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Old 03-18-2012, 10:05 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:05 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Before I can throw in my 2 cents on the subject, I want you to elaborate on the level of attraction here. When you say you're picky, answer a question for me honestly: Are you TOO picky? Once you look at your own appearance/flaws/baggage, are you being too hard on the chick? Or are you genuinely so uninterested in her that you can't stand the thought of putting it to her sober and yet you pass it off as being picky? Attraction isn't everything, because there will come a point when we're all old as shit and none of us look good. But if she's not doing it for you now, it's not going to get any better with time. So regardless of who she's talked slutty to on the web, I think you should address whether you actually want her or not.
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:20 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Before I can throw in my 2 cents on the subject, I want you to elaborate on the level of attraction here. When you say you're picky, answer a question for me honestly: Are you TOO picky? Once you look at your own appearance/flaws/baggage, are you being too hard on the chick? Or are you genuinely so uninterested in her that you can't stand the thought of putting it to her sober and yet you pass it off as being picky? Attraction isn't everything, because there will come a point when we're all old as shit and none of us look good. But if she's not doing it for you now, it's not going to get any better with time. So regardless of who she's talked slutty to on the web, I think you should address whether you actually want her or not.
Well it is a bit weird I admit, to be perfectly honest I am theoretically more sexually attracted to millions of other women then to her, but since there is more then just sex in a relationship, I do like most of her other qualities and I got used to her too.
Like I mentioned before she'll do anything to please me and although it being very manipulative, I don't know of a man who wouldn't weigh out all the pro's and con's first before sending off a girl like that.
Seriously the vast majority of married men I know are all past that point where if the sexual attraction was the most important link in the chain holding their relationships together, they would divorce straight away.
Somehow they don't...
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:23 PM   #24 (permalink)
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I do think that I deserve better tho.
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Old 03-18-2012, 10:31 PM   #25 (permalink)
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I think it's really cool that you see other things you adore in her. But seriously, you're a man. In a relationship worth keeping, you should be able get intimate with a woman no matter the level of intoxication or years you've been together, know what I mean? Maybe you've got hangups about her sexuality, or maybe the chemistry just isn't there and never will be. You can pm me some of her naughty pics and I'll tell you if it's just you or not. I would be willing to do you that favor.

Lololol just playin', man. You'll get it figured out. Good luck.



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Old 03-18-2012, 10:47 PM   #26 (permalink)
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I couldn't be bothered with pics 'cause of course she was fine with HD video and she loved it.
I can't send that because I'm in it too.
What can I say, she's good at compensating for any of her physical blemishes with other stuff, and no it can't be me since she'd do anything to keep me, not the other way around.
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Old 03-18-2012, 11:13 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Old 03-18-2012, 11:30 PM   #28 (permalink)
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One of my mates would get pissed and jump on PalTalk and just start seducing those horny little desperate sluts while his wife would crack out laughing her ass off listening to everything while doing dishes in the kitchen...
I might be old-fashioned but there is a slight difference between men seducing and women succumbing.
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Old 03-19-2012, 02:51 AM   #29 (permalink)
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Seriously the vast majority of married men I know are all past that point where if the sexual attraction was the most important link in the chain holding their relationships together, they would divorce straight away.
Somehow they don't...
But then surely you want to start off with a woman that you do find sexually attractive? Otherwise what hope is there of keeping that spark alive later?
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she was lying and going behind your back doing that shit in the first place, what makes you think she didn't do it?

she did.

don't pull a fender, put that hoe in her place and force her to bounce.
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Old 03-19-2012, 06:43 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Old 03-19-2012, 04:30 PM   #32 (permalink)
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You kinda have a lot of hang ups, don't you Stulic? Unless someone's doing something to deliberately hurt you, or with total indifference to your feelings, it's all arbitrary. You should seriously question your "shoulds" in life (how people should be, how things should be, how you should be, etc.). Putting some time into it every day is my advice.



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Old 03-19-2012, 05:12 PM   #33 (permalink)
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be honest are you talking about her unattractiveness to make yourself feel better because of what she did to you? it makes you feel a better person to think of stuff that way doesnt it? the truth is if you didn't like her that much or if she wasn't worthy of being with you then you wouldn't be so pissed off that she betrayed you like that, she obviously means alot more to you than you're letting on.
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Clives mom, I'm telling clive you posted under his name again....
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be honest are you talking about her unattractiveness to make yourself feel better because of what she did to you? it makes you feel a better person to think of stuff that way doesnt it? the truth is if you didn't like her that much or if she wasn't worthy of being with you then you wouldn't be so pissed off that she betrayed you like that, she obviously means alot more to you than you're letting on.
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This is really nobody's business but your own.I don't get people that ask the whole world for advice on a relationship.Having said that,you seem in pain and have to get off this train.You make it very clear that you have to get wasted to even get within touching distance.This is just a really bad trip.
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I'm still suck on how you "stumbled" across this stuff. Do you mean 'snooped'?

I think you carry too much baggage.

I honestly don't see where she's done anything wrong. You, however...........
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I'm still suck on how you "stumbled" across this stuff. Do you mean 'snooped'?

I think you carry too much baggage.

I honestly don't see where she's done anything wrong. You, however...........
lol yea cause telling other men she wants her face covered in their jizz is not wrong. and not just online men, but men she knows in real life, which she probably met up with and took action to thought.

fucking women logic..

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I'm still suck on how you "stumbled" across this stuff. Do you mean 'snooped'?

I think you carry too much baggage.

I honestly don't see where she's done anything wrong. You, however...........
lol wut?
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Old 03-20-2012, 01:31 PM   #40 (permalink)
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don't pull a fender, put that hoe in her place and force her to bounce.
lol. This.



ima continue to not listen to said advice tho. like a baws.
You should totally listen to this and bail tho...
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