Fucked up my entire life

yo. · 10-11-2009, 09:46 AM

as i knew it. i lost my girl and the majority of my good friends. all because of some shit i did cuz i was shit faced drunk!

myxomatosis · 10-11-2009, 09:52 AM

I'm willing to bet it seems worse than it is, that's generally how those things work. Wake up the morning after feeling like the biggest fucking idiot in the world.

What'd you do?

yo. · 10-11-2009, 10:04 AM

Friday night i went to a party with my girl. got blitz'd playin beer pong all night then my girl disappears while some bangin hot girls were dancin in front of me... so my drunk ass forgets about my girl and starts hittin on the girls, quite rudely thinkin back now that i'm sober. slappin their asses and shit... but yeah i know i fucked up man and i did it to myself... i just kinda need to vent. i feel like the whole world just crashed down on me. i loved that girl so much man i would have never done that being sober... plus one of them girls was my homeboys lil sister... yeah i forgot to mention that. so now he wants to kill me and his whole family which includes about 5 or 6 other good friends too..

yo. · 10-11-2009, 10:05 AM

plus all this stress and depressions got me physically sick...

Grieves · 10-11-2009, 10:28 AM

yup you did fuck up...sucks

yo. · 10-11-2009, 10:30 AM

no doubt.

myxomatosis · 10-11-2009, 10:41 AM

If homeboy wants to kill you for simply hitting on his sister then he's a clown, unless it was way worse than you described. You were a drunk idiot, it happens. If those two things are the worst you did in that state and your friends can't forgive you then that's rather fucked up. Your girl will probably be able to get over that, but yeah, was definitely rude and a dumb move as you already know. Chin up man, shit'll blow over unless you're associating with a bunch of idiots.

yo. · 10-11-2009, 11:09 AM

thanks man. if i believed in god i would pray your right.

and na all i did was slap her ass one time and was callin her sexy and etc but man they was sittin there dancin for me... what straight guy wouldn't go with that?

yo. · 10-11-2009, 11:14 AM

yes. lol i blame myself more than the booze.

although i wouldn't have done this with my girl at the same party if there was no alcohol involved. thats just retarded...

**Mafoo** · 10-11-2009, 11:20 AM

you were drunk, you acted a fool. what did you expect? lol

it happens dude. if you apologize and make an effort to control yourself (im assuming this doesnt happen often) your friends and girlfriend should be willing to forgive you. if not, i guess you learned a hard lesson.

good luck

yo. · 10-11-2009, 11:41 AM

this is the first time i've ever fucked over either one of them. but ever since that happened all these girls that hate me started talkin shit and bringin up shit from the past and told her all kinds of exaggerated shit. the night that it all happened she brought me home and slept with me and everything talkin about its okay and shit... then i wake up to a note sayin call me when you wake up. p.s. you fuckin pissed on your floor! yeah i was so drunk i guess i got up in my sleep and just pissed in my room... so i call her and she says she needs a week alone to think. but later that day after talkin to all them people about me, she says she wants nothin to do with me any more and to stop textin her....

**Mafoo** · 10-11-2009, 11:47 AM

well then fuck her

why should she listen to everyone else when its you and her?

~1~ · 10-11-2009, 12:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kiLLeRrrr

this is the first time i've ever fucked over either one of them. but ever since that happened all these girls that hate me started talkin shit and bringin up shit from the past and told her all kinds of exaggerated shit. the night that it all happened she brought me home and slept with me and everything talkin about its okay and shit... then i wake up to a note sayin call me when you wake up. p.s. you fuckin pissed on your floor! yeah i was so drunk i guess i got up in my sleep and just pissed in my room... so i call her and she says she needs a week alone to think. but later that day after talkin to all them people about me, she says she wants nothin to do with me any more and to stop textin her....

Then do it, stop talking to her...

You're fucking young man, you have no idea what love and a relationship is and neither does she. Period.

You have far more important things to worry about anyway, like what are you going to be when you grow up man, where are you gonna live, how are you going to support this life you're living. Shit thats about you, not you and (insert current squeeze here).

Once you figure out how you can live with yourself, then you can trouble yourself with the idea of living someone elses life as well.

