HappyToker

Before you read this, its more of a rant than anything else so just letting you guys know.

Alright, so from an outsiders perspective, everything is good in my life. I'm in a great university, getting straight a's this term, i got a steady job, i'm working out 3-4 times a week, and obviously I smoke a lil too much weed haha. But even through all of that, I still feel so alone.
I have awesome roommates who were my friends since freshman year. I have a lot of friends that range from nerdy freshman engineering students to gorgeous sorority girls to weekend warrior frat boys. But I guess the problem really lies with my girl issues. I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years a few months ago and nothing seems to be going well since then. Yeah I get with girls every few weeks but nothing seems to happen after that either because they aren't interested or because I'm not interested. It feels like a big void in my life. My roommates are frat boys and they have girls they hang out with all the time and I just feel really left out. There's one girl that I hang out with a good amount, we hook up every now and then, but she always says we're nothing more than friends. It just sucks. I really liked having a girlfriend and having a person that I can talk to about everything and anything and having a more than friends relationship. Right now though, I feel really alone even though I have so many awesome people in my life and I just don't know what to do to get that feeling to go away.

So basically I'm asking if you guys have any advice or anything that can help me out or if its just normal to have a life doomed to never getting what I want (I sure hope not!)

smb43432

patience is a virtue

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Debaser

First off, stop being such a drama queen. by the sounds of it, you have it pretty good. not having a girlfriend doesn't even come close to "never getting what i want".

Second, it's prefectly natural to feel this way when you hang out with couples, especially if you're coming off a long term relationship.

Third (and this is the best advice you'll get on the subject), ENJOY the "time off", you're still young and there are plenty of women in your future...before you even realize it, you'll be hooked up again and on here making a post about how you miss being single.

It's just a passing phase in life, you'll get thru it just fine, I know because I've been there many times.

(in the meantime, there's always Palmela Handerson! )

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