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Old 09-09-2010, 07:47 PM   #1 (permalink)
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One of my best friends...

practically my big brother, killed himself today. shot himself in the heart. i just got done screaming and crying like a baby. he was 26 years old. RIP Robert Poteet, the good die young.

please send your prayers and condolences..

I don't know really anything at all right now I just found out about 30 minutes ago, I had to take a fistful of xanax to bring me out of a monstrosity of a panic attack. my other best friend (Rob's step-brother) called and told me, he didn't say much between crying, and he had to help comfort Rob's younger brother.

I JUST SAW HIM ON SUNDAY for the first time in a few months, he had all these brand new tattoos to show me and told me him and his girl were getting a new apartment and told me to come over anytime. this is my third friend to die this summer, second from suicide.

I am dead inside.
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Old 09-09-2010, 08:21 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I lost two friends I met the same night 18 years earlier, within 2 months of each other in 2006. Two of the nicest people I have ever met. Devastated me. That sucks, man.
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That sucks man. I always felt that people who kill themselves are selfish in regards to those they leave behind. But hey, I also realize I'm not walking in their shoes.

That being said, my best friends father, a reverend, killed himself with a shot gun shot to the chest about 15 years ago. My best friends younger brother found him in the basement of their home. My best friends little brother has been an alcoholic pretty much ever since -self medicating I assume. I grew up with these people since I was 8.

It's a horrible thing to deal with.
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Old 09-09-2010, 08:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Holy Cow MIB, I'm so sorry to hear that. Much condolences to you and your friend's family. I know how it feels to lose a close friend. My boy Charlie died last year, kidney failure due to his MS. Fuuck, words can't describe how bad it feels. Idk what I could do, but if there's anything lemme know.
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Shooting death considered suspicious

breaking news, now they are considering the shooting suspicious.
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Do you know why? The article didn't really say.
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Oh, I am so sorry, wish I could be there ofor you.

Prayers for the family.
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Do you know why? The article didn't really say.
I really don't have much information. I am baby sitting Rob's nieces and nephews right now while his brother his brother's wife are out taking care of some kind of probation stuff. Still waiting to hear more details, everything is very foggy right now.

All I know for certain is; he's gone.
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i'm really sorry to hear that dude
i really wish you and your friends the best throughout this difficult time
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Old 09-10-2010, 05:47 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Very sorry dude. Keep your wits about you, though. No matter how much the loss tears at you, no matter who it is, you can only take it so far. Can't let life destroy you.
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coroner released the results at 6PM, it was suicide
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Damn that's harsh.

RIP

Try to look after yourself and his family. Wishing you strength man.
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MY FALLEN BROTHER ROB, GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN, YOU'LL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART HOMIE I LOVE YOU
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Damn dude, rip .
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i am sorry to hear the news man

i just had a good buddy hang himself...the shit is hard to get over.

my only advice is to live everyday to the fullest for yourself and his memory.

RIP Robert
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Rough shit brother. Different story but I've been there. I'm admittedly kinda at a loss for what to say to you that hasn't already been said. Toss me a PM if you need an ear though. All the best to you and everyone involved.
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