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Old 04-17-2017, 04:25 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Don't slut shame. You aren't mad they're sluts, you're mad they aren't being sluts with you. If you continue to have that attitude twords girls I promise you will never see a live vagina ever again, friend.

Furthermore friendship is trust, you don't trust you don't have friends. If you're scared of being let down by people, then sorry buddy that's life and the only way to avoid it is being a hermit.

Im genuinely not trying to be mean, you just need to wake up and realize you're living in a world of your own making.

no youve got it all wrong. i live in a drug addicted crime ridden disease infested slum. and no im not angry that theyre not sleeping with me. if i wanted my dick sucked that badly any one of them would do it for five bucks and a ride to go meet their dealer. i wouldnt put my dick in any of them. not even if i was completely drunk and quadruple wrapped that shit. when all of the fentanyl going around eventually wipes them all out, i can honestly say that i wouldnt have a shred of sympathy for any one of them. thats how bad it is over here. the cops dont even bat an eye either. apparently they have bigger fish to fry.

theres a reason that surrey sluts have earned the reputation and notoriety that they have throughout the entire province, and maybe even the entire country. and its NOT because of me.

i still have friends here i see. just not what it used to be after growing older. everyone is moving away and i sure as hell dont blame them. soon as i can get my shit together i'll be out of this hole as well. there is nothing here for me, or anyone who wants to do anything with their lives other than steal, gangbang and do drugs.

but it must just be my own imagination world right? must be why every other house in my area has barred up doors and windows yet it doesnt stop peoples vehicles from getting broken into and stolen every day. its so common that you'll never hear about it much in the paper, and your average shooting barely makes the news either unless the victim is someone unrelated to the whole gang scene.

yeah. you really gave me quite the reality check. ill go back to living in my own perfect world now where im not surrounded by gangs, drugs, crime, and probably the most filthiest sluts in all of canada that surely do live up to their reputation. they'll do anything for 5 dollars bro but clearly I'm the one who made it this way right? perhaps ill just put on my rose tinted glasses and everything will be nice and peachy.
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Old 04-17-2017, 04:29 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I can confirm that it is typically a good idea to limit interaction with Surrey girls
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Old 04-17-2017, 04:45 PM   #23 (permalink)
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see this guy knows. its quite the piece of paradise hey?

sometimes i feel like id rather be stuck living in a shack in the downtown east side. i honestly feel like i'd have less of a chance of getting robbed, attacked, or even shot at random because most of those people are just druggies who are all so weak and meager and only care about cashing their welfare checks and getting their next fix and if you dont get in their grill, they wont pay yo no mind. hell i might even wake up one day and my car might still be where i parked it. even with all of the rims still on it!
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sounds like you have a really positive attitude about the sitaution at least
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well apparently the creep catchers over here just nabbed another pedophile at the mall yesterday. a group of dudes in many cities who go online and expose sexual predators and shit, sometimes even get them arrested.

it actually made the news headlines this time, only because theyre catching a bit of heat for roughing the pedo up a little and trying to give these vigilante justice groups a hard time for getting all up in this dudes grill. like come on canada what are we a bunch of fucking pussies? the dude would be beaten half to death, or even to death in many countries and nobody would bat an eye. but a little bit of grabbing and yelling while trying to make a citizens arrest might be a little overboard? jesus fucking christ. and these kind of people who do end up getting locked up here will end up segregated from everyone else in the correctional centers getting special treatment rather than having a broken mop handle shoved up their asses by each one of the inmates like they deserve. thats assuming if the judge just doesnt let them off.

Surrey Creep Catcher uses physical force in another sting - BC | Globalnews.ca

while i respect these people for their cause cause as obviously these fucko's need to be locked up for life and castrated, its pretty fucking dangerous to be doing this kind of stuff. especially around here. you never know who youre dealing with. but when the media finally does report shit like this they turn it around and try to make it look like these people are the bad guys for doing anything more than politely asking the guy to please stay there and wait for the cops to come and book you, thank you eh? like some kind of patriotic canadian stereotype or some bullshit. like what else do you want them to do to detain them? sing and dance and put on a hockey game to distract them until the cops get back from their hourly tim horton's run? let them run off so they can go find some other prepubescent girl to diddle? grow some balls canada.

