Kishar

i have no idea how i got mixed up in this smalltown bullshit. supposedly "I" said that my cousin who's 19 is selling pills to my nephew now the cousin wants to fight me...lol!

he stays at a relatives house and i went down there and confronted him and told him if he wants to fight me here i am. he wouldnt get up off the chair he just sat there mumbling some bullshit. i called him a bitch and a faggot and he wouldnt do shit.

mind you his stepdad and me are like best friends we hang out all the time..i watched this kid grow up since he was a baby and now he wants to fight me.

he's mad at the world right now, mom and stepdad kicked him out cuz he keeps fuckin up and wont seek help. he snaps at everyone and thinks he knows everything.

i'm getting heated tho cuz i keep hearing shit how he still wants to fight me but like i said his stepdad is one of my best friends and his mom is my 1st cousin...im like wtf is wrong with this boy!

i dont know if i should go down there and slap the dogshit out of him and risk losing a good friend (cuz i know his mom and stepdad would be PISSED!) or stay away and let it blow over.

i dont like having some 19 yr old punk saying he's gonna kick my ass....especially FAMILY!!! Wtf?!?!

what should i do?

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my_scatterheart

How old are you?

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AlteredStateGrl

You know why he's acting the way he is. He's mad at the world. Maybe right now all he needs is someone to say "look man, i know you're pissed off at the world right now, and that really fuckin' sucks, but do you really need to be taking it out on me and others? i don't want to fight you, maybe we can just squash all this drama..."

I really don't see that you need to fight him...sounds like he's just looking to take his aggressions and issues out on everyone around him. Show him he doesn't have to be pissed off at the world to validate whatever is bothering him right now. If he doesn't listen to your attempt to talk to him, I'd just ignore it all. He's 19, you've known him since he was a baby, and it would cause major drama between his mom and stepdad and you. I'm sure it would just eventually blow over, especially if you just sit and talk to him real quick. He may not be all "acting normal" again, but it'll at least give him a clearer picture...you don't really want drama with him when he's throwing a tantrum.

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osirus2020

It's not that hard to understand, man. He's projecting his frustration of everything onto you because he doesn't have a way to cope with it himself. It's pretty common for people to do.

Look, just talk to him and tell him that his kid wants to fight you for no reason.

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myxomatosis

You're like a poor mans mercury. At least he's kind of amusing, you're just sad and pathetic.

Permitted this is real, you're a grown man with children, why are you involved with high school drama? Grow up, all of you.

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osirus2020

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Kishar

thank you..great advice.

when i went down there my intentions were to talk to him, i tried but i admit i was mad and after watching his snide remarks thats when i called him names to see what he'd do which i regret cuz i'm the older one and should have been more mature about it.

im 33 scatt, and his dad does know about it, he was upset with me calling him a bitch but he said after he thought about he said he [the boy] can be hard headed and dads not mad now...lol.

this whole ordeal is fucked cuz i never said a damn thing about him...i think he just made this shit up. im just trying to mind my own business and i get caught up. wtf..lol.

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Kishar

i been asking myself this question too. i'm like leave me the hell alone im trying to raise a family dont make your problems mine or you will have a BIG fucking problem.

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msicidron

i dont think Kish is as much of a piece of shit as he seems...

i think a lot of it has to do with that chicken . . . . >.>

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Grieves

i can honestly say i could care less about you and your highschool hijinks...

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my_scatterheart

I couldn't care less

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Sugar420

im surprised Grieves of all ppl got that wrong


neway kish you know violence and anger doesnt solve these things, only love does. that guy needs your love

crookedhatinator45

^ no he doesn't [know that]. dude beats his kids.

maybe the whole 'grown up, family man' shit is an act. he looks like a 19-yr-old jon malkovich in the pics i've seen of him.

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tedkennedy

yea seems you already got a lot of good advice.


firstly, if he is saying something about you that isnt true, why not try to talk to him in a mature manner?

secondly, if he is an immature bitch why do you care what he thinks or says about you? just let it be, by instigating a fight you only make the situation worse

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Mafoo

be the bigger person. hes a child by most standards, especially from the description of how he acts. why dont you try being there instead of ALLOWING yourself to get sucked up in the smalltown bullshit

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The Rev

Is this a regular small town matter, or a backwoods small town matter? I ask because, if it were the latter, a good ass raping would straighten that boy right out.



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al-Mu'akhkhir

There's only one thing to do kish: kill everyone in your small down and set the place ablaze.

Go and start up a new life elsewhere.

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Kishar

i guess some of you are right i shouldnt even be worrying about it...i'll just forget the whole thing.

now you assholes leave me alone.

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