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good talk yahooka...good talk.
many thanks to everyone except capt
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One thing I can add (whether it's true or not) from what I've read is that women reach their sexual maturity later in life than men. I'm not saying physiologically but psycologically. The best advice I can give you man is to do what is gonna make you happy cuz that's what it's all about in the end.. whether you can live with your desicion a week later, a month later, etc. I mean who really wants to wake up years or even months later and realize they've wasted x amount of years with someone they don't truely want to be with? It sounds like you're asking us if you should settle or not.
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i am not an expert on women, but i think you'll probably regret it if you let this girl go without giving it a reasonable shot.
seems to me you like her, but you are a derp and can't figure it out.
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So yeah, update.
Ive been hanging out with the girl all the time since this post. Just finished the semester myself. Having a great time. She is an amazing girl. Im totally falling for her AGAIN to be honest lol. It's so much fun. Fallin in love all the time is totally worth the heartache it brings about. just sayin... Also, one of her first days back i got an amazzzzzing blow job from her. At least she is learning more than just how to outdrink me down at college LOL.
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So basically you just said she's sucking other dudes' dicks. If that's the case.. what's stopping you from fucking around?
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lol the dick sucking practice thing was just a joke really
but honestly i have no say what she does when she is thousands of miles away at college. Especially considering i broke it off with her in the first place. I know she has had sex with at least one person since we broke up that time (as have I). Id say it is safe to assume she has had more encounters with the whole college and partying and being a hot young girl. Im not really gonna start driving myself nuts over that shit. been there done that. And whats stopping me from fucking around? idk not much besides the fact that she would get hurt plus the fact that she is always around considering we are basically dating again this summer already. But yeah everything is going great and im happy as fuck and i believe she is too. My only qualm is that she wants to hang out with me evvvvvvvery fucking minute she can, which isnt a bad thing really. It's just that going from completely antisocial and friendless to full time gf/friend is a big change. I like my alone time yo.
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Dude, your gut and your dick seem pretty clear to me on this. don't put someone through needless suffering if you know you can't commit to their rules. bad karma.
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I wont cheat on her.
yeah i have big doubts that anything will come of this really, but i dont think that means i shouldn't "put her through needless suffering" . She seems pretty happy, and im pretty happy. Can't be too bad can it?
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lol I can't believe you are 20.
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yeah i bet it is surprising that im not as jaded and retarded as you spanky. Society tends to do that.
Doubts also tend to pop up during relations with females. You'll learn one day. ima rock my childish pure soul for a little while longer.
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You'll have plenty of alone time when she goes back to school. Be patient and don't let your hormones rule you (easier said than done). She sounds like a keeper to me.
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