She's Pregnant... AGAIN!

Liberty Cap · 11-08-2005, 02:15 PM

Fuck it. My girlfriend is pregnant. It's only been like 3 months since our first abortion. First abortion is also our ONLY abortion. I can't kill another one of my kids.

She's 19 and I'm 17. She's not working and lives with her parents, and I work part time and go to night school AND live with my parents.

We will have to get married so our kid isn't illegitimate. If we keep the kid and I'm not married when she has it, it won't have my last name.

Neither of our parents know yet. Her parents are going to this A) Make us get married or have an abortion. No abortion. B) Kick her out of the house. C) Maybe break my neck.

Her dad nearly and literally almost broke my neck when he found out. Her mother is insane. We have to move out sometime in the middle of February the same week we have to tell them.

I don't have my high school diploma! I won't be able to get it either if I have to move out February and work full time to support them. I'm probably going to go for my GED, which isn't as nice, but it'll due.

My parents will have to agree to me marrying her! Since I'm not 18, my mom and dad will have to literally sign a fucking paper to allow me to both move out and marry her.

OH! Jesus, I'm still doing drugs behind my girls back! I love her to death, and would die for her. No I'm not some stupid, in lust, teenager. I have been through hospital overdoses, pregnancies, and abortions with her already. I planned on spending the rest of my life with her anyways. Just not this fast ,you know?

Well, I can't do cocaine and heroin too much longer. I'm not going to be that type of dad. I just don't know what I can do. Any advice guys? This is my worst luck yet!

Prophet Saddam · 11-08-2005, 02:18 PM

Sounds like adulthood is about to smack you in the face. Although you sound pretty mature for your age.

Sounds like you've got the right plans - GED and marriage.

Best of luck, and of course congratulations on the baby!

Liberty Cap · 11-08-2005, 02:36 PM

Thanks. We plan on naming it Eve Isabell ******* if it's a girl. I hope it is.

I really just don't want to have a kid and him/her grow up in poverty. I've contemplated joining the army after we marry and have it and then just put all my money into her bank account. I just don't know what will come of everything.

I think I'm going to get an A+ certification and some MCP like MCP TCP/IP or MCP Systems Administration and try to find a job in the city with moderate pay above $10.00. I know how to program, but all those job are sent out of country to India and shit.

I'm only worried about being able to give her and my child the best I can, but I don't know HOW to do that. Right now I'm just scared. This is the first time I've been this scared in a long time.

Flamingnun · 11-08-2005, 02:53 PM

Mar · 11-08-2005, 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flamingnun

I second this.

Dark5tar · 11-08-2005, 04:49 PM

75-cents would have saved you alot of trouble bro.

BUT....in your case you need to suck it up and be a father, or give it away. Dont be a half-assed dad, its all or nothing.

ColtEtish · 11-08-2005, 04:51 PM

^ A little to fucking late isn't it?

snapshot · 11-08-2005, 04:55 PM

I forgot about adoption!

Ok, I'm not so mad about this anymore.

Jakeisuseless · 11-08-2005, 04:59 PM

ADOPTION. ADOPTION. ADOPTION.

Your baby will go to a family that is quaified and yerning for a crack baby of their own. They don't let just anybody adopt these days, either.

--

If that doesn't fly with you man, you seem like a mature guy and will probably be a good father.

profit · 11-08-2005, 06:19 PM

what id do:

abort or adopt.
but if you do keep it just pay the 18 years of child support *after you make sure its yours*
dont marry her
get your hs diploma and educate yourself
smoke more weed, no herion, no coke

and next time wear a condom or use birth control or the morning after pill or any combination there of.

good luck.

Woods · 11-08-2005, 06:33 PM

Fuck adoption, fuck keeping it. The only logical and moral option is to abort the fucker.

BrAneFReesE · 11-08-2005, 06:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Liberty Cap

Fuck it. My girlfriend is pregnant. It's only been like 3 months since our first abortion. First abortion is also our ONLY abortion. I can't kill another one of my kids.

She's 19 and I'm 17. She's not working and lives with her parents, and I work part time and go to night school AND live with my parents.

We will have to get married so our kid isn't illegitimate. If we keep the kid and I'm not married when she has it, it won't have my last name.

Neither of our parents know yet. Her parents are going to this A) Make us get married or have an abortion. No abortion. B) Kick her out of the house. C) Maybe break my neck.

