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Old 04-06-2015, 01:53 PM   #81 (permalink)
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Galt is going to lose his Libertarian card.
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Old 04-06-2015, 02:02 PM   #82 (permalink)
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Hey Shadow.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation, and how it's so eerily similar to the tragedy that happened with this woman's sister.

I approached YaHooka not long ago with concerns about how to advise my younger cousin who was in an unhealthy relationship with an older man, and had no where to live.

I gently spoke my opinion to her, offering alternatives to her situation. I told her what I would do, and what my experience was with my ex.
She made her own decision, and decided to move back with her family.

Ultimately it will be up to her, but helping her to feel understood I think is important. The more resistance she feels about the situation, the more likely she will feel like she is not being heard, that her feelings don't matter. She may believe that the man she is with is the only one who cares about her feelings. Talk to her, maybe if she feels safe with you she will share with you what she sees in the relationship and why it is important to her.

I wish you and your family the very best.
This is exactly the way I have been thinking about it. I pay closer attention to her facebook posts and try to message her as often as I can. Just trying to be a friend. She says she hates the rest of our family, that she is not like them. She has a very thuggy outlook on life recently, almost like she is trying to prove that she is "hard" enough. The Facebook Memes she shares are very violent "Talk Shit Get Hit" type of things usually. I know she recently had to delete a bunch of her FB friends, 3/4 of her "friends" actually, because Dude was uncomfortable with so many guys on her profile. When I talked to him, he says things like "She is just like me" and with her "I am not like them" comments it makes me feel like she has just been completely brainwashed. They have been dating for 5 months already. I think I found out too late to sway her from this course. I just have to follow her thru it now and try to talk her out of any more stupid decisions she may share with me before she makes them.
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Old 04-06-2015, 02:04 PM   #83 (permalink)
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I am reluctant to share a pic of my cousin, especially here next to a pic of him. Ya'll just have to take my word for it. She is beautiful.

Anyways, here he is. Ill leave it up for a few days before I delete it.
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Old 04-06-2015, 02:47 PM   #84 (permalink)
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☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★ we JACKED, you mad?☆ ★ ☆ ★ ☆ ★
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Old 04-06-2015, 02:49 PM   #85 (permalink)
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Yea I want to date him too
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Old 04-06-2015, 02:53 PM   #86 (permalink)
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Good God, show that pic to anyone and you'll need no more convincing.

Let the girl cry now for a few months and save her a lifetime of tears.


PS. I'm trying to figure out what's written on his chest. Darkender?

Fucking dumb as fuck if it is.
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Old 04-06-2015, 02:54 PM   #87 (permalink)
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I believe it says surrender.

Cuz he's cool like that.
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lol, he's certainly surrendered his dignity.
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maybe its like "Surrender the Booty"... cuz he's gay
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That's some shitty ink......
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Old 04-06-2015, 04:00 PM   #91 (permalink)
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I hate his stupid dumb face
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Old 04-06-2015, 04:14 PM   #93 (permalink)
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It is truly amazing what people choose to do when they are in pain...
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It has zero political or cultural value. It is reactionary in the worse sense: a gnarled wailing of a million broken losers joined in the comradery of hate and petty personal grievance.
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he looks like one of those cannibals from a future movie
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I spent way too long looking up the meaning of prison tattoos, trying to find out what that one over his eye means, in order to discredit him. Then I realized that was totally unnescessary.
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If the dude didn't have a violent history the tattoos wouldn't mean shit. I know plenty of people with plenty of ink and they're upstanding citizens.
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Please excuse this candid non sequitur tangent, as I do not intend to derail the thread nor would I want to offend you in any way, Shadow--
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As a father of four daughters, and a friend to someone who's 16 year old ran off with a 45 year old this past late summer, I think I have some perspective.
(...)
The Air sign's curse is fucking strong with this one. Speaking as someone in that category myself, I can't hold that against anybody; no room to judge.

but Galt, I'll be damned if you aren't a Gemini/Libra/Aquarius, given the trademark tl;dr monologues & windbag proclivities. The lexicon & writing style is a dead giveaway. I strongly suspect you are ~one of us.
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pheonce hahaha wow a ghettoer spelling would be hard to come by.
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You've given this way too much thought.



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Just polishing a gem. I've got a pocket full.

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Galt is going to lose his Libertarian card.
Come on now... I'm still good. It's the whole "the right to swing my fist ends at the tip of your nose" kinda thing. You're aloud to live and die as you wish as long as you leave me and mine the fuck alone. Once ya cross the line it immediately becomes a more primal kind of teachable moment if you will, and some primates are just unteachable.

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I am reluctant to share a pic of my cousin, especially here next to a pic of him. Ya'll just have to take my word for it. She is beautiful.

Anyways, here he is. Ill leave it up for a few days before I delete it.

My guess... second day in general population his jaw was displaced from constant analingus. As for the muscles and the ink, he ain't sportin' any Nation scat, so I'm thinkin' just scared shitless ass rape victim who grew to like it.
... and please tell him that I said so. Almost wish I had a reason to visit Cali.
What a fucking turd!

I believe his "look" would be much improved by an impromptu tracheotomy with a rusty piece of tail pipe.

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I believe it says surrender.

Cuz he's cool like that.
The ass...
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Please excuse this candid non sequitur tangent, as I do not intend to derail the thread nor would I want to offend you in any way, Shadow--


The Air sign's curse is fucking strong with this one. Speaking as someone in that category myself, I can't hold that against anybody; no room to judge.

but Galt, I'll be damned if you aren't a Gemini/Libra/Aquarius, given the trademark tl;dr monologues & windbag proclivities. The lexicon & writing style is a dead giveaway. I strongly suspect you are ~one of us.
Bloviator Sine Pari!

Ya nailed it... smack dab in the middle, Libra.
You ought'a hear me when I'm fucked up. It's absolutely scary.

I once convinced three guys I used to trip with in high school that I was in fact the devil (relax... words only, no sacrificial rituals required).
Ran into one a while back and he still believes I'm hiding a 666 somewhere.
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