fun times though. at least nobody got shot. sooner or later itll happen and then if the police do anything, theyll just put a stop to these creep catcher guys and outlaw that kind of stuff. less work them to deal with anyways. everybody here knows they dont give a fuck. theyd rather write up traffic tickets and other shit like that because at least that brings in some money.

this kind of shit starts to rustle my jimmies knowing im surrounded by this type of shit every day. this hole is like a magnet for the worst types of people out there. and for the record, im actually in a damn fine mood today, even though i gotta go to the dentist later and have him prying around in my mouth but thats some first world problems right there and i look forward to being in the presence of one of the few people around here who actually has a good legitimate job and doesnt appear to be any more fucked in the head than i am.

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So it's sounding like the course of action is to become a vigilante yourself, a secret, batman style one, and start cleaning up in yo neighborhood.
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no youve got it all wrong. i live in a drug addicted crime ridden disease infested slum. and no im not angry that theyre not sleeping with me. if i wanted my dick sucked that badly any one of them would do it for five bucks and a ride to go meet their dealer. i wouldnt put my dick in any of them. not even if i was completely drunk and quadruple wrapped that shit. when all of the fentanyl going around eventually wipes them all out, i can honestly say that i wouldnt have a shred of sympathy for any one of them. thats how bad it is over here. the cops dont even bat an eye either. apparently they have bigger fish to fry.

theres a reason that surrey sluts have earned the reputation and notoriety that they have throughout the entire province, and maybe even the entire country. and its NOT because of me.

i still have friends here i see. just not what it used to be after growing older. everyone is moving away and i sure as hell dont blame them. soon as i can get my shit together i'll be out of this hole as well. there is nothing here for me, or anyone who wants to do anything with their lives other than steal, gangbang and do drugs.

but it must just be my own imagination world right? must be why every other house in my area has barred up doors and windows yet it doesnt stop peoples vehicles from getting broken into and stolen every day. its so common that you'll never hear about it much in the paper, and your average shooting barely makes the news either unless the victim is someone unrelated to the whole gang scene.

yeah. you really gave me quite the reality check. ill go back to living in my own perfect world now where im not surrounded by gangs, drugs, crime, and probably the most filthiest sluts in all of canada that surely do live up to their reputation. they'll do anything for 5 dollars bro but clearly I'm the one who made it this way right? perhaps ill just put on my rose tinted glasses and everything will be nice and peachy.
Generally, people who use the sort of language you did in that post I responded to are the kind of people who need to hear what I had to say(not that you really made me think you weren't that type with this post).

You really could have just said "i live in a 3rd world crack hole" and left out all the condescension. But I hope you feel better now.
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Broooo I googled 'Surrey girls' and it have its own Urban Dictionary page talkin bout they all hoes !!!!!
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Broooo I googled 'Surrey girls' and it have its own Urban Dictionary page talkin bout they all hoes !!!!!
can't say that i'm surprised
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Lol, I used to live in Langley - the town beside Surrey.

What hashplant is referring to is a "thing"- in so much that folks talk and joke about Surrey and the people who live there, gangs and drug wars etc. But I have met a lot of great people from there too, so take a grain of salt to that opinion for sure.


As for the rest of the thread. Thanks CC and MN for nudging the assertiveness point. I guess I've realized that I'm used to friendships organically growing by talking to people over a period of time, but I think it becomes harder to do things that way as people grow busier.

I'm going to try being more assertive for sure. Any recommendations on timing? For instance, is it best to acquaint with folks a couple of instances before asking to go for drinks or coffee, etc?
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i generally have a good idea right away if i think i'm going to get along well with someone. this has lead to some disappointments of course, but life is short and its better to figure these things out sooner rather than later. the benefit is also that you sort through all the people you meet a lot faster than you would if you played it cool all the time. organically evolving friendships are always sped up by showing a real interest in spending time with someone
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for reference when i met my wife (a mutual friend introduced us in a group) we were already planning when to hang out next before even getting home that day
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Aw, that's awesome.

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Taking the Hermit route isn't so bad either. At least semi Hermit. People generally suck. Me included before anyone spouts off.
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Capt wouldn't know a good friend if it bit him on the ass.


He's been dodging my facebook friend request for years.
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