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Old 05-28-2010, 09:03 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Wow.... such a small world

Ill try to keep this short for you guys, cause i could write 6 pages about this lol. This threads about a girl but ill start at the beginning...

In college i had a bunch of classes with this girl, ashley. Who eventually got me this job at sams club. But this thread is not about ashley. This is about the girl that works in the tire department. At first i thought it was pretty badass that there was a chick in the tire department, and she seemed pretty cool. Even though she always wore this blue jumpsuit and hat. But i only got to talk to her once and never really paid a great deal of attention to her otherwise .

So one day ashley comes up to me and says that her friend is interested in me, and wants to know if im single. Well at the time i was seeing someone, so i said 'no im not' and kinda made jokes about how i felt like i was in high school again. lol. Well later on i find out that its the girl from tires, and that this girl is actually ashley's roommate. believe it or not.

Ever since that day I kinda began to develop a crush on this girl. I guess just knowing that she liked me got me to somehow start liking her... Its crazy how things work. Anyway jump ahead about 4 months... I break up with the girl i was seeing for about a year. It felt good to be free and on my own again, and i was considering talking to this girl from tires. But i still have only ever had that one conversation with her. thats it.

But turns out she got fired a month or two back, and Ashley moved to new york about a week later. I didnt get a chance to ask about her. So lately the past few weeks for me I have been thinking about her alot. Its been bothering me that i didnt take my opportunity to talk with her when i had the chance. And that i know so little about her. All i know is.... Her name is Laura, she likes raves, apparently kinda big on xtc , And can mount/un-mount tires on my car haha .... and at one point was interested in me. The other day I was saying to my friend " i wonder where shes working now, wouldnt it be crazy if i could find her". There was something real different about this girl, and she stuck in my mind.

So fast forward to earlier today . I go to my favorite chinese buffet, the one i have been going to for years. Now obviously its run by chinese people, but for years there has been this one white girl the works behind the counter some days. I never paid that much attention to her, maybe outta 50 times ide go she'd be working 7 times outta the 50. But she was working today.

She looked soooo much like laura, but i was like noo way its her. i cant be, this girl has been working here for years. and this girl refused to make eye contact with me the whole time i was standing there. So i saw her a few times while eating, i was still puzzled by the giant resemblance she had. By the end of my meal i had convinced myself that it definitely wasnt her. So i walk outside and see Lauras car. I know its her car because how many red civics do you see with 8 Million kandi bracelets hanging from the mirror lol. So im completely shocked by the fact that all of this is actually true and that i found laura at the chinese buffet i have been going to for years, before i even started working at sams club.

isnt it crazy how life works out? Ive been going to this restaurant for years, seeing this girl there, then end up having a bunch of college classes with this girls roommate, who ends up getting me a job at sams club where this girl also works and we officially meet. Then i finally find her again at the very first place i have ever seen her..... Maybe this is fate? or maybe the world is definitely a small place. Either way now i can finally talk to her and see if she wants to go out sometime
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Old 05-28-2010, 09:08 PM   #2 (permalink)
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thats a cool story! i always trip out on all the strange connections and interconnections that occur within groups of people. if you dont know about it, you should read about the six degrees of seperation theory, i think its kinda behind this whole association you have with this girl.

also, +1 for raver girls
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Old 05-28-2010, 11:57 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Haha i knew you would appreciate that shes a big raver.

Ill def check that out though, thanks man. Its crazy how i feel this connection somehow with her. I dont know if its just the fact that at one point i know i could have had her. But for having talked with her for so little, shes def on my mind A Lot lately. Its this crazy feeling, and it strange how all of it is connected and i keep finding her... lol looks i might be eating there a lot the next few days
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Old 05-29-2010, 12:30 AM   #4 (permalink)
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rights, raver lasses are what you want. you cant beat post rave comedown sex
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Old 05-29-2010, 05:06 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Hahaha hell yea! I know what you mean by that connection. You just know your linked to someone. I have had visions of this one girl I was pretty cool with, but I just kinda gave up on it we're on two different paths.

I wish you the best of luck brother. My little word of advice is, don't just go to that restaurant religiously hehe. Wait a week or so, and go back in, and when you see her be like "Woah! whatsup!?"(I'm sure you'd have better words for that situation haha).

Go get her!
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Old 05-29-2010, 02:18 PM   #8 (permalink)
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My little word of advice is, don't just go to that restaurant religiously hehe. Wait a week or so, and go back in, and when you see her be like "Woah! whatsup!?"
why not? if he's gone there for years he's got a right to be there! and besides if she is that interested in him(enough to have her roommate ask him about her) then I'd say there's no reason to take it slow. but it's all conditional anyways. it's awesome when shit works out like that though.
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Im pretty sure she only works there like 2 days a week, so its really hit or miss. But shes been there for years so i know shes not going anywhere, at least i hope not lol.

Whenever she was into me, and got her friend to ask me... that was a whole year ago. Last summer. Sooo... theres a good chance she has a dude or just isnt interested anymore. But i still gotta find out and get some closure on all of this shit.
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i think you should be direct and just talk to her again. waiting introduces the possibility of a missed opportunity
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