yelling during arguements

Burner of trees · 06-09-2009, 10:09 PM

yay nay or gay?

Kishar · 06-09-2009, 10:29 PM

sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works.

**~~SpankyMcLankey~~** · 06-09-2009, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Kishar

sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works.

takes one to know one.

**Mafoo** · 06-09-2009, 10:34 PM

yelling during agreements is where the most progress is made

Grieves · 06-09-2009, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Kishar

sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works.

Has that ever worked, ever?

If you need to yell to get your point across than you need think about who you are really trying to convince...

Yelling to me serves the same purpose as throwing blows, it is a last resort if my well-being is threatened...Not really an everyday tactic in conflict resolution though...

**AlteredStateGrl** · 06-09-2009, 10:35 PM

i'm a loud person.

Waves · 06-09-2009, 10:36 PM

an argument without yelling is just a debate.

Sir-Ex · 06-09-2009, 10:42 PM

And a debait without worms kind of defeats the purpose.

**AlteredStateGrl** · 06-09-2009, 10:49 PM

^

...i totally needed that.

Aurora · 06-09-2009, 10:55 PM

you basically need lots of guns and other gun related things to win an argument. yelling's for jerks.

Dr. Drew · 06-09-2009, 11:03 PM

hwat ever happened to a good ole knife fight?

Aurora · 06-09-2009, 11:03 PM

the guys with guns won most of the time.

**SageTree** · 06-09-2009, 11:10 PM

Yelling is good when someone is about to get hit by a car.

Dr. Drew · 06-09-2009, 11:14 PM

I like yelling over teh internetz like :WHAT TEH FUCFK YOU SONOFABITCHIN BAISSTARDS>!!!!!!!!! !!!11111111

what? do somethin

Burner of trees · 06-09-2009, 11:24 PM

i'm curious to see what you guys think because a good friend of mine seems to always win arguements despite the fact he never makes any valid points. i never thought bigfoot was real but when a 6'3 dude is in your face screaming that he is, you tend to believe it.

dubtrice · 06-09-2009, 11:37 PM

it depends... sometimes people just give in because the yeller is making a scene or being an asshole, or people just don't want shit to escalate by yelling back... would you define that as winning an argument?

I'd say it just makes the yelling person look mentally inferior, with little self control; unable to think fast enough to come up with a comment that has just as much, if not more, strength being said using his "inside voice"

Sometimes its easy to get caught up in the situation and we turn to our natural instincts, but it shows greater judgment and intelligence to remain calm.

Aurora · 06-09-2009, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by dubtrice

it depends... sometimes people just give in because the yeller is making a scene or being an asshole, or people just don't want shit to escalate by yelling back... would you define that as winning an argument?

I'd say it just makes the yelling person look mentally inferior, with little self control; unable to think fast enough to come up with a comment that has just as much, if not more, strength being said using his "inside voice"

Sometimes its easy to get caught up in the situation and we turn to our natural instincts, but it shows greater judgment and intelligence to remain calm.

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Dr. Drew · 06-09-2009, 11:47 PM

yeah, If someone is yelling at me I just relax and talk to them in a normal voice.. and like dudeman says it makes them look like a tool.
if it escalates or they say something out of line... then it's at least time to raise the voice..

Aurora · 06-09-2009, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Burner of trees

i'm curious to see what you guys think because a good friend of mine seems to always win arguements despite the fact he never makes any valid points. i never thought bigfoot was real but when a 6'3 dude is in your face screaming that he is, *you tend to believe it.

* Or due to his sheer size and ability to make people shit their pants just by yelling and staring them in the eye, a lot of people give in to end the argument. Doesn't really means he convinced them he was right.

Grieves · 06-10-2009, 12:43 AM

Or you agree just to shut them the fuck up...

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06-09-2009, 10:09 PM	#1 (permalink)
Burner of trees ya, yo. Join Date: May 2004 Location: where da skeezer be Posts: 5,908 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 121 Thanked 119 Times in 58 Posts	yelling during arguements yay nay or gay? __________________ Futurama quote of the day: (When I remember) Fry: Man, I thought Ultimate Robot Fighting was real, like pro wrestling, but it turns out it's fixed, like boxing.

06-09-2009, 10:29 PM	#2 (permalink)
Kishar loading user title.. Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: subcutaneous layer Posts: 2,201 Thanks: 117 Thanked 197 Times in 137 Posts	sometimes you have to yell at hard headed people...nothing else works. __________________ So, if a stranger walked up to you and poured pebble like seeds into your hand and then said, plant them and your harvest can be made into rope cloth or paper, it could help the sick or intoxicate. What would you say? Would you keep the seeds or chuck them away? RollREDRoll

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Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: the anguish of anticipated transformation Posts: 5,962 Thanks: 3,491 Thanked 2,356 Times in 1,540 Posts	yelling during agreements is where the most progress is made __________________ PLUR For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

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AlteredStateGrl (òÓ,)_\,,/ Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where Trouble Melts Like Lemon Drops High Above the Chimney Tops... Posts: 10,445 Thanks: 2,135 Thanked 1,783 Times in 1,089 Posts	i'm a loud person. __________________ The sweetest kittens have the sharpest claws.

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Waves Duderino Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: chiburbs Posts: 15,475 Thanks: 991 Thanked 4,021 Times in 2,219 Posts	an argument without yelling is just a debate. __________________ On this life that we call home The years go fast and the days go so slow

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AlteredStateGrl (òÓ,)_\,,/ Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Where Trouble Melts Like Lemon Drops High Above the Chimney Tops... Posts: 10,445 Thanks: 2,135 Thanked 1,783 Times in 1,089 Posts	^...i totally needed that. __________________ The sweetest kittens have the sharpest claws.

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Aurora Blackbird Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: snowy land Posts: 651 Thanks: 199 Thanked 204 Times in 148 Posts	you basically need lots of guns and other gun related things to win an argument. yelling's for jerks. __________________

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Aurora Blackbird Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: snowy land Posts: 651 Thanks: 199 Thanked 204 Times in 148 Posts	the guys with guns won most of the time. __________________

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06-09-2009, 11:24 PM	#15 (permalink)
Burner of trees ya, yo. Join Date: May 2004 Location: where da skeezer be Posts: 5,908 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 121 Thanked 119 Times in 58 Posts	i'm curious to see what you guys think because a good friend of mine seems to always win arguements despite the fact he never makes any valid points. i never thought bigfoot was real but when a 6'3 dude is in your face screaming that he is, you tend to believe it. __________________ Futurama quote of the day: (When I remember) Fry: Man, I thought Ultimate Robot Fighting was real, like pro wrestling, but it turns out it's fixed, like boxing.

06-09-2009, 11:37 PM	#16 (permalink)
dubtrice Old School Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: USA Posts: 417 Thanks: 83 Thanked 55 Times in 41 Posts	it depends... sometimes people just give in because the yeller is making a scene or being an asshole, or people just don't want shit to escalate by yelling back... would you define that as winning an argument? I'd say it just makes the yelling person look mentally inferior, with little self control; unable to think fast enough to come up with a comment that has just as much, if not more, strength being said using his "inside voice" Sometimes its easy to get caught up in the situation and we turn to our natural instincts, but it shows greater judgment and intelligence to remain calm.

06-10-2009, 12:43 AM	#20 (permalink)
Grieves Biblioburro... Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Terra Sancta Posts: 11,588 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 1,903 Thanked 2,559 Times in 1,424 Posts	Or you agree just to shut them the fuck up... __________________ "And no matter what they said dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever"

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