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Old 07-22-2009, 02:21 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Fuck dumbass people

specially when they are your friends. my friends can seam like the brightest people in the world one second and then the dumbest the next. fml

one time... they didn't know what uppers were but one person was was trying to describe them(we were talking about whippets). He said it was from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia when they crash the car into the wall.

I said "uppers and downers, they were fear and loathing in las vegas too." Then everyone looked at me like I just made it up. Then one kid who thinks he knows everything about everything starts laughing and says,"what the fuck are you talking about?" and everyone else starts laughing at me too... Some people need to grow the fuuck upp.
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Old 07-22-2009, 02:53 AM   #2 (permalink)
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specially when they are your friends. my friends can seam like the brightest people in the world one second and then the dumbest the next. fml

one time... they didn't know what uppers were but one person was was trying to describe them(we were talking about whippets). He said it was from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia when they crash the car into the wall.

I said "uppers and downers, they were fear and loathing in las vegas too." Then everyone looked at me like I just made it up. Then one kid who thinks he knows everything about everything starts laughing and says,"what the fuck are you talking about?" and everyone else starts laughing at me too... Some people need to grow the fuuck upp.
Uppers and downers are classifications of drugs, they are not "from" any kind of movie or tv show...You are not saying anything different than they are, just trying to use a different medium to describe em...It really just sounds like you are pissed at your own stupidity...
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Old 07-22-2009, 03:01 AM   #3 (permalink)
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lmao poor spanky.
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Old 07-22-2009, 03:08 AM   #4 (permalink)
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erm, not really. I tried to describe uppers and downers and how they aren't the same as regular NO2 whippets(cause they thought they were).
they just didn't understand what I was saying. when ever I use semi big words, they will laugh at me because they don't understand. we were talking about setting up grow rooms and I said the dispensary has free "cultivation consultation." and they started laughing and proceeded to ask what it means.
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Old 07-22-2009, 03:09 AM   #5 (permalink)
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these people are just ass holes though, they make fun of other people(even their friends) behind their backs like it's nothing. it really is nothing, it's like it's what they do for fun though... they can't laugh unless they are laughing at some one.
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Old 07-22-2009, 03:12 AM   #6 (permalink)
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you are who you surround yourself with...

For real though, it sounds like you need to re-evaluate and take stock in how your friends really benefit you and if they are your friends out of want or friends out of convenience...

Also ask yourself if is it just pissing you off now or is it something that needs to be changed?
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yeah so...

its always sunny in philly is pretty funny to me.
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Old 07-22-2009, 07:49 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Yea Dude, if that is what your friends call a good time, it's time to rethink them. It's hard when we 'grow up' faster than friends, but this is life and people do drift apart for neutral and negative reasons. Don't be afraid to keep modeling good behaviour to them though. Sometimes you have to set the bar. Just don't feed their fire if they are laughing about something.

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Old 07-22-2009, 10:46 AM   #9 (permalink)
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You said they can be bright one second but not the next, how can they be bright when you described them as total morons.

And on another note I think your overthinking it, I mean think about it, if they're idiots and you know they're idiots, then why do you care what they think.
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Old 07-22-2009, 11:57 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I've noticed a trend of your threads (OP) being focused on mostly negative aspects of life, almost entirely. Might want to look into that.

If your 'friends' don't know something, why not enlighten them? If they still don't listen, then who cares? Have enough self respect/confidence to just laugh it off, not come on a message board and bitch.

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Old 07-22-2009, 12:19 PM   #11 (permalink)
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sometimes its better to know that what you know may be right than to try and tell everyone they are wrong.

dumb people are dumb because they dont learn. no need to try and teach them if they dont directly ask for you to impart some knowledge upon them.
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"that is classic tammy.."

anyone? no?
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Old 07-22-2009, 01:37 PM   #13 (permalink)
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If your 'friends' don't know something, why not enlighten them?
I wish it was that easy...

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no need to try and teach them if they dont directly ask for you to impart some knowledge upon them.
this is pretty much how I think of it more or less.

It's just the situation, they grew up in colorado(with each other) so once three best friends get an idea in their head, it's hard to get it out.

For the first three months I knew them they called me,"Nebraska." Like, what the fuck? It's like they don't want to be out-smarted by the nebraskan, they cover for each other when they say something stupid. I'm a lot quieter than them in a big social setting so they think it's okay for them to say stupid shit, but I have to be the smart one that doesn't say anything dumb. I don't even know, I don't fucking get it.



I will admit I do over-think more than most people, but I just want friends that won't try to degrade me for saying something without thinking about it.

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IHave enough self respect/confidence to just laugh it off, not come on a message board and bitch.

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Or have some consideration for other people.

these "friends" have convinced me I'm wrong about things that I've looked up afterwords and I was right. they actually fuck with my head and the way I think when I'm around them.

social skills < intelligence
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if they are trying to make you look stupid?

I know someone like that and when this person does it....any normal person around thinks..."wow what a dick!"

if your friends are laughing at you...find new friends.
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You need to grow up, they cover each other because they have known each other longer, you are just the new guy...They act that way because you give them an emotional response, either get over it, deal with it or suddenly grow up and become apathetic...

This will happen in all situations you put yourself in until you change...Remember 90% of how someone treats you is based on your approach, you come at them all defensive and they are going to "attack" you every time...
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Old 07-22-2009, 01:48 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Sounds like they were just busting your balls. right or wrong you should chill the hell out.
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now i look dumb lol
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Old 07-22-2009, 01:52 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Sounds like they were just busting your balls. right or wrong you should chill the hell out.
I do try to play it off cool as possible of course, but it just seams like it happens more than it should. that's all.
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No one is immune to ball busting nor do they get theirs busted more or less than anyone else, its natures way of telling you that you are being a little bitch and should probably just drop it...

and always remember it just means they like ya...
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Old 07-22-2009, 01:58 PM   #20 (permalink)
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When you become a cynical old fuck, none of this will matter. And believe me, it's just around the corner. I hope that cheers everyone up.
 
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