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The final nail in the supply side coffin.
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Seems the folks doing the investing in America are only investing in American Corporations who don't actually do anything for Americans.
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Sorry to hear you've fallen on hard times, man. The suggestion for growing your own garden are FABULOUS. Our garden is starting to go crazy now! TONS of fruits and veggies, it's SO awesome to not have to buy them at the grocery store!
The food bank is there for people in need. You're right to use it. May I suggest, when you're back on your feet again, donating a little bit of food to the bank. It's a kind, thankful thing to do, and you'll be helping out someone else in need. If you feel bad, giving back when you can, may help. ![]() You are not alone. Many, many working families can't afford even the basics and don't qualify for assistance. Sucks ass that people who make no effort to do anything, are able to get assistance...yet, people who are working but still can't make ends meet, don't get anything. It's terrible and horribly stressful. Hang in there. You can prevail.
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There's nothing to feel ashamed about if you are poor.
Especially if it's thru no fault of your own. Remember that the pain you are feeling is because you are growing. Only hard times will develop your character. There is nothing you can do about it except keep slogging on, don't give up and your luck will turn eventually. The times that I felt most 'alive' were those when I was totally broke. I've know hunger and it is important for everyone to know it, only then can we apreciate the good things in life. The key to surviving the present economic downturn is to learn how to live within your means. Any unneeded expenses must be dropped anything you can downsize then do it. It will be alright, we have all been poor in our twenties and thirties at sometime or another. Life is full of ups and downs and in another 3 years or so you may have your yacht tied up next to mine in san tropez and we will be toking together amongst countless topless babes............... ......... |
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^agree-everybody's living situations are far more precarious now with things the way they are-best not to blame yourself and to ask what your alternatives are and to make do while keeping an eye open for other opportunities.
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this topic is literally the knife edge of where theory meets reality.
the key to keep in mind , imo, is that we are a free society where we all kinda have to use various methods to stand up for what we believe in . what we get is a mish mosh of actions and beliefs... but its more representative of the overall situation than anything clean and clear cut or simply explained would be... its a good thing to keep in mind when thinking about this. we are free people, making free choices and we get ourselves into these situations (and out of them) by smashing heads and banging skulls and making policies.... not by being told what to do by some higher ups or some communist junta.... its like how people lamented the suburban sprawl that took place after ww2.... lots of people complained about various effects of it.... some even said how it was horrible... but the fact remained that no one was forced to move to levittown... it was a huge mass of free people making their free choices in pursuit of plain vanilla self interest.... So it'll be interesting to see how it turns out i guess. This is nothing new, but eternally interesting and fascinating |
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I spent almost half a year in India and Nepal as well as five years in Egypt. I recommend that all of you read a book called city of joy if you can't get out into the third world.
Only when you see just how hard life is for over half of the worlds population, can you have a sense of proportion and realize just how lucky we westerners really are. Even our hardest times our lives are infinately better than most of the world's. |
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dont get me wrong, i appreciate what i do have, trust on that.
but thats not the point. its just very demoralizing to be doing everything you can to succeed but still have to slump down and goto the food bank.
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Now I don't think you're listening or considering what everyone has said (a lot of good shit has been said) and you're the last one at your pity party and kinda enjoying it at this point. Everyone got your point. It is what it is, and only you can change your attitude. But acting this way (^), isn't helping your situation. Especially after you've had so much help in this thread. And if you don't see any of this advice as help, you're not trying.
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Enjoy all of those simple, free pleasures. Appreciate the world and people around you. Enjoy your children. Enjoy being alive. Become a nice person. The meek will inheret the earth. Only the poor can be saved. |
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