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YaHookan
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Hey everyone, I have a serious question...
I am new to this forum, but judging by the name I think I've come to the right place! My hubby and I are young parents, well...not 16 and pregnant. But, we are in our early 20's. We have a beautiful daughter, and have a nice apartment in a quiet part of town. But, we are very low income so we are currently using HUD(which is our states funding for housing), and also use other programs which help us with groceries and such. But, we also really enjoy herb! I have anxiety problems, and migrains while my husband has a bad back and neck...so we've really come to enjoy the benefits of this awesome medicine! I have been doing loads of research on the subject and know quite a bit about the scientific side of things, SO INTERESTING(I wish my parents would do a little research...instead of being judgmental assholes....)Anyways ! We decided to cut costs and start a small stelth grow in our closet...I know it sounds unorganized....but my husband is really in to this and turned a small dresser into a grow chamber. It seems pretty nice and all...but the plant is only 2 inches tall so far. To cut to the chase........my question here is, what is everyone opinion on our plan? Do you think we should do it with a kid and while in a state funded home? My old conformist/closeminded/brainwashed lutheran brain says NONONONONONO! But, all the research I've done says, Why not?? Especially in the case that we shouldnt be spending our last bit of cash on the stuff cuz we have diapers and stuff to buy. Please let me know what your opinions are...either negative or positive...I just want to hear other voices than the annoying one in my head.
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Depends on your state's housing program, but i'd say for the most part you'll be safe. As long as you keep paying your bills/taxes on time and don't cause a ruckus you should be just fine.
Do they run code inspections frequently? I'd be more worried about the quality of your neighbors than the government about ripping your growbox. Your husband should wander into our Growing the Good Herb section for keeping a stealth grow with still good results.
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Thanks, Kompressor. (which reminds me...we just bought one and it makes great hash!) The Hud people only come by once inawhile and they only check certain things, like whether our home is safe for us to live in...not whats in the closet. So, I think the only other things that worries me(and I am new to stelth grows entirely...never done it)...is the smell. How bad is it really? Some people say it will fill a 4 bedroom house...others say a simple spray of lysol takes it out...
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how many seeds/clones have u got so far?...
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if you are living on the governments dime you ought to, at the very least, move the grow outside of your house. you dont want to lose you house over a single plant.
if you live near any outdoorsy type places, you might be able to take a hike and throw down some seeds in a relatively hidden area. also, Welcome
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YaHookan
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Thanks for the replies. And I agree. But, my husband thinks that it's ok. Even though I am very anxious about the subject, the grow won't end. There is one plant that he didn't remove from the the starter casing soon enough and which will probably die. And there are two new ones that should sprout in a few days. Of course this is a matter between me and him to settle, but your responses have given me some more courage to bring up my concerns with him. I really hope that one day no-one will have to feel the pressures of a law enforcing society, which feeds on the poor and puts innocent people in jail. Maybe one day.....
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The biggest concern above and beyond everything else is the child's welfare.
Outdoors, while not completely risk free is considerably less and offers the possibility of completely detaching yourselves in the event of a bust. Fostering a grow at home in your situation would be very foolish, either way you should consult an attorney first. Initial consultations are usually free. Take advantage of it. Now the ugly details -The child. There is nobody else the child should be with except Mom and Dad. Unless Mom and Dad can't adequately provide for the child and that's the way you'll be painted by the Prosecutor if you're busted. I don't see anything about you be licensed to grow so I would assume the worst if I were you. Who does the child go to in the event that you're are busted? -Your benefits. Those would be likely be terminated, and you could be made to pay back some or all of what you've received during the time you were growing if you did get busted. -Your Residence. If you choose to grow, you better make sure it's within the legal boundaries of the law because of the residence you are in. You can bet that getting busted in Govt Funded/Section 8 housing with an illegal grow would merit charges that came along with severe fines and penalties. Just using could get you evicted. -Suspension of any future benefits. I grew for a few years before my daughter came along, and harvested my last grow right after she was born. And that was that. I miss it terribly, but I have no separate area to care for the grow which is what would have to happen if I started again. If you have everything lined up to do this the right way, within the boundaries of the laws in your State, go for it. If not, I strongly recommend you talk to a Lawyer before this goes any further. There are many other issues and topics of discussion that you should be informed about when it comes to things like this. Growing is the easy part. It's managing everything else that comes along with it that usually creates the problems. |
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Because it is illegal & you have a child. I'm all for smoking weed and even growing your own. If you want to take that risk then thats your choice, but I dont think you should with a child.
I agree with the others about trying to grow outdoors. Find a secluded place on public property. You wont have to stress about what is inside your closet every time someone knocks on the door. Plus sunlight is Free! Best of luck to your family, whatever you decide to do. Check out the GTGH section on this forum for some good info.
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YaHookan
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Thanks very much, your replies will definitely help me. I also agree with everyone's statements, and I held those beliefs before I asked...but it's confronting my husband which is the hardest part. He is very eager to serve and protect his family, but gets obsessed at times and has a hard time remembering that we are just as likely as the next guy for getting busted. He can hold a heated argument against any topic, and will talk your ear off if he feels strongly about something. So, me bringing in your responses to the conversation will give me the backing I need to bring this operation to an end(At least for the indoors idea). Because I, like all of you am deeply concerned with the whole thing because I really love my daughter and don't wish to be separated. Thanks again all
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