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Old 01-07-2003, 08:49 PM   #1 (permalink)
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ok, I've got this one girl who I'm sort of going out with, but she's had a real tough time, and has a hard time trusting guys, so I can't touch her even though we've been going out for like 2 months. then there's this other girl who wants to make out with me and who I want to make out with. if I make out with her is that cheating?
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Old 01-07-2003, 09:12 PM   #2 (permalink)
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i dont think your really cheating any one, more like shareing the wealth. but im pretty sure its wrong in like a karma could/would get you way. if your girlfreind sucks then like dump her and mess around with the other girl. or stay with her and chil or whatever. or mess around with both. you should have some people play lawn darts to decide if its too hard to do on your own. or something
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Old 01-12-2003, 03:31 PM   #3 (permalink)
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it sucks, especially for your gf, that she has those issues. i cant somewhat relate to her.
so this is the deal:
if you like her enough, you will be patient and help her to get through them
if you dont like her enough, which is ok, than you need to tell her that your sorry it isnt working out but that you do care about her, just not in that way. tell her that you understand her problems but dont think you can take those on at this point. DO NOT KISS SOMEONE ELSE< THAT IS CHEATING! there is no way atround the fact that that is cheating.
bad karma, dude
and a strike on the soul
be a good person ab this
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Old 01-12-2003, 03:37 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yep, qualifies as cheating, and if this girl has issues then i doubt cheating on her is gonna be all that helpful, (only do it if you A) break up with her first or B) know for a fact that she aint gonna find out) Then again, i thought i knew for a "fact" that a (now) ex of mine wasnt gonna find out, she did, and it didnt go all to well after that. Last time i ever cheat.......quite so blatantly, hehehe.

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Old 01-12-2003, 06:23 PM   #5 (permalink)
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that isnt cheating just keep the title as friends
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Old 01-12-2003, 07:55 PM   #6 (permalink)
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If this girl your "sort" of going out with doesnt know that your doing shit with another girl, is that a problem. What she doesnt know wont hurt her.
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Old 01-13-2003, 05:08 AM   #7 (permalink)
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sigh...

nevermind if it's "cheating" or not.
it depends on your agenda, buddy boy. are you just looking for pussy, or an actual relationship beyond which satisfying immediate biological urges is involved?

real quick, don't factor into karma to your descision.

also, the whole "if she doesn't know about it, it's ok" rationalization is bullshit. if you want to fuck other women, just do it. if you feel guilty about the idea, don't do it. if you want to build any sort of meaningful relationship with her, don't do it. but don't look for reasons or circumstances that it might be "ok". the fact that something "needs to be ok" in order for you to do should cause you to look at it again, to reconsider.

so then, why are you with her? if she's not giving it you, i mean.
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