This doesn't mean monk up until you find out where the road is going, but don't lash yourself to the first palm tree you find and settle in to ride out the fifty to sixty year storm ahead.

Go out there, fuck up and find your own way out.

Oh yeah, from my point of view, if she is going to listen to what everyone else says and doesn't want to talk to you about it then she aint as in to you as you seem to be into her. If she really cared, people could have told her you molest cats and eat babies, she should at least ask you about it before writing you off.

Good luck kemosabe and remember this little fact...

World Population 6,829,360,438(total) 3,442,850,573(male) 3,386,509,865(female )

This aint gonna be your only shot.

**Mafoo** · 10-11-2009, 12:12 PM

good post no1

yo. · 10-11-2009, 12:52 PM

yeah thanks man but it's really more about making it up to them..
i feel so bad about all of it cause thats not me ya know.. i was just shit faced drunk and they seduced my drunk ass. lol

msicidron · 10-11-2009, 02:17 PM

lil hos be seducin

**Mafoo** · 10-11-2009, 02:30 PM

ive been where you are at killer, you can only apologize so many times to a person before they have to start forgiving you or not.

it takes some effort from both parties. if you keep that in mind you can still show your regret and maintain your dignity by not groveling and begging to be taken back. (not saying youre doing that) just apologize, be sincere and then let the ball be in her court. you made a mistake so you have to live with whatever happens, as much as that sucks.

stoneric · 10-11-2009, 02:39 PM

I'm always amazed when I hear about people just pissing anywhere. I thought that ended when I stopped doing it.

yo. · 10-11-2009, 05:25 PM

yeah i haven't talked to her since saturday morning, i know she needs her space. but i've kinda come to terms with the fact that i fucked up and lost all of them.

yo. · 10-11-2009, 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stoneric

I'm always amazed when I hear about people just pissing anywhere. I thought that ended when I stopped doing it.

turns out that was the second time i've got drunk and done that, she told me the other day i got up and walked to my door, tried opening it but failed, and just pissed on my door. haha

10-11-2009, 09:46 AM	#1 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	Fucked up my entire life as i knew it. i lost my girl and the majority of my good friends. all because of some shit i did cuz i was shit faced drunk! __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 09:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
myxomatosis life is music Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: between a pair of headphones Posts: 4,121 Thanks: 876 Thanked 884 Times in 574 Posts	I'm willing to bet it seems worse than it is, that's generally how those things work. Wake up the morning after feeling like the biggest fucking idiot in the world. What'd you do? __________________ oh sometimes the blues is just a passing bird and why can't that always be tossing aside from your birches crown just enough dark to see how you're the light over me last.fm blog deal (updated 12/22/11)

10-11-2009, 10:04 AM	#3 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	Friday night i went to a party with my girl. got blitz'd playin beer pong all night then my girl disappears while some bangin hot girls were dancin in front of me... so my drunk ass forgets about my girl and starts hittin on the girls, quite rudely thinkin back now that i'm sober. slappin their asses and shit... but yeah i know i fucked up man and i did it to myself... i just kinda need to vent. i feel like the whole world just crashed down on me. i loved that girl so much man i would have never done that being sober... plus one of them girls was my homeboys lil sister... yeah i forgot to mention that. so now he wants to kill me and his whole family which includes about 5 or 6 other good friends too.. __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 10:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	plus all this stress and depressions got me physically sick... __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 10:28 AM	#5 (permalink)
Grieves Biblioburro... Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Terra Sancta Posts: 11,588 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 1,903 Thanked 2,559 Times in 1,424 Posts	yup you did fuck up...sucks __________________ "And no matter what they said dollar is not your friend and it's the feelings that are hard to know are the feelings that all come slow No matter what they said dollar is not your friend and these feelings that so hard to know are the feelings that wont let go No don't let go, till you find a home World Unite and I'll love you forever"

