Dating older women; or men

Rubix · 10-30-2009, 10:25 PM

What's the cap? Two, five 10 years. Got this hot Kenyan date Tomorrow and I literally didn't know if she was 20 or 30. She 25. Fine with me.

Mercury · 10-30-2009, 10:27 PM

20 years for men 40 years for women.

LHM · 10-31-2009, 03:05 AM

What does it matter as long as you two enjoy each other's company.

But 26.4 years for women, and 16.78 years for men.

Cerebro · 10-31-2009, 03:58 AM

23yrs older, my last cougar was

Rubix · 10-31-2009, 07:44 AM

damn
how old are you

crookedhatinator45 · 10-31-2009, 04:00 PM

in still don't know how old the maid was.. i know she's got a 13 year old son though.

**AlteredStateGrl** · 10-31-2009, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Rubix

damn
how old are you

if i had to guess, and i'm going to, i'd say he's around my age. i'm 32.

i dunno though.

**~~stateofkane~~** · 11-10-2009, 04:02 AM

I highly recommend that young men date older women. My first g/f was older than me and I was her bitch. I guess I needed it in our feminized society where young men aren't being raised as "men". Ironic, yes, but sometimes you have to fight fire with fire.

**SageTree** · 11-10-2009, 09:45 AM

My wife is 5 years older than me.

The SARS Volta · 01-02-2010, 02:45 PM

the youngest person i have been intimate with was four years younger than i am (me:22/him:18).
in that case, (im)maturity was definitely an issue so it didn't quite go smoothly. not to say all 18-year-old guys are uncouth--but he sure was.

the eldest guy was 26, back when I was 20. as you can probably tell, i tend to stay within my own age bracket. however if you are 18+ it's all up to you for deciding what age range is up for grabs or what's too much of an age difference.

frankly, i'm not usually attracted to men who are a lot older than i am (to me 'a lot' means 10+ years since I'm only 22) and anyone under 18 is totally out of the question in my book.

Mydriasis · 01-02-2010, 08:07 PM

I never got along with the gal's my age. I always had to date older for it to work except when I was really into bad drugs. Women 4 years older than me seems to be a sweet spot for adequate maturity and interests, aside from my mild wild side.

Hell yea though rubix hope the date goes well!

~1~ · 01-02-2010, 08:14 PM

I thought it was half your age plus seven years for the "how young is too young" question, so is it the same the other way 'round?

zoltron · 01-02-2010, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by №1

I thought it was half your age plus seven years for the "how young is too young" question

That would be 34/35 for me. Yeah, that sounds about right.

wellfleation · 01-03-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by SageTree

My wife is 5 years older than me.

Mine is 4

I banged a woman when I was 21 who said she was old enough to be my mother. Her friend (who I also banged @ the same time was) I think was 29. One night stands - they were on vacation. I've had a few other older women, but nothing significant relationship wise until I met my now wife 13 years ago.

The SARS Volta · 01-03-2010, 01:08 PM

4 or 5 years up is absolutely nothing unreasonable or scandalous( unless = <18 ) regardless that the woman is the older party instead of the dude.

i can't see myself wanting to date/fuck/be involved with anybody significantly closer to my parents' age than they are to mine.

first off...i doubt i would be able to relate to someone who is decades my senior. secondly, my friends and theirs would never mesh. thirdly--maybe you have a son my age?

give me his digits, pops

wellfleation · 01-03-2010, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by The SARS Volta

4 or 5 years up is absolutely nothing unreasonable or scandalous( unless = <18 ) regardless that the woman is the older party instead of the dude.

i can't see myself wanting to date/fuck/be involved with anybody significantly closer to my parents' age than they are to mine.

first off...i doubt i would be able to relate to someone who is decades my senior. secondly, my friends and theirs would never mesh. thirdly--maybe you have a son my age?

give me his digits, pops

That's because you are female - way dif. Most women who date much older guys are motivated by money. Guys are motivated to gain experience, and if the woman is hot, it's a done deal generally speaking, that is.

Cerebro · 01-03-2010, 03:38 PM

the cougar i messed with had no kids.
so, to be frank, she had a tigher pussy than some milfs i've had.
she was also quite childish, we had no real age gap issues
except her skin was getting loose all over, that started to bother me after awhile
and as you said sars, i'd never have introduced her to friends etc
it was purely a sex and cooking thing.

The SARS Volta · 01-03-2010, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Cerebro

the cougar i messed with had no kids.
so, to be frank, she had a tigher pussy than some milfs i've had.
she was also quite childish, we had no real age gap issues
except her skin was getting loose all over, that started to bother me after awhile
and as you said sars, i'd never have introduced her to friends etc
it was purely a sex and cooking thing.

lol, she doesn't sound like much of a catch IMO. a child-ish, child-less sag hag who you couldn't introduce to your boys on account of her presence? i'm willing to bet you were not surprised it didn't last.

wellfleation, i agree with that statement applied to the general public of serial age-difference daters.

if i was dirt-broke and/or hopeless enough of a soul to base false attraction and feigned relationships to meet goals of financial gain for myself, hopefully someone in my life would do me a favor and put me out of my misery.

no...really

Cerebro · 01-03-2010, 03:53 PM

she was a great cook, and did anal

wellfleation · 01-03-2010, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by wellfleation

That's because you are female - way dif. Most women who date much older guys are motivated by money. Guys are motivated to gain experience, and if the woman is hot, it's a done deal generally speaking, that is.

And I forgot to mention the inflated ego of getting a much older woman. This goes along with the challenge factor.

Not too many guys will actually date a much older woman. But there are the rare exceptions, such as Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore. But then their lives aren't grounded in real reality, plus she is still super hot.

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