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GirlsHateMe 08-27-2003 09:08 PM

how important is it?
 
Ok so my one true love is gone forever and now ive grown up and rezlized it wouldnt have worked anyway and its time to stop wondering what could have been and start working on what can be...

Basicly ive got more than a few girls wanting to take my virginity, but I had always hoped that whoever it was I would atleast care about them somewhat...or atleast be close to them in some way...

So how important is it that you lose it to someone you give a fuck about, do you guys(or girls) regret just chosing anyone...

I cant say im not a little scared, just it being new to me and all, but I just dont know how to feel or what to do...

Also my mom is going out of town tomarow, so basicly I if I want I could take this step but im just not sure...

Any advice?

You guys helped me out alot before, even tho I diddnt take anyones advice(realizing now if I had listend to half of you, id of gotten the girl, but hindsight is always 20-20 isnt it?)...

guerrillase7en 08-27-2003 09:25 PM

well the girl i lost mine to was a freind then a girlfrined and now nothing there's aquardnes around us. Keep in mind things could get odd and you lose contact swith them. don't be afrade hell i was scared as fuck my 1st time, i was afrade i would nut fast and damn we went at it for over 3 hours before i did so don't worry about shit man it'll be ok

FoTwenny 08-27-2003 09:36 PM

You've had the opportunity up till now to find a girlfriend and lose it in a meaningful way, but for whatever reason you haven't.

Now you're too old to still be a virgin, so your only option is just to fuck anyone, which is what you'll ultimately end up doing anyway.

yaya_smoka 08-27-2003 10:18 PM

dude think,ur lucky ur a guy man losing ur virginity for a girl is a lot diffrent, lot bigger of a deal,weigh it out man,u either lose ur virginity with a chance u wont talk to them again or be a virgin,wut do u want more? my advice is just suck it up be a man,and throw it in her dude wuts the worst that can happen(nm that question) think about it dude go for it,havent heard from u in a while either,got lots of respect for ya right here ghm

The Don 08-27-2003 11:26 PM

yaya_smoke's right.. It's not that big a deal to loose your virginity... I was pretty scared too thoug.. But just do it, that's my advice, you'll fell alot better when your getting it on..

Oh, do these girls know that you a virgin?

guerrillase7en 08-27-2003 11:47 PM

man the best way if your kinda yung is line up a few fuck buddies trist me knowing u can get a boodie call keeps your mind off of your 1st:-P

toastyroach 08-28-2003 01:04 PM

dude, your a 20 something year old virgin, and you actually are asking if you should wait any longer? what are you, ugly AND retarded? fuck already, fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck

GirlsHateMe 08-28-2003 03:01 PM

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ill be 20 in nov.

so its not quite that bad...

but yeah what kosh was saying is right, if I had lost it to someone I care about and then they turned out to be who they were(a horrible fucking person) I would have regreted it...

actually now that I think about it I told that girl I fell for thank you for not taking my virginity because you turned out to be horrible person and hung up...but she called back haha...anyway yeah...

anyway theres this girl at work im close with thats been beging me to take my virginity and shes pretty cool and we come from the same kind of family and shit so were real cool...

Its funny because she has a boyfriend thats like in love with her like I was with that one girl, but she doesnt feel the same way, and I think she kinda likes me more than just friends but she doesnt really wanna fuck with it cuz itd be wierd...and she has a kid...word...

And the guy shes with thinks shes fucking me cuz everytime he comes to see her at work were outside by the side doors and im usually fuckin around with her...

its wierd I kinda like the fact that hes jelous of me but scared of me at the same time...

I think thats wrong...but oh well

oh im real high sorry....

LordChronic 08-28-2003 03:12 PM

Who the hell would be scared of you?

jeepster1013 08-28-2003 06:54 PM

Your not gonna have time to be scared you gonna bust a nut damn near as soon as you pop it in ;) most guys dont last very long the first time.

FoTwenny 08-28-2003 09:02 PM

He'll scare the guy with his intimidating dreadlocks.

http://www.overgrow.com/edge/gallery/682930/dread2.jpg

GirlsHateMe 08-28-2003 09:35 PM

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Originally posted by LordChronic
Who the hell would be scared of you?
you dont know me bitch....

and I dont have dreadlocks...I cut mine off like atleast a year or so ago...