10-11-2009, 10:30 AM	#6 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	no doubt. __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 10:41 AM	#7 (permalink)
myxomatosis life is music Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: between a pair of headphones Posts: 4,121 Thanks: 876 Thanked 884 Times in 574 Posts	If homeboy wants to kill you for simply hitting on his sister then he's a clown, unless it was way worse than you described. You were a drunk idiot, it happens. If those two things are the worst you did in that state and your friends can't forgive you then that's rather fucked up. Your girl will probably be able to get over that, but yeah, was definitely rude and a dumb move as you already know. Chin up man, shit'll blow over unless you're associating with a bunch of idiots. __________________ oh sometimes the blues is just a passing bird and why can't that always be tossing aside from your birches crown just enough dark to see how you're the light over me last.fm blog deal (updated 12/22/11)

10-11-2009, 11:09 AM	#8 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	thanks man. if i believed in god i would pray your right. and na all i did was slap her ass one time and was callin her sexy and etc but man they was sittin there dancin for me... what straight guy wouldn't go with that? __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 11:14 AM	#9 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	yes. lol i blame myself more than the booze. although i wouldn't have done this with my girl at the same party if there was no alcohol involved. thats just retarded... __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 11:20 AM	#10 (permalink)
Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: the anguish of anticipated transformation Posts: 5,962 Thanks: 3,491 Thanked 2,356 Times in 1,540 Posts	you were drunk, you acted a fool. what did you expect? lol it happens dude. if you apologize and make an effort to control yourself (im assuming this doesnt happen often) your friends and girlfriend should be willing to forgive you. if not, i guess you learned a hard lesson. good luck __________________ PLUR For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

10-11-2009, 11:41 AM	#11 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	this is the first time i've ever fucked over either one of them. but ever since that happened all these girls that hate me started talkin shit and bringin up shit from the past and told her all kinds of exaggerated shit. the night that it all happened she brought me home and slept with me and everything talkin about its okay and shit... then i wake up to a note sayin call me when you wake up. p.s. you fuckin pissed on your floor! yeah i was so drunk i guess i got up in my sleep and just pissed in my room... so i call her and she says she needs a week alone to think. but later that day after talkin to all them people about me, she says she wants nothin to do with me any more and to stop textin her.... __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

10-11-2009, 11:47 AM	#12 (permalink)
Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: the anguish of anticipated transformation Posts: 5,962 Thanks: 3,491 Thanked 2,356 Times in 1,540 Posts	well then fuck her why should she listen to everyone else when its you and her? __________________ PLUR For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

10-11-2009, 12:12 PM	#14 (permalink)
Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: the anguish of anticipated transformation Posts: 5,962 Thanks: 3,491 Thanked 2,356 Times in 1,540 Posts	good post no1 __________________ PLUR For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

10-11-2009, 12:52 PM	#15 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	yeah thanks man but it's really more about making it up to them.. i feel so bad about all of it cause thats not me ya know.. i was just shit faced drunk and they seduced my drunk ass. lol __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

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msicidron vibing Join Date: May 2007 Location: North America Posts: 959 Thanks: 228 Thanked 153 Times in 120 Posts	lil hos be seducin __________________ \|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|

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10-11-2009, 02:30 PM	#17 (permalink)
Mafoo nice daze Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: the anguish of anticipated transformation Posts: 5,962 Thanks: 3,491 Thanked 2,356 Times in 1,540 Posts	ive been where you are at killer, you can only apologize so many times to a person before they have to start forgiving you or not. it takes some effort from both parties. if you keep that in mind you can still show your regret and maintain your dignity by not groveling and begging to be taken back. (not saying youre doing that) just apologize, be sincere and then let the ball be in her court. you made a mistake so you have to live with whatever happens, as much as that sucks. __________________ PLUR For once you have tasted flight you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return

10-11-2009, 02:39 PM	#18 (permalink)
stoneric bougeman Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 5,223 Thanks: 431 Thanked 1,246 Times in 892 Posts	I'm always amazed when I hear about people just pissing anywhere. I thought that ended when I stopped doing it.

10-11-2009, 05:25 PM	#19 (permalink)
yo. Controversial Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: SOCAL Posts: 1,207 Thanks: 676 Thanked 202 Times in 143 Posts	yeah i haven't talked to her since saturday morning, i know she needs her space. but i've kinda come to terms with the fact that i fucked up and lost all of them. __________________ "God" is an alien and we all came from another galaxy as an expansion of our specie's existence.

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