Wish I hadda doob right now!!

FineazPR · 02-20-2009, 06:19 AM

Someone very dear to me passed very recently. Its like the only time i'm not cryin' is when I'm smokin'. And right now I am out of my weed. My contacts are not available this morning, so I get to sit and ponder my loss some more. Everyone tells me tht her passing was the best thing for her because she was in such poor health, and her recovery was doubtful, at best. I know, I know its just that I cant seem to think of anything else . This grieving stuff is tough.

verklingen · 02-20-2009, 07:03 AM

that's rough, i'm sorry to hear about your loss. even knowing they're in a better place or whatever, it still hurts that they're no longer with you. i honestly believe people choose when they die, that there is a plan in it and that plan is to send a ripple out to affect people in certain ways. i believe this offers us lessons that can help us grow more than the person could through their life. so let her teach you, and carry her in your heart so you don't forget.

wish you the best

**SageTree** · 02-20-2009, 08:13 AM

It sounds like you could use some love friend, so I"m going to stick this is Guidance and Support, because there are alot of people coming to that forum looking to help.

Loving Kindness
SageTree

Dr. Drew · 02-20-2009, 07:24 PM

Thats rough.

My best friend for a few years passed last september.... It's hard shit to deal with.. And I'm sorry to break it to you, but smoking weed will not help much. You will just be high and feel like shit. If you do find something to numb the pain, it will only be temporary, and is not reccomended.
It just takes time to deal with it, time, time, time. Give yourself time.
You will just be chillin, and all of the sudden you will remember something to do with that person, and it fucking hurts. But thats how it goes..

But death is a part of living. Not much you can do but keep on keepin on.
And instead of thinking about how sad it is, try to remember the fun times..
People die, good memories last forever.

GL mate

myxomatosis · 02-21-2009, 12:01 AM

Drew is right. Been there done that. My friend of a little over 13 years out of my 23 thus far will have died three years ago in two short months. It never heals, but it does get easier to deal with. Suffice to say I'm still finding my ways to deal with the repercussions and what it's done to my sense of mortality (torn it apart to say the least). Best of luck to you and I wish you all the luck in the world in dealing with such difficult circumstances.

Qui-Bong Jinn · 02-25-2009, 02:58 PM

You got friends, talk to them, they aren't going to make fun of you. Never rely on drugs to make things better (that is the absolute worst reason to use drugs), and it also leads to addiction.

Sorry about your loss man.

Dezzy · 02-28-2009, 02:02 PM

people dieing sucks man my uncle died last month out of no where. I find that weed just makes me more depressed about the shit. Other drugs work much better but it isnt a good way to deal with problems.

FineazPR · 02-28-2009, 02:41 PM

I just wanted to send out a "shoutout" to all my fellow Yahookians that wrote back. thank you, thank you..this forum is helping me a lot with my loss. And your so right about Time, and I'm taking mine. Keep up the good stuff and Puff On!!

**Mafoo** · 02-28-2009, 02:51 PM

sorry for your loss.

give yourself time to weep and experience the loss, you cant just brush such feelings aside by getting stoned because they will linger with you and weigh you down.
its not easy but you need to adress the sadness you are experiencing
again, sorry for your loss i hope you are surrounded by loved ones, if not youve got yahooka

**SageTree** · 03-25-2009, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by FineazPR

Someone very dear to me passed very recently. Its like the only time i'm not cryin' is when I'm smokin'. And right now I am out of my weed. My contacts are not available this morning, so I get to sit and ponder my loss some more. Everyone tells me tht her passing was the best thing for her because she was in such poor health, and her recovery was doubtful, at best. I know, I know its just that I cant seem to think of anything else . This grieving stuff is tough.

How are you doing now?

