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Old 05-04-2014, 02:32 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Old 05-04-2014, 05:36 PM   #22 (permalink)
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So i just texted her and wanted to meet up and she said she is with her mom and is staying with her for a few days. i asked her if i could pick her up to go eat something and she said no and doesnt want me at the ultrasound….sound legit?
WHOA! Hold on a second!

Ultrasounds are only done at 6 weeks due to complications like spotting and such otherwise the norm is 8-10, possibly 12 weeks for the first ultrasound, dude.

Answers I'd like to know if I were you:

Is she showing? Most women are or can feel the bump or recent tightness in the waistline.

How far along is she according to the doctor and when is she scheduled for her next ultrasound?

Approximate day of conception? That's an expected piece of information with the first ultrasound.

These three questions have answers that she should be able to provide answers to without hesitation unless she chooses not to.

If you are the father, what are your rights as the father according to your State's laws? While it may seem like a pain in the ass to read through, it would be a good idea if that's the way this goes.

Regardless of the outcome, it sucks to be you right now so let's get some answers and then help you deal with whatever this turns out to be.
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Stairs. She really should be more careful.
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tell her you just remembered you had a vasectomy ages ago
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There's some excellent advice goin on up in this bitch!
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It looks like a trap mate so be careful.
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So if it a trap, how do I proceed? Do I just say fuck it for now or do I pursue to find out the truth ?
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So if it a trap, how do I proceed? Do I just say fuck it for now or do I pursue to find out the truth ?
if you think it's worth finding the truth then go for it. but if you think its a waste of time and money then drop it dude. follow your instinct
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She DEFINITELY CAN NOT feel the baby "fluttering" already.

No way. No fucking way in hell!

Stop talking to her. Don't communicate at all. If she comes to you with a baby in 8 months demand a paternity test. Do not sign a birth certificate. She can't name you as father without a paternity test.

^this has all already been said of course, but everyone is right.
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Old 05-05-2014, 06:23 PM   #34 (permalink)
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She DEFINITELY CAN NOT feel the baby "fluttering" already.

No way. No fucking way in hell!

Stop talking to her. Don't communicate at all. If she comes to you with a baby in 8 months demand a paternity test. Do not sign a birth certificate. She can't name you as father without a paternity test.

^this has all already been said of course, but everyone is right.
Yep.

All of the women in this thread have given solid advice. Just like Term said, stop leading her on that you care.
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Old 05-05-2014, 06:37 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Your best friend right now is apathy.

Don't give any fucks.

This person sounds like a disaster, cut them out of your life immediately.
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One of the things they look for in an ultrasound is the length of the thigh bone, which is how they more accurately determine the age of the fetus. They don't do them that early without signs of something wrong.

You do not feel movement at 3 weeks.

They would give her a script for prenatal vits the first visit.

She's jerking your chain.
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She is 7 weeks 1 day pregnant. She just texted me the picture and it had all the info on it, names, dates. I asked for a DNA test and she said "done", and told me she will contact me when baby is born.
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Well man, if its true, then there's not much you can do. Don't sign that birth certificate until you have the DNA test done.
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No i am not signing nothing. So she miscalculated her timing. Last time before that we had sex at early AM (around 1-3am) on march 9th. her next period is on march 17 ( which she said she had). Sperm live 3-5 days rarely 7.
So is it possible to "precum" in her on the 9th and she gets pregnant on the 18th ( 7 weeks 1 day from today ) ??
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It's possible that she could be pregnant and still have a period of sorts.

What I don't think is possible is she got pregnant the day after her period started or ended.

I agree with everyone else. Don't sign anything and get a paternity test.
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