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Old 01-08-2013, 04:03 AM   #21 (permalink)
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lol I can feel your anticipation across the Internet my friend
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Old 01-08-2013, 05:49 AM   #22 (permalink)
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morning sickness takes a few months to kick in doesnt it?
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:11 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Yeah she told me that after i posted the original.. But she is coming up neary 3 weeks late. Who knows this could all be nothing.. and I would be gutted!
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:16 AM   #24 (permalink)
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i always try to sneak in big news behind regular sounding dialogue. "ya i went to the store today and bought some bread. oh yeah, and i'm getting married."
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:22 AM   #25 (permalink)
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The first few months are critical man....

I'll include you and Wifey in my prayers for healthy happy babies when I'm saying my two for my sister and step-sister who are both pregnant.... 2.5 months and 3 weeks respectively.....
I kept reading this as "I'll include you and "my" Wifey" I was so excited! The Sages were going to have a little sapling!

OK we back to reality!

I am still super stoked for you Mesc! You are going to be a great dad!
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Old 01-08-2013, 06:32 AM   #26 (permalink)
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^Thanks Sage.. you are such a kind human being.

I just bought a test.. 120 Baht (4 dollars). Just waiting for the miss' to back from work. Should know for sure in under an hour now!

Just out of interest.. to those who have had kids.. how did you tell your parents? Also.. even if you haven't had kids.. how would you break the news?

I'm thinking of going in pretty direct.. something like.. 'Ma.. you're going to be a grandma'.. or just 'I'm going to be a dad'. I thought about trying to get a joke in there somehow to lighten the blow. I really have no idea how she will react.. but I'm pretty sure it will involve her bawling over the phone either way.



You could be like Ma, Pa....I finally figured out where to put it!!!! kidding

so how'd the test go?
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Old 01-08-2013, 07:12 AM   #28 (permalink)
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Titties! Big fuckin' titties! Already reaping the benefits.. however no free milk as of yet
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it's 7am!!!!

edit:riiight thailand right.
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I kept reading this as "I'll include you and "my" Wifey" I was so excited! The Sages were going to have a little sapling!

OK we back to reality!
nope!


You are the only baby I got, Baby!
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Wow! congrats man! I am sure happy for ya!
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Now do you remember the matter of the time you said you'd name your first born after me....
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Hahah. Now fingers crossed for the first trimester!
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are you hoping for a boy or a girl?
( i know you'd love either uncoditionally etc etc, but if you haaaaaaaaaaaad to chose?)

and how long you been with the missus?
where are you planning on raising your kid? thailand?

either way im stoked for you

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ahhh congrats man. im stoked for ya.

you are with a thai girl right?
Do you think you'll go with a westerner name or thai sounding?

and yeah, you think you are gonna raise the thing there? I know there are plenty of white dudes with thai girlfriends, but are there many white or mixed kids?

and i know your a teacher but how`s the quality of thai schooling these days?
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Thank you for all your kind comments Yahookan family!


I've been with her over five years now.. living together for most of it.

I'm hoping for a girl.. but really wouldn't mind either way.

If all goes well I will raise him/her/them(!) in Thailand. There are plenty of options for education.. especially advantageous for me.. as it is my profession.

There are plenty of mixed race children here.. and they are generally in a better position due to the lightness of their skin and English speaking abilities. (That's aother story though)

And as for names.. I'm liking the following at the moment..

Girls - Jess(ica), Sarah or Rebecca
Boys - Alex, Joules or Charlie

Still plenty of time though to change things.

I read that 25% of women miscarriage (which sucks). I don't want to dwell on that obviously.. but its a nagging thought at the moment.

I'm remaining quietly optimistic about the whole situation. I will feel much better when the first trimester is finished and everything is fine! Wish us luck!
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