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YaHookan
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Nothing Available to Get.
So it's not a huge problem but I figured advice wouldn't hurt.
I'm having problems finding girls. Girls here on campus are either not interested in me, I'm not interested in them, or way too closed to talk to. Being in boarding school, it's hard for me to know many girls from my actual home because I was hardly ever there. And when I actually do date someone, they crush my heart in one way or another for all kinds of crazy reasons and I'm sick of getting hurt. Any advice on what I should do? |
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~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~
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Putting this is Guidence and Support.
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YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance. ![]() "We're not here to judge what's good from bad, But to do the things that are right." |
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once you reach MAC status like me you'll also be back handin bitches off your front porch. it's a fine art that must be mastered over time, your not born with it.
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So, if a stranger walked up to you and poured pebble like seeds into your hand and then said, plant them and your harvest can be made into rope cloth or paper, it could help the sick or intoxicate. What would you say? Would you keep the seeds or chuck them away? RollREDRoll |
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Biblioburro...
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this may be totally off but...
Stop looking...Get over the need to attach to every woman and talk to women with no attachment...
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"And no matter what they said
dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever" |
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YaHookan
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I'm gonna go with what Grieves said.
First though... Be a man. A Man i said. Hopefully a girl will find you instead of the other way. Sometimes you gotta let things happen. Patience. or you want a girl real bad then you could take Kishars advice. but seriously man, and don't get offended please, don't be such a girly man. Women can be cold though i know.
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Condemnation without investigation is the height of ignorance. - Albert Einstein Properly trained, man can be a dog's best friend - i'll get his name once i get book back |
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like the above said, women tend to want a man. they have enough girlfriends.
im also going to have to go along with kishars advice and recommend a high dose of skanks. its whats best for you man. |
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the ones that find you are always better than the ones you find or look for.
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Biblioburro...
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skanks aint gunna love you like your wife does...
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"And no matter what they said
dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever" |
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Biblioburro...
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dude she is as bored as you are...do something for her and you bro...
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"And no matter what they said
dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever" |
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Biblioburro...
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get over yourself...we all have to work hard to sustain our life's, loves, and mental health...If your not working hard for you, no one will...If you feel taken advantage of make a reasonable alternative and offer it up in discussion, stop stewing on it because that will lead to unwanted/unhelpful results...
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"And no matter what they said
dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever" Last edited by Grieves; 04-18-2009 at 02:42 PM. |
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Biblioburro...
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reasonable alternatives don't always mean to start over...
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"And no matter what they said
dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever" |
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meeting women is easy when you stop caring about what people think of you.. actually, a lot of things in your life will get better when you stop caring what people think... just say 'hi' to every single good looking girl you see.. hell, say it to the ones that aren't even that good looking just for fun & practice... then go in and start bullshitting with them, make a joke, blahblahblah and then by the end of the convo get their number... just keep doing it over and over again until it feels completely natural and you can do it with your eyes closed... don't 'hit on' them.. don't call them beautiful or anything like that, in fact, depending on the girls self esteem, you should even do the opposite and try to take them down a notch to lower their defenses... once you have the number, remember to let them come to you, never buy them gifts or do any stupid shit like that to try to get them to like you, and always make sure they know that they are just 1 in a million and if they don't like you, it doesn't matter because there's 999 etc more of them out there that will talk to and like you
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Choose the sword.. and you will join me.. .. choose the ball, and you will join your mother in death You don't understand my words... but you must choose.. So.. come boy... choose life or death Last edited by toastyroach; 04-19-2009 at 03:57 PM. |
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Jedi High Council
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Stop being a pussy.
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