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Old 03-26-2011, 03:52 PM   #41 (permalink)
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also its interesting that your location says terrapin station because i live in the town where terrapin beer is made? is there any relation?
sadly i do not live in your town. its a grateful dead reference
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Yo ted if I was a girl id bang the shit out of you.

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If online dating is your next step, I think the obvious solution is to find a chick here. I nominate anitablaze. You two can go ahead and get busy makin' some Yahooka babies now. Kthx.
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Old 03-26-2011, 07:17 PM   #45 (permalink)
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i pick animallover420 for my yahookan girl.
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aight here is the thing about online dating sites...


i got nothing against the concept and think itd be a great way to meet someone..
but ive been scrolling through that plentyoffish site.. and its like 90% chubby or fat chicks.

now i dont doubt that the guys profiles on there are generally perfect or anything either..


why is it that good looking people dont use these things as well?

Good looking people seem pretty content with the normal way of meeting people
(even though its not like that way is super successful or anything)



lol i really dont know what im getting at.
Ive seen some girls that seem cool and i would pursue on the site, but 90% of them seem to be overweight girls.
Why is it that online dating is like the next step after you fail at the normal way? It seems like it would be a better way of meeting compatible people.

Edit: it could be cause im lookin at girls like 18-23ish since im only 20. And that young girls are still trying the normal way more. idk. still not sure of my point.
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Old 03-26-2011, 08:56 PM   #48 (permalink)
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Not true FB..my girlfriend broke up with her longterm boyfriend when dshe was 26 and she was in fine form. she started out with on-line dating sites to begin with because she was just not redy for the "meat" market..so to say..but she also mixed it up and did both...she failed miserably because she lacks a personality and picks up lowlives in donut shops now but that's another story and we no longer hang out.

i don't get your point either FB lol.

or my own haha
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Old 03-26-2011, 09:03 PM   #49 (permalink)
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i pick animallover420 for my yahookan girl.
she's already wifed up fender. down boy.

@tedkennedy I hear ya on that note about the profile pic. I try to avoid having my pic give me away irl. I have a shitload of fb friends in my home town so my pic pops up whenever I comment on my friend's stuff. therefore a bunch more people see my pic associated with my name than I actually know. It's awkward to meet some one for the first time and have them already know your first and last name.

If you just need a little something something I find that hitting a bar with some cute homegirls is a good strategy to get noticed.
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Old 03-26-2011, 09:53 PM   #50 (permalink)
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$.02, if I may.

Didn't read the whole thread, but from the first few posts, I'll say this. Attraction, whether it's physical, personality-wise, etc. -- if it's long run you're talking, I think if you're not into it sexually then it's eventually going to fizzle and that will be a problem. My ex, while a really nice girl, was not my type, I did some things I'm not proud of, and it was train wreck city. If she gets you goin AND she's chill, then I think you've struck gold and it's worth your time. It's certainly not your fault if she gets attached, like was said, and everybody gets their heart broken, but I wouldn't try and be deliberate about it. That's just shitty. Nobody likes a shitty person. Being honest will get you a lot further than you think, imho.

I think it's a good thing that you're able to look at somebody that meets the contemporary definition of "hot" and not feel intimidated. I think that says a lot about how you feel about yourself, i.e., you don't think you aren't good enough, worth enough, whatever it is. And I think it takes a whole lot of self-love and being comfortable on your own before you're able to be comfortable with/committed to anybody else. Some of that is getting experience, maybe, according to some. I don't think you necessarily need to have been around the block, though. Unless that's what you want out of your life, then, by all means, don't let anybody stop you. Get that monkey off your back before you decide to settle down. There's plenty of chicks that feel bad enough about themselves that are willing to get down with the first person to show them attention. Same goes for some guys, too, only I think they're more apt to put up the douchebag wall I see mentioned earlier.

RE: Online dating -- yeah, it's cool. But until you've actually gone out with someone you meet online, you just have a pen pal. Nothing wrong with the tried and true method of approaching women you meet in real life and expressing interest. It's harder when you're face to face, sure, but it also exudes confidence which is essential. Anyone with a computer and an internet connection can be the man in a chatroom, but it takes balls to actually get in someone's face and ask if you can buy them a drink, whatever. Nothing wrong with getting a few dates out of online dating, and yeah, it's true that a lot of relationships nowadays start because of people meeting each other online, but don't compromise yourself or what feels right just for the sake of getting dates. Anybody here could say something about your profile you posted and tell you what to do to look a catch, but, ultimately, it's up to you.

(An aside, I've heard that people who have the most success on sites like that are the people who are basically constantly updating/changing their profile. Not like changing who they are/who they represent themselves as, but adding a new picture, putting on different interests, different quotes, different shit in their "about mes", all that kinda thing. My girlfriend used to use one of those sites and she landed many a date via this method, is my source. If that's at all helpful.)

I agree with the consensus about fuck what your relatives think. That's shit. This generation has no excuse for building up walls based on age, orientation, race, religion, etc. -- however, I will say that if any of these things are particularly important to your family/her family/his family, then don't be surprised if it's that much more difficult. I have a lot of friends who would refuse to date anyone outside of their race or religion. I, myself, don't really care, nor does my family. My girlfriend has a lot of friends that would refuse to date other people who aren't from their families' tradition. Luckily for me, that's not an issue with her or her family, because I wouldn't make that cut. It's bullshit, all of it, but that's life, I guess.

Good luck to you, dude.
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Old 03-26-2011, 09:54 PM   #51 (permalink)
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If you just need a little something something I find that hitting a bar with some cute homegirls is a good strategy to get noticed.
fucking.word.


I snagged my first girl with by chance, but since then ive only gotten girls just by having chick friends, and then hookin up with their friends.


You dont even have to try to meet girls. Just wait for your female friends to get more friends.
Plus girls seeing you already being capable of being social with girls makes it easier.
Plus it is easier to make friends then lovers... much easier.
Find some cool chicks, but eliminate the whole "looking for a lover" concept from your mind. You dont have to find them physically attractive to be a friend ya know?.

Get some chick friends and pussy should basically come to you...

(not the best long term strategy though, as you might have a whole group of people pissed at you not just ur girl lol )
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In my experience volunteering is a great place to meet people, a good ice breaker and easy to catch a coffee or meal after a shift.

Granted I'm not looking for dates, but I've made lots of good friends volunteering that have out lasted either of our placements in the organization.

So maybe it doesn't have to be volunteering, but maybe there is a club or interest you have that would transpire similar results as well, Ted?
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^ you sound like my father, he always lectures me to join clubs, but yes I agree.
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it is. I put myself on the free agents list for co-ed intramural sports, that should work out well as I destroy at most competitive activities. girls like it when you smash a badminton birdy into their face right?
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it is. I put myself on the free agents list for co-ed intramural sports, that should work out well as I destroy at most competitive activities. girls like it when you smash a badminton birdy into their face right?
lol, the one that does is a keeper.
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^ you sound like my father, he always lectures me to join clubs, but yes I agree.
nigga I AM your DAD !!!!!!!


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