Cheating?

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 02:51 PM

So my girlfriend didn't answer any of my calls or texts for about a week. Finally she decided to text me back one day (apparently she has crappy service) and it turns out that her mom (who she lives with) is moving things out of the house to a new place. So she's staying at her ex's place..this is thing that's got me thinking.
For one thing, she claimed before to not even be very fond of him anyways, so why would she want to stay there for x amount of time?
For another, this guy, jason, doesn't seem to have any issue texting her while he's home. I asked her why she couldn't just use his phone for a minute but she says he has bad service too.
From the second I found out she was staying there I've just been getting this stench of bullshit.
What says you all?

Lloydy · 09-15-2010, 02:58 PM

ABORT

**AlteredStateGrl** · 09-15-2010, 02:59 PM

I say end it and make sure she knows it's over.

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 03:05 PM

Ha, I agree with you both. I'm gonna make sure she feels like shit and that this guy spends a few days in the hospital or at least sustains a couple broken bones.

Captain Cannabis · 09-15-2010, 03:06 PM

shes back with the ex. kind of a shame she didn't tell you it was over herself

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 03:09 PM

Yeah it's pretty low. Can't say I didn't expect it though. From my experiences there isn't a single female in the world worth trusting.

ki11a · 09-15-2010, 03:11 PM

Look for a new female, one preferably that is faithful.

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 03:13 PM

I've tried that numerous times and it hasn't made it any easier to find a trustworthy female.

Captain Cannabis · 09-15-2010, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by coronapapi

Yeah it's pretty low. Can't say I didn't expect it though. From my experiences there isn't a single female in the world worth trusting.

you need to do some exploring of the world

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 03:15 PM

Well that's one of my goals in life..but being homeless and totally broke makes it pretty difficult to achieve.

**SageTree** · 09-15-2010, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by coronapapi

Ha, I agree with you both. I'm gonna make sure she feels like shit and that this guy spends a few days in the hospital or at least sustains a couple broken bones.

haha mangled bones and face isn't exactly going to help with the 'clean break' portion of ending

count your chips and get out brother.

farmergiles · 09-15-2010, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by coronapapi

I'm gonna make sure she feels like shit and that this guy spends a few days in the hospital or at least sustains a couple broken bones.

By all means make her feel like shit- but if you hospitalise the geezer you are going to look like shit and she will feel no remorse

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**SageTree** · 09-15-2010, 03:34 PM

I think looking like you don't care will make her 'feel like shit' the most personally and then 'beating someone up' is added into that mix will totally blow your cover. That is the legally and possibly morally the safest approach

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 06:06 PM

haha
Well she's gone against my morals so I'm gonna show her how I feel the situation should be rectified.
and legality? peh, a small issue in my eyes.

**SageTree** · 09-15-2010, 06:24 PM

Not stopping anyone who can accept the consequences brother, everything in moderation.

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 06:25 PM

Indeed..maybe I'll just rough him up a bit and call it good.

Debaser · 09-15-2010, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by coronapapi

Indeed..maybe I'll just rough him up a bit and call it good.

I never understood the whole "you messed around with my girl so now I'm gonna kick your ass" thing. He's just being a guy. If you were with some smokin' hot chick and she was DTF you'd hit it even if she had a man. Most men would, and the ones that wouldn't either have hotter chicks at home, or they've got alot more morals than your average guy.

Unless it was a forced scenario, or he held a gun to her head, you can't fault a guy for being a guy. Besides, wtf is it going to prove? If she already did the deed, all you're doing is adding possible assault charges to your record, and you may not care about that now, but when you get older and your record comes back to haunt you, you'll probably think differently. Not worth it, imo. Cut your losses, fine a finer bitch, and make sure the ex hears all about it, that's the sweetest revenge you can get.

coronapapi · 09-15-2010, 06:53 PM

I guess I'm one of the few good guys in the world then. If a chick's got a guy, she's off limits. Period. It's not all that hard of a moral to live by.
and sure, assault charges would be bad. But I believe in justice, not undue dishonesty.

**SageTree** · 09-15-2010, 07:01 PM

speaking of just-ice.... hockey season is coming up

Debaser · 09-15-2010, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by coronapapi

. Period. It's not all that hard of a moral to live by.
.