Her dad nearly and literally almost broke my neck when he found out. Her mother is insane. We have to move out sometime in the middle of February the same week we have to tell them.

I don't have my high school diploma! I won't be able to get it either if I have to move out February and work full time to support them. I'm probably going to go for my GED, which isn't as nice, but it'll due.

My parents will have to agree to me marrying her! Since I'm not 18, my mom and dad will have to literally sign a fucking paper to allow me to both move out and marry her.

OH! Jesus, I'm still doing drugs behind my girls back! I love her to death, and would die for her. No I'm not some stupid, in lust, teenager. I have been through hospital overdoses, pregnancies, and abortions with her already. I planned on spending the rest of my life with her anyways. Just not this fast ,you know?

Well, I can't do cocaine and heroin too much longer. I'm not going to be that type of dad. I just don't know what I can do. Any advice guys? This is my worst luck yet!

You sound like any man twice your age would if the same news was dropped. You're ready....but u sound scared, Ask for help when shit gets tough though, always ask for help if you really need it.

Woods · 11-08-2005, 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by turmaline

Sounds like you shouldn't have a girlfriend.

Because I give a fuck about the world in which I live?

Woods · 11-08-2005, 07:27 PM

Stupid message board.

..gzagenius · 11-08-2005, 08:01 PM

your cool lc...but man

seriously....if you dont wanna get her pregnant dont nut inside her...

notepad · 11-08-2005, 08:02 PM

Defenately adoption.

I'm adopted and I turned out fine.

Liberty Cap · 11-08-2005, 08:16 PM

Well ironically she found out I was doing coke about 3 hours ago. I'm going to come clean and get help tomorrow so I can stay with her. She didn't think you could get pregnant on your period and I listened. Bad idea. And we aren't aborting or adopting up our kid.

Mar · 11-08-2005, 08:21 PM

I've got a better idea. Just get a vasectomy. You shouldn't be breeding anyway.

Liberty Cap · 11-08-2005, 08:24 PM

Mar if I could, I'd probably as of now. If her life wasn't already this bad, I'd have turned her life to shit.

jesus · 11-08-2005, 08:31 PM

so, she just got an abortion and still isn't on birth control?

sounds like an intelligent lass...

you're a drug addict?

please, for the love of god give this kid up for adoption... i'm not trying to be a dick, i just don't really want yet another fuckup in this world...

11-08-2005, 02:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
Liberty Cap Justice for All Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,093 Thanks: 31 Thanked 72 Times in 92 Posts	She's Pregnant... AGAIN! Fuck it. My girlfriend is pregnant. It's only been like 3 months since our first abortion. First abortion is also our ONLY abortion. I can't kill another one of my kids. She's 19 and I'm 17. She's not working and lives with her parents, and I work part time and go to night school AND live with my parents. We will have to get married so our kid isn't illegitimate. If we keep the kid and I'm not married when she has it, it won't have my last name. Neither of our parents know yet. Her parents are going to this A) Make us get married or have an abortion. No abortion. B) Kick her out of the house. C) Maybe break my neck. Her dad nearly and literally almost broke my neck when he found out. Her mother is insane. We have to move out sometime in the middle of February the same week we have to tell them. I don't have my high school diploma! I won't be able to get it either if I have to move out February and work full time to support them. I'm probably going to go for my GED, which isn't as nice, but it'll due. My parents will have to agree to me marrying her! Since I'm not 18, my mom and dad will have to literally sign a fucking paper to allow me to both move out and marry her. OH! Jesus, I'm still doing drugs behind my girls back! I love her to death, and would die for her. No I'm not some stupid, in lust, teenager. I have been through hospital overdoses, pregnancies, and abortions with her already. I planned on spending the rest of my life with her anyways. Just not this fast ,you know? Well, I can't do cocaine and heroin too much longer. I'm not going to be that type of dad. I just don't know what I can do. Any advice guys? This is my worst luck yet!

