Fucked up my entire life

[yo.]

as i knew it. i lost my girl and the majority of my good friends. all because of some shit i did cuz i was shit faced drunk!

[myxomatosis]

I'm willing to bet it seems worse than it is, that's generally how those things work. Wake up the morning after feeling like the biggest fucking idiot in the world.

What'd you do?

[yo.]

Friday night i went to a party with my girl. got blitz'd playin beer pong all night then my girl disappears while some bangin hot girls were dancin in front of me... so my drunk ass forgets about my girl and starts hittin on the girls, quite rudely thinkin back now that i'm sober. slappin their asses and shit... but yeah i know i fucked up man and i did it to myself... i just kinda need to vent. i feel like the whole world just crashed down on me. i loved that girl so much man i would have never done that being sober... plus one of them girls was my homeboys lil sister... yeah i forgot to mention that. so now he wants to kill me and his whole family which includes about 5 or 6 other good friends too..

[yo.]

plus all this stress and depressions got me physically sick...

[Grieves]

yup you did fuck up...sucks

[yo.]

no doubt.

[myxomatosis]

If homeboy wants to kill you for simply hitting on his sister then he's a clown, unless it was way worse than you described. You were a drunk idiot, it happens. If those two things are the worst you did in that state and your friends can't forgive you then that's rather fucked up. Your girl will probably be able to get over that, but yeah, was definitely rude and a dumb move as you already know. Chin up man, shit'll blow over unless you're associating with a bunch of idiots.

[yo.]

thanks man. if i believed in god i would pray your right.

and na all i did was slap her ass one time and was callin her sexy and etc but man they was sittin there dancin for me... what straight guy wouldn't go with that?

[turmaline]

Sounds like you just fucked up your social life...in a year or months or less. this will all be forgotten.

Isn't booze awesome!?

[yo.]

yes. lol i blame myself more than the booze.

although i wouldn't have done this with my girl at the same party if there was no alcohol involved. thats just retarded...

[Mafoo]

you were drunk, you acted a fool. what did you expect? lol

it happens dude. if you apologize and make an effort to control yourself (im assuming this doesnt happen often) your friends and girlfriend should be willing to forgive you. if not, i guess you learned a hard lesson.

good luck

[yo.]

this is the first time i've ever fucked over either one of them. but ever since that happened all these girls that hate me started talkin shit and bringin up shit from the past and told her all kinds of exaggerated shit. the night that it all happened she brought me home and slept with me and everything talkin about its okay and shit... then i wake up to a note sayin call me when you wake up. p.s. you fuckin pissed on your floor! yeah i was so drunk i guess i got up in my sleep and just pissed in my room... so i call her and she says she needs a week alone to think. but later that day after talkin to all them people about me, she says she wants nothin to do with me any more and to stop textin her....

[Mafoo]

well then fuck her

why should she listen to everyone else when its you and her?

[turmaline]

wow that sucks.

[№1]

this is the first time i've ever fucked over either one of them. but ever since that happened all these girls that hate me started talkin shit and bringin up shit from the past and told her all kinds of exaggerated shit. the night that it all happened she brought me home and slept with me and everything talkin about its okay and shit... then i wake up to a note sayin call me when you wake up. p.s. you fuckin pissed on your floor! yeah i was so drunk i guess i got up in my sleep and just pissed in my room... so i call her and she says she needs a week alone to think. but later that day after talkin to all them people about me, she says she wants nothin to do with me any more and to stop textin her....

Then do it, stop talking to her...


You're fucking young man, you have no idea what love and a relationship is and neither does she. Period.

You have far more important things to worry about anyway, like what are you going to be when you grow up man, where are you gonna live, how are you going to support this life you're living. Shit thats about you, not you and (insert current squeeze here).

Once you figure out how you can live with yourself, then you can trouble yourself with the idea of living someone elses life as well.

This doesn't mean monk up until you find out where the road is going, but don't lash yourself to the first palm tree you find and settle in to ride out the fifty to sixty year storm ahead.

Go out there, fuck up and find your own way out.



Oh yeah, from my point of view, if she is going to listen to what everyone else says and doesn't want to talk to you about it then she aint as in to you as you seem to be into her. If she really cared, people could have told her you molest cats and eat babies, she should at least ask you about it before writing you off.

Good luck kemosabe and remember this little fact...

World Population 6,829,360,438(total) 3,442,850,573(male) 3,386,509,865(female )

This aint gonna be your only shot.

[Mafoo]

good post no1

[yo.]

yeah thanks man but it's really more about making it up to them..
i feel so bad about all of it cause thats not me ya know.. i was just shit faced drunk and they seduced my drunk ass. lol

[msicidron]

lil hos be seducin

[Mafoo]

ive been where you are at killer, you can only apologize so many times to a person before they have to start forgiving you or not.

it takes some effort from both parties. if you keep that in mind you can still show your regret and maintain your dignity by not groveling and begging to be taken back. (not saying youre doing that) just apologize, be sincere and then let the ball be in her court. you made a mistake so you have to live with whatever happens, as much as that sucks.

[stoneric]

I'm always amazed when I hear about people just pissing anywhere. I thought that ended when I stopped doing it.