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Old 09-20-2011, 10:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
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So my brother died yesterday...

RIP John, I love you.









fuck cancer.
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Old 09-20-2011, 10:12 AM   #2 (permalink)
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shit man that fucking sucks. i'm sorry.
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Old 09-20-2011, 10:18 AM   #3 (permalink)
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i bet you guys had some mighty good times....
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Old 09-20-2011, 10:46 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Seriously.... fuck cancer!




Sorry for your loss ~1~



Even though he's not next to you physically, it doesn't mean that he's not with you in some way.... there is still a relationship with him that is very real.

Like the loss of a body part, Your brain and heart will always send signals to that part of your being, that part isn't lost in a death.

This is where he still lives with you.

I hope in time you're able to learn to work with and accept the relationship and are to fill that space up with good memories and actions that honour your Brother and your Love for him.

That pain doesn't go away, but how we reflect on it does over time.
I wish you peace and ease in that transition.



If you need some private talk or to type out an angry rant that you just have to let go of... either way... you know where my inboxes are....

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Old 09-20-2011, 10:50 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Fuck cancer, indeed.



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Old 09-20-2011, 11:29 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 09-20-2011, 11:31 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Sorry d00d, my condolences to you and your family.

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Old 09-20-2011, 11:53 AM   #8 (permalink)
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cancer (fuck cancer)

Damn sorry to hear about your loss.
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Old 09-20-2011, 12:30 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Old 09-20-2011, 01:20 PM   #11 (permalink)
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That's rough for sure. Very sorry to hear that, lovely.
Hoping it was a peaceful transition for him and all involved, I'll be thinkin boutchya.
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Condolences man, sending good vibes. RIP.
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If your brother was even half the man we know you as, the world is indeed a little darker.

RIP Brother John.
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Condolences and strength.
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