02-20-2009, 06:19 AM	#1 (permalink)
FineazPR YaHookan Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: A place I call MINE... Posts: 192 Thanks: 43 Thanked 18 Times in 15 Posts	Wish I hadda doob right now!! Someone very dear to me passed very recently. Its like the only time i'm not cryin' is when I'm smokin'. And right now I am out of my weed. My contacts are not available this morning, so I get to sit and ponder my loss some more. Everyone tells me tht her passing was the best thing for her because she was in such poor health, and her recovery was doubtful, at best. I know, I know its just that I cant seem to think of anything else . This grieving stuff is tough.

02-20-2009, 07:03 AM	#2 (permalink)
verklingen Radical Dreamer Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: texas Posts: 8,005 Thanks: 811 Thanked 1,491 Times in 946 Posts	that's rough, i'm sorry to hear about your loss. even knowing they're in a better place or whatever, it still hurts that they're no longer with you. i honestly believe people choose when they die, that there is a plan in it and that plan is to send a ripple out to affect people in certain ways. i believe this offers us lessons that can help us grow more than the person could through their life. so let her teach you, and carry her in your heart so you don't forget. wish you the best __________________ “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” rip matt

02-20-2009, 08:13 AM	#3 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 23,414 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 13,070 Thanked 6,767 Times in 4,664 Posts	It sounds like you could use some love friend, so I"m going to stick this is Guidance and Support, because there are alot of people coming to that forum looking to help. Loving Kindness SageTree __________________ "What's oppressive is letting your life be confined by old definitions of what everything is." -Zen Meister my_scatterheart YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance.

02-21-2009, 12:01 AM	#5 (permalink)
myxomatosis life is music Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: between a pair of headphones Posts: 3,917 Thanks: 1,026 Thanked 933 Times in 597 Posts	Drew is right. Been there done that. My friend of a little over 13 years out of my 23 thus far will have died three years ago in two short months. It never heals, but it does get easier to deal with. Suffice to say I'm still finding my ways to deal with the repercussions and what it's done to my sense of mortality (torn it apart to say the least). Best of luck to you and I wish you all the luck in the world in dealing with such difficult circumstances. __________________ oh sometimes the blues is just a passing bird and why can't that always be tossing aside from your birches crown just enough dark to see how you're the light over me last.fm blog deal (updated 12/22/11)

02-28-2009, 02:02 PM	#7 (permalink)
Dezzy NiGGa BoY RoY Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 2,928 Thanks: 12 Thanked 51 Times in 43 Posts	people dieing sucks man my uncle died last month out of no where. I find that weed just makes me more depressed about the shit. Other drugs work much better but it isnt a good way to deal with problems. __________________ "You want to have sex with The Max" LOL

02-25-2009, 02:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
Qui-Bong Jinn Jedi High Council Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Kingston, Ontario Posts: 2,121 Thanks: 905 Thanked 496 Times in 368 Posts	You got friends, talk to them, they aren't going to make fun of you. Never rely on drugs to make things better (that is the absolute worst reason to use drugs), and it also leads to addiction. Sorry about your loss man.

02-28-2009, 02:41 PM	#8 (permalink)
FineazPR YaHookan Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: A place I call MINE... Posts: 192 Thanks: 43 Thanked 18 Times in 15 Posts	Wish I hadda doob right now.. I just wanted to send out a "shoutout" to all my fellow Yahookians that wrote back. thank you, thank you..this forum is helping me a lot with my loss. And your so right about Time, and I'm taking mine. Keep up the good stuff and Puff On!!

02-28-2009, 02:51 PM	#9 (permalink)
Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: the anguish of anticipated transformation Posts: 5,973 Thanks: 3,775 Thanked 2,651 Times in 1,697 Posts	sorry for your loss. give yourself time to weep and experience the loss, you cant just brush such feelings aside by getting stoned because they will linger with you and weigh you down. its not easy but you need to adress the sadness you are experiencing again, sorry for your loss i hope you are surrounded by loved ones, if not youve got yahooka __________________ PLUR For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

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