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Old 05-05-2015, 04:20 PM   #221 (permalink)
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Good question tho
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Old 05-05-2015, 06:31 PM   #222 (permalink)
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wow he expected another adult to disclose potentially detrimental information about his child.

didnt see that coming.
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Old 05-05-2015, 07:02 PM   #223 (permalink)
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Well one good thing...
Less drama in your life.

Nah.. You can't control what they do.. You did the right thing.

I wouldn't sweat it.
As long as you know.. And she's still ok.
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Old 05-06-2015, 07:49 AM   #224 (permalink)
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Now I have my Mother calling me (shit fuck shit fuck!) Telling me to call him. But he clearly doesn't want to speak to me. IMO calling him and continually trying to apologize is just going to make things worse.

I feel like I was in a lose lose situation. There was no right decision. But He seems more pissed off at me than he was at my cousin.

I get the feeling he thinks I was like, in on this whole thing. Like I have been encouraging her to date a pedophile multiple felon. To be honest, I'm kinda pissed off at him for being so pissed off at me. I never asked for any of this. I did my best to keep his daughter safe. Where the fuck has he been? OBVIOUSLY (as previously stated by someone) there are some family issues going on here that are WAY bigger than all of this.

Oh and then there's the whole "He's worried because of what happened with Sissy"(suicide). Like I had anything to do with that or anything to do with what is going on now. I live like, 300 miles away. Hold your own shit down and quit putting shit on me.

This is one reason why I try to stay out of the family bullshit. It always comes back on me. I'm totally the black sheep because I did Meth for like... 2-3 years of my life, like 7 YEARS AGO! Meanwhile Uncle's other other daughter (not suicide, not teenage bitch) was stealing money from EVERYONE to go slam heroin after just having a fucking BABY!

Sorry, I know I am rambling and giving lots of useless info that nobody cares about. This shit is just irritating as fuck to me. I think I have stressed enough over the whole fucking thing. And now I have to stress about this. The worst part is, he is pissed off at me and he has no idea what I have gone thru about this and what I have done to try and keep her safe because he refuses to speak to me.

When my cousin turns 18 I'm totally taking the trip to go see her so I can kick her ass. This is bullshit.
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Old 05-06-2015, 08:37 AM   #225 (permalink)
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Good vent, I give it a 9.5
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Old 05-06-2015, 08:43 AM   #226 (permalink)
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I stopped reading this thread at page 4 a while back, but now I'm reading the whole thing....

and I'm sad I missed the pic of this guy!!! Dammit he sounded like something!
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Old 05-06-2015, 08:51 AM   #227 (permalink)
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IMO, the way he holds grudges directly contributed to his daughter's suicide.

She felt abandoned by the family. I know, because I have been there too. She felt like she lost her husband and friends in the state she moved to and she couldn't turn to her family and go home because of they turned their back on her when she decided to get married and move out of state. All because they didn't like the guy she married.
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Old 05-06-2015, 10:19 AM   #228 (permalink)
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wow he expected another adult to disclose potentially detrimental information about his child.

didnt see that coming.
Qft.


Basically what I was getting at.

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Yeah but there were two ways to look at it.

The kids way and the parents way.

I as a parent would want to know... But also, I know that as a teenage girl if anyone tried to tell me anything.. I'd be off like a bat outta hell. So it's a thin line you're walking..

Hard choice to make.. Fragile situation. Fuck the uncle and his feelings.. How did he know you weren't going to tell him eventually?

Just tell him you didn't get the chance yet.. And if he wants to hold a grudge like a child then .. That's his choice.
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Old 05-07-2015, 01:13 PM   #230 (permalink)
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I would say fuck them all and not have anything to do with any of them anymore. Then I'd go buy another pig and raise it as a pet and be amazed what better company it is than those (sub) human relations
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I agree. When people bring the drama, I go no contact.
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That's pretty much how it's going right now. I don't care to talk to any of them. I cant remember the last time I actually spoke to some of them so fuck it, I'm not losing anything.

If they want to be assholes and put all this shit on me then Fuck it, Ill be like Atlas and carry the world on my shoulder and still hold my own shit down.

Fuck em all
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lol this thread is still going on and somehow it was all turned against you


umm.. hate to break it you, and you already know this, but your family is nuts and the less you are involved with them the better. you should leave your door open to anyone else who also sees that they are crazy (as fuck), because likely there is more than one person who doesn't have a good enough support network to escape them
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^I disagree, I think shadow should disregard family and bring back hammer pants.
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Old 05-08-2015, 08:13 AM   #235 (permalink)
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lol this thread is still going on and somehow it was all turned against you

Yeah, Everyone is all pissed off at me.

Meanwhile she's posting shit like this on facebook



Glad things are so amazingly awesome for her.

I swear it. Her 18th birthday wins her a punch in the face.
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Old 05-08-2015, 09:25 AM   #236 (permalink)
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lol... no. The Pig uncle is my Husband's uncle. His Father's brother, who lives with us because he has no place else to go and can't take care of himself.


My cousin's father, the one who is pissed off at me, is my blood uncle. My Mother's brother.
Respect.
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