No Quarter

Rankz · 07-02-2008, 11:37 PM

In order for me to overcome my love for you, I must leave you. Deleting you from my memories... having you around only damages my wounds more. If I don't erase you I will never heal, and I will never overcome myself.

-Rankzy

Smaerd · 07-02-2008, 11:51 PM

Memories are erase-able, though everything is in a network(neuronets how your brain associates memory and experiance), and you may look at yahooka, then remember typing this post, then remember who it was about. I understand these emotions, was it a first love?

You just have to learn how to rewire your network of love to another or the ideal of another. Be careful of rebounds this is the very reason as to why they exist. Usually doing this require time, and lack of emotional investment by unlearning the addictive thoughts of the love you experianced.

Keep posting!

Rankz · 07-03-2008, 05:42 AM

Yeah, first love... she wants to get back together but I can't handle this. She puts me through so much without even realizing it. I'm done, i've reached my limit. I just have to cut myself off from her.

edit: i'll fall in love with someone else? right?...

Seeds&Stems · 07-03-2008, 07:42 AM

as you grow older you'll find (unless you are cold psychotic bastard) your capacity to love will grow and mature and likely you will look back on this as a learning experience. Try to let go of the pain and look only at the good times and use those in your next relationships.

and yes you will find another love, unless you hold onto the pain and wallow in self pitty for so long that it makes you unattractive to girls.

Smaerd · 07-03-2008, 01:58 PM

That's the one good thing about yahooka, FREE personal advice from all viewpoints of life! your at home here rankz and feel free to join in on any discussion, you'll learn a lot if you let yourself!

Rankz · 07-03-2008, 09:36 PM

I hooked up with her.. woops. We weren't drunk. woops. =| this isn't going to make it easier to get over her.

Smaerd · 07-03-2008, 10:53 PM

Be careful with hookups with crazy women. My friend hooked with this broad and the next day she was calling it rape. My other dude had to plea against her cuz it wasn't even true, he still was demoralized. And ended up running into one of the jury at some concert and she said "I still think you raped that poor girl. I hope you can live with yourself!"

And cuz you said you weren't drunk I am assuming you were, which is a whole nother charge brother man.

Rankz · 07-03-2008, 11:01 PM

No no, I really mean I wasn't intoxicated at all. it just fucks with my head.

Smaerd · 07-04-2008, 02:56 AM

I was just giving you a little heads up on the scary reality of crazy people. Incase you didn't already know.

07-02-2008, 11:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
Rankz what, what? Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 16 Thanks: 3 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	No Quarter In order for me to overcome my love for you, I must leave you. Deleting you from my memories... having you around only damages my wounds more. If I don't erase you I will never heal, and I will never overcome myself. -Rankzy

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07-02-2008, 11:51 PM	#2 (permalink)
Smaerd observations kill me Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Vagrant Status Posts: 2,049 Thanks: 259 Thanked 346 Times in 254 Posts	Memories are erase-able, though everything is in a network(neuronets how your brain associates memory and experiance), and you may look at yahooka, then remember typing this post, then remember who it was about. I understand these emotions, was it a first love? You just have to learn how to rewire your network of love to another or the ideal of another. Be careful of rebounds this is the very reason as to why they exist. Usually doing this require time, and lack of emotional investment by unlearning the addictive thoughts of the love you experianced. Keep posting!

07-03-2008, 05:42 AM	#3 (permalink)
Rankz what, what? Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 16 Thanks: 3 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	Yeah, first love... she wants to get back together but I can't handle this. She puts me through so much without even realizing it. I'm done, i've reached my limit. I just have to cut myself off from her. edit: i'll fall in love with someone else? right?...

07-03-2008, 01:58 PM	#5 (permalink)
Smaerd observations kill me Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Vagrant Status Posts: 2,049 Thanks: 259 Thanked 346 Times in 254 Posts	That's the one good thing about yahooka, FREE personal advice from all viewpoints of life! your at home here rankz and feel free to join in on any discussion, you'll learn a lot if you let yourself!

07-03-2008, 09:36 PM	#6 (permalink)
Rankz what, what? Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 16 Thanks: 3 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	I hooked up with her.. woops. We weren't drunk. woops. =\| this isn't going to make it easier to get over her.

07-03-2008, 10:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
Smaerd observations kill me Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Vagrant Status Posts: 2,049 Thanks: 259 Thanked 346 Times in 254 Posts	Be careful with hookups with crazy women. My friend hooked with this broad and the next day she was calling it rape. My other dude had to plea against her cuz it wasn't even true, he still was demoralized. And ended up running into one of the jury at some concert and she said "I still think you raped that poor girl. I hope you can live with yourself!" And cuz you said you weren't drunk I am assuming you were, which is a whole nother charge brother man.

07-03-2008, 11:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
Rankz what, what? Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 16 Thanks: 3 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post	No no, I really mean I wasn't intoxicated at all. it just fucks with my head.

07-04-2008, 02:56 AM	#9 (permalink)
Smaerd observations kill me Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Vagrant Status Posts: 2,049 Thanks: 259 Thanked 346 Times in 254 Posts	I was just giving you a little heads up on the scary reality of crazy people. Incase you didn't already know.

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