11-08-2005, 02:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
Prophet Saddam YaHookan 2011 Winner Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: CA, fuck yeah Posts: 16,345 Blog Entries: 11 Thanks: 3,702 Thanked 719 Times in 482 Posts	Sounds like adulthood is about to smack you in the face. Although you sound pretty mature for your age. Sounds like you've got the right plans - GED and marriage. Best of luck, and of course congratulations on the baby! __________________ SUPPORT THE TROOPS --------------------- BRING THEM HOME & FUCK THE WAR

11-08-2005, 02:53 PM	#4 (permalink)
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11-08-2005, 04:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
Dark5tar US/KMK Soldier Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 113 Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts	75-cents would have saved you alot of trouble bro. BUT....in your case you need to suck it up and be a father, or give it away. Dont be a half-assed dad, its all or nothing. __________________ Born to fight, trained to kill, prepared to die, but never will

11-08-2005, 06:19 PM	#10 (permalink)
profit restore the republic Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 1,255 Thanks: 818 Thanked 357 Times in 237 Posts	what id do: abort or adopt. but if you do keep it just pay the 18 years of child support after you make sure its yours dont marry her get your hs diploma and educate yourself smoke more weed, no herion, no coke and next time wear a condom or use birth control or the morning after pill or any combination there of. good luck. __________________ Cowardice asks the question - is it safe? Expediency asks the question - is it politic? Vanity asks the question - is it popular? But conscience asks the question - is it right? And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular; but one must take it because it is right. - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. follow https://twitter.com/#!/curtiswm - sub http://www.youtube.com/user/66sicksfishstix

11-08-2005, 02:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
Liberty Cap Justice for All Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,093 Thanks: 31 Thanked 72 Times in 92 Posts	Thanks. We plan on naming it Eve Isabell ******* if it's a girl. I hope it is. I really just don't want to have a kid and him/her grow up in poverty. I've contemplated joining the army after we marry and have it and then just put all my money into her bank account. I just don't know what will come of everything. I think I'm going to get an A+ certification and some MCP like MCP TCP/IP or MCP Systems Administration and try to find a job in the city with moderate pay above $10.00. I know how to program, but all those job are sent out of country to India and shit. I'm only worried about being able to give her and my child the best I can, but I don't know HOW to do that. Right now I'm just scared. This is the first time I've been this scared in a long time.

11-08-2005, 04:55 PM	#8 (permalink)
snapshot no custom. customize Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: The unOriginal Rorschach. Posts: 19,302 Thanks: 15 Thanked 22 Times in 21 Posts	I forgot about adoption! Ok, I'm not so mad about this anymore.

11-08-2005, 08:02 PM	#16 (permalink)
notepad dick 'slyde' hyde Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: above the clouds Posts: 2,026 Thanks: 821 Thanked 348 Times in 178 Posts	Defenately adoption. I'm adopted and I turned out fine.

11-08-2005, 08:16 PM	#17 (permalink)
Liberty Cap Justice for All Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,093 Thanks: 31 Thanked 72 Times in 92 Posts	Well ironically she found out I was doing coke about 3 hours ago. I'm going to come clean and get help tomorrow so I can stay with her. She didn't think you could get pregnant on your period and I listened. Bad idea. And we aren't aborting or adopting up our kid.

11-08-2005, 08:21 PM	#18 (permalink)
Mar Pimp by blood Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: The D Posts: 233 Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post	I've got a better idea. Just get a vasectomy. You shouldn't be breeding anyway. __________________ Straight people don't know what you're about They put you down and shut you out you gave to me a new belief and soon the world will love you sweet leaf

11-08-2005, 08:24 PM	#19 (permalink)
Liberty Cap Justice for All Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,093 Thanks: 31 Thanked 72 Times in 92 Posts	Mar if I could, I'd probably as of now. If her life wasn't already this bad, I'd have turned her life to shit.

11-08-2005, 08:31 PM	#20 (permalink)
jesus king of the jews Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: wedged between two fat people fucking Posts: 6,565 Thanks: 0 Thanked 5 Times in 3 Posts	so, she just got an abortion and still isn't on birth control? sounds like an intelligent lass... you're a drug addict? please, for the love of god give this kid up for adoption... i'm not trying to be a dick, i just don't really want yet another fuckup in this world... __________________ you're all a bunch of fucks Once I met this wino and he was eating some grapes and I said "dude, you have to wait". I don't have a girlfriend. I just know this lady who'd be really mad if she heard me say that. I once saw a forklift lift a crate of forks. And it was way too literal for me. I got an ant farm. Them fellas don't grow shit. I like the FedEx guy, 'cause he is a drug dealer and he don't even know it! And he is always on time. - Mitch Hedberg nipples?

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