Dmasta420 08-29-2003 09:00 AM

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Originally posted by GirlsHateMe
you dont know me bitch....

and I dont have dreadlocks...I cut mine off like atleast a year or so ago...

I wish I had dreadlocks :cool:

The Rev 08-29-2003 01:44 PM

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It depends on you. My first time was with someone I was in love with, and it was terrible. I had a friend in college, and she did it her first time with a guy she met while on vacation, just to get it out of the way, and she felt good about it. I don't think there is any hard and fast correllation between being in love and having a personally gratifying sexual experience.

I think it's important to be with someone who wants to be with you, and that you should have some enthusiasm for what you're doing, and that's really it. If that want and excitement comes from mutual love, that's great. If it comes from mutual lust, I doubt much will be lost there. Sex becomes better with love, I think, because these feelings are amplified by the love, and because there is an expectation that the sex means something more than fun (it's acting physically on intense feelings, so it sorta reinforces them). However, I don't think those feelings do anything to improve the sex.

Of course, if you feel like you're a bad person for having sex without love, then that would fuck it up for you. How hard and fast are your morals on this thing, and how hard on yourself are you going to be for breaking them?

:D

The Rev

GirlsHateMe 08-31-2003 12:38 AM

ok so i did it....

to bad I was to drunk to bust a nut, but atleast i got it out of the way...

the thing is now she wants to be with me and i kinda wanna be with her but she has a kid, and my best friend is compleatly against it and its just complicated now...

no regrets...just thoughts...

well its 3am so im out...

cannibusmoon 08-31-2003 04:26 AM

There. Its out of the way.

I lost mine to a guy whose parents were friends with my parents when I was 16. I guess we took a bath together when we were practically infants, but we never really had that close a friendship. I just wanted to rid myself of that "V" status, and he was there for me to seduce. Actually it was pretty bad because I was drunk and not really feeling it and that means dry as the sahara. Ouch! :eek: But since then I've had more meaningful experiences and I've learned what I like and what I don't. Theres a big difference when you're with someone you care deeply about than when you're going through with it for the purpose of going through with it. But you learn that lesson when you do, whether it be the first time or further down the trail. No biggie.

And if you like her truly don't be so concerned with the fact that she has a child. Maybe you'll have a connection and she can teach you some things, at least enough to bust a nut and make her happy. Good things to know. It doesn't mean you suddenly become Daddy.... long as you're using protection, anyways. :cool:

GirlsHateMe 08-31-2003 07:02 AM

condoms.....dammit I knew I forgot somthing...

and I couldnt nut cuz i was decently drunk...ok i was shitfaced...but either way this morning I got mine and she got hers...like 8 times...

She kept calling me a liar and telling me there wasnt any way I was a virgin and this and that...

I guess thats good? I dunno, nor do I care.....

Just as a little side story, as we were going to my house last night I got pulled over and my registration was between the seats so i had my hand down there when the cop walked up and he flipped out and pulled his gun and shit....

Then they pulled me her and my friend out of the car and searched the shit out of us...they wanted to take me to jail for some shake on the carpet, but one of the cops there was like fuck that im not doing all that paper work for that shit...guess I got lucky twice last night...

FoTwenny 08-31-2003 07:22 PM

You've had 19 years to plan having sex for the first time, and you didn't use protection?

LordChronic 09-02-2003 02:33 PM

I'll bet this dude thinks he's all bad n shit now don't he? Shit i know all i need to know about you, never seen someone so desperate to get laid. But i guess if i was almost 20 and JUST NOW getting some action i'd be all proud of myself too... well not really.

Gone Daddy 09-02-2003 03:36 PM

Quote:

I'll bet this dude thinks he's all bad n shit now don't he? Shit i know all i need to know about you, never seen someone so desperate to get laid. But i guess if i was almost 20 and JUST NOW getting some action i'd be all proud of myself too... well not really.
You realize that there are some people who are 20 and are virgins for more reasons other than "they can't get laid".


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