired (presumably for incompetence?)
... and you're thinking about NOT appealing? It seems pretty cut and dry. No, you won't get your money today or tomorrow, but no sense not getting it at all. By the sounds of it, as long as you can prove what you're saying (by which I mean, get copies of those old schedules, letters from the managers who supported your position, etc) you're going to win eventually. That's the key to all this, get copies of all the relevant documents or you have nothing to appeal with. Make sure and also keep any correspondence between yourself and EI and your old employer.
My concern would be, wouldn't your EI benefits be decreased or canceled due to you getting a new job? How long were you in between jobs? Or were you always working, just at reduced hours?
If you were working the whole time they might view that favourably. Like, look Mr. Government sir, I have been doing my best to support my family by working as much as I can but they cut my hours, and so according to your EI rules, you ought to pay me, pretty please. If that doesn't work, egg the legislature.
__________________
Wildcard, bitches! - Charlie Kelly
|
Originally Posted by R1bal
|
|
my sister is a bartender and i bet you all the money you have i have been to her bar more times than you have been to every bar in your life
|
Last edited by burnt_hiphophead; 07-16-2009 at 12:05 AM.
|
|
|
|
|
07-16-2009, 12:04 AM
|
#15 (permalink)
|
Yahoooooooooooooooooookan
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Canada
Posts: 741
Thanks: 76
Thanked 55 Times in 42 Posts
|
PS try and stay positive man! Everyone goes through tough times, but if it weren't for tough times, there'd be no good times, amirite?
__________________
Wildcard, bitches! - Charlie Kelly
|
Originally Posted by R1bal
|
|
my sister is a bartender and i bet you all the money you have i have been to her bar more times than you have been to every bar in your life
|
|
|
|
|
|
07-16-2009, 07:39 AM
|
#16 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Unceded Carrier/Sekani Tribal Land
Posts: 4,341
Thanks: 931
Thanked 741 Times in 565 Posts
|
Much  Mikey!!!!!
__________________
AWAY FOR THE WEEKEND Nov.6-8 See you Monday.
Namaste

"Peaceful be heaven, peaceful the earth, peaceful the broad space between. Peaceful for us be the running waters, peaceful the plants and herbs! Peaceful to us be the signs of the future, peaceful what is done and undone, peaceful to us be what is and what will be. May all to us be gracious!" - Atharva Veda 19.9
|
|
|
|
|
07-16-2009, 09:15 PM
|
#17 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Aug 2003
Posts: 3,821
Thanks: 24
Thanked 136 Times in 63 Posts
|
dude fight that shit balls to the wall man, take back what is yours!!!
dont let some piece of shit bitch ruin your life!!!
best of luck
__________________
FUCK THE ROBOTS!!!
NUKE THE WHALES!!!
Last edited by SageTree; 07-17-2009 at 06:41 AM.
Reason: doesn't matter if the bitch is an indian, so why mention it?
|
|
|
|
|
08-05-2009, 08:32 AM
|
#18 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: gulf islands bc
Posts: 2,602
Thanks: 112
Thanked 195 Times in 137 Posts
|
Wow.
Well what do you know, I guess there is karma in this world.
Thanks for all the good vibes you guys!
The gov called my work, talked to the bookkeeper lady who backed up my story, read the letter I had attached with my appeal and yesterday in the mail I got a letter saying how I can file my reports now for the last week of june and most of july, that's 2 reports.
So I filed them online and they say I can file the next one this saturday. Usually when you get a piece of paper with your confirmation number saying how you can file your reports it means your good to go. and I've got 2 backed up reports (almost 1000$) and I can file the next one on saturday (around 500$).
But then again I'll believe it when I see it but it all looks ever so promising. Thanks for all the good vibes.
__________________
RIP Gov
|
|
|
|
|
08-05-2009, 08:33 AM
|
#19 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: gulf islands bc
Posts: 2,602
Thanks: 112
Thanked 195 Times in 137 Posts
|
This comes at a perfect time too seeing as how we need new brakes for the car.
__________________
RIP Gov
|
|
|
|
|
08-05-2009, 08:38 AM
|
#20 (permalink)
|
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Unceded Carrier/Sekani Tribal Land
Posts: 4,341
Thanks: 931
Thanked 741 Times in 565 Posts
|
Right on mikey, glad things are going the right direction for ya
__________________
AWAY FOR THE WEEKEND Nov.6-8 See you Monday.
Namaste

"Peaceful be heaven, peaceful the earth, peaceful the broad space between. Peaceful for us be the running waters, peaceful the plants and herbs! Peaceful to us be the signs of the future, peaceful what is done and undone, peaceful to us be what is and what will be. May all to us be gracious!" - Atharva Veda 19.9
|
|
|
|
|
|
Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
|
|
|
| Thread Tools |
|
|
| Display Modes |
Linear Mode
|
Posting Rules
|
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
HTML code is Off
|
|
|
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:59 PM.
|
|