I firmly believe that after a few drinks and some hot bitch rubbing all over your package, you would change that answer.

09-15-2010, 02:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	Cheating? So my girlfriend didn't answer any of my calls or texts for about a week. Finally she decided to text me back one day (apparently she has crappy service) and it turns out that her mom (who she lives with) is moving things out of the house to a new place. So she's staying at her ex's place..this is thing that's got me thinking. For one thing, she claimed before to not even be very fond of him anyways, so why would she want to stay there for x amount of time? For another, this guy, jason, doesn't seem to have any issue texting her while he's home. I asked her why she couldn't just use his phone for a minute but she says he has bad service too. From the second I found out she was staying there I've just been getting this stench of bullshit. What says you all? __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

09-15-2010, 02:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
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09-15-2010, 03:05 PM	#4 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	Ha, I agree with you both. I'm gonna make sure she feels like shit and that this guy spends a few days in the hospital or at least sustains a couple broken bones. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

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Captain Cannabis safety word: more Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: m.i.a. Posts: 13,922 Thanks: 2,705 Thanked 3,174 Times in 1,812 Posts	shes back with the ex. kind of a shame she didn't tell you it was over herself __________________ fuck the monkeys

09-15-2010, 03:09 PM	#6 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	Yeah it's pretty low. Can't say I didn't expect it though. From my experiences there isn't a single female in the world worth trusting. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

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ki11a Schizo Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 955 Blog Entries: 1 Thanks: 29 Thanked 233 Times in 129 Posts	Look for a new female, one preferably that is faithful. __________________ Last edited by farmergiles; 09-15-2010 at 04:47 PM. Reason: .

09-15-2010, 03:13 PM	#8 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	I've tried that numerous times and it hasn't made it any easier to find a trustworthy female. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

09-15-2010, 03:15 PM	#10 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	Well that's one of my goals in life..but being homeless and totally broke makes it pretty difficult to achieve. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

09-15-2010, 03:34 PM	#13 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 23,414 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 13,070 Thanked 6,768 Times in 4,664 Posts	I think looking like you don't care will make her 'feel like shit' the most personally and then 'beating someone up' is added into that mix will totally blow your cover. That is the legally and possibly morally the safest approach __________________ "What's oppressive is letting your life be confined by old definitions of what everything is." -Zen Meister my_scatterheart YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance.

09-15-2010, 06:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	haha Well she's gone against my morals so I'm gonna show her how I feel the situation should be rectified. and legality? peh, a small issue in my eyes. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

09-15-2010, 06:24 PM	#15 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 23,414 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 13,070 Thanked 6,768 Times in 4,664 Posts	Not stopping anyone who can accept the consequences brother, everything in moderation. __________________ "What's oppressive is letting your life be confined by old definitions of what everything is." -Zen Meister my_scatterheart YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance.

09-15-2010, 06:25 PM	#16 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	Indeed..maybe I'll just rough him up a bit and call it good. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

09-15-2010, 06:53 PM	#18 (permalink)
coronapapi YaHookan Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Portland, OR Posts: 62 Thanks: 14 Thanked 8 Times in 7 Posts	I guess I'm one of the few good guys in the world then. If a chick's got a guy, she's off limits. Period. It's not all that hard of a moral to live by. and sure, assault charges would be bad. But I believe in justice, not undue dishonesty. __________________ Searching for answers to endless questions

09-15-2010, 07:01 PM	#19 (permalink)
SageTree ~Kalyāṇa-mitrā~ Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: In Love Posts: 23,414 Blog Entries: 26 Thanks: 13,070 Thanked 6,768 Times in 4,664 Posts	speaking of just-ice.... hockey season is coming up __________________ "What's oppressive is letting your life be confined by old definitions of what everything is." -Zen Meister my_scatterheart YaHooka is.... Cannabis lovers from around the world pulling up a comfy chair, picking up a vaporizer, a bong, a brownie, a pipe, or a joint, getting high, stoned, buzzed or healthy. Uniting our minds in conversation...While Portraying a Positive Image of marijuana and marijuana users to the world. Treat your fellow YaHookans with kindness,respect and tolerance.

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