fenderbender

but fuckit



Im gonna break up with my girl this weekend.

It fucking sucks cause i honestly love the girl and shes madly in love with me so it isn't gonna be easy at all.

She goes to school a few hours away and im giving in to the urge to meet new people.

I love my girlfriend and i dont see that dieing out anytime soon. This is a problem only because im not ready yet to like get married and shit.
Im only 20 and have only been with 3 girls including her.

I really hope i dont lose her love, but i need to live a bit more before i get settled in like that. Life is fucking short.

I need to do it asap before i end up cheating on her, as i care about her too much to do that.

Kind of a weird situation and honestly it makes me feel greedy and stupid.
I have the love of a good girl and im throwing it away.

Id say im doing it b/c im scared, but honestly it is mainly just me being pussy crazy.



So yeah idk why im making this a thread,
Go ahead and use this to talk about how much of a pussy or/and naive i am.

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Roach

do one of those distance romances.

or does she expect you to "drive up" every weekrnd ?

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deadhead94

So, basically, there is a glowing hot piece of metal in front of you and you want to touch it. Even though you already know it is a bad idea?

For the record, it is thought processes like that that make me believe that people are stupid.

Don't plan on keeping her. Females generally don't like being pushed to the side because you can't just jerk off.

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Sir-Ex

You might be naive, but I wouldn't say you're a pussy; you're breaking up with her rather than just cheating on her.


And don't worry, it's not like she's the one or anything

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deadhead94

But wouldn't it be hilarious (and what people that don't know how to use language would call ironic) if that wasn't the case?

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Sir-Ex

I get the impression fenderbender here has never felt this way about her, and is conscious that she probably loves him more than he her. Based on that I'm guessing she's not...


but let's back it up.


Have you actually talked to your girlfriend about how you're feeling? It's completely natural to want to sleep with a number of people. It's part of growing up. See how she feels about it.

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deadhead94

Proposing an open relationship until such time that the distance can be removed will go over way better than breaking up with her to go get some ass. That is if there is the intention of keeping her.


Otherwise, please film it and put it up on youtube. The internet likes to watch people get stuck in the testicles.

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Sir-Ex

Sure sure. This is all conjecture on my part. Being a real man, in his situation I'd just fuck who I wanted and never tell her. Bitches be simple creatures and the less they knows about shit the better off they are.

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Ditch the cigs!!!!!!

deadhead94

That's probably the same thing she is doing.

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Man in Black

You're gonna end up hurtin her anyhow, right? Might as well get it out of the way.

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fenderbender

That is what it really is MiB.

I dont want to hurt her. Breaking up with her is gonna upset her and it sucks, but at least it isnt me being a bad person or anything. I just can't do a relationship that serious right now. I cant be faulted for that can I?

well im sure she will fault me for it, but i hope she gets over it at least.


And sir ex, I love this girl more than anything. She is like my only good friend right now and we are real comfortable and close. that being said, she still loves me more than i do her.

I plan on moving about a year from now to transfer schools, and she is always at school except on the few breaks she gets from school.


and Deadhead, about her being the one, I honestly could see marrying this girl someday. I care for her deeply, she is beautiful, and we get along great.

The problem is that i cant see myself marrying her without first getting some life experience and meeting new people. I need to get in a few more relationships and have a few more lovers first and get it out of my system.

I know i dont have to decide to marry this girl or not right now or anything, but just the fact that it is inevitable is weighing on my conscious always.



plus i crave new pussy.
Cant fight nature yo

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ChiefBongWater

Every pussy gets old eventually, You're always going to crave new girls to sleep with.

The key is to find one that you can put up with while you're not hitting it.

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Mafoo

i must be weird or something, but i am seeing alot of my former self in fenderbender. i dumped the only girl that i know has ever loved me because i wanted to see what else was out there.

now im 23 and biting stripper asses on the weekends. its lonely. so fucking lonely.


tl;dr
youre always going to want more pussy than you are actually getting. just because you think you wanna hit other girls doesnt mean its going to satisfy any part of you. first time you nut with some strange, youll realize what im saying.

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Roach

yup, marriage can't even stop that

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fenderbender

watch i never meet a girl as good as this again.

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fenderbender

fuckkk u guys are killing me now idk what to do

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fenderbender

i feel like this is one of those moments i might regret either way

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Roach

It's sort of like poker.

"You got to know when to hold em"...etc.

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Roach

No matter how you say it, there will most always be that rejection factor when one breaks off a relationship with another.

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