Mescalito

Whats the worse thing you ever did to a woman.. (or a man if your a woman.. or all the other combinations for all you homos)? Be honest now! Ill start it off..

I met this girl in Thailand and was with her for about a month. Then i had to leave.. before i left i told her i loved her and that i would speak to her everyday on the phone or email her and basically keep in contact. Basically i didnt contact her at all and i still havnt. At the time i told her all this stuff i convinced myself that i wasnt lieing to her.. but in there somewhere i knew i blantantly was.. and im pretty sure she believed all of it. To top things off i got with another woman.. my current girlfriend who i do keep in contact with.. and we have all these pictures that i keep online. Well.. somehow my old girls email adderess got mixed in with the recievers pile.. and for afew weeks i was unknowingly sending her pictures of me with my new woman. Ones thing for sure.. i made it very clear that i wasnt going back. I felt more guilty about not contacting her though to be honest.

Another one is when i was with my ex ex ex.. i snuck some ganja in her cig. She then got sick.. from smoking too much.. and didnt know all along. I was smoking a joint with her at the time so i guess she didnt smell or taste it. The whole time she was puking i didnt tell her what i did. I did tell her shortly after we broke up though and got a mighty slap and a knee in the balls.

Matt

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SageTree

On time this girl that I was dating non-exclusivly got really mad at me when she saw me on a date with another girl. I told her that I was dating other people at the same time, and she seemed fine with it. So she calls me up and starts yelling and complaining to me about this and that. I cut her off and I said "Hey, I told you what was up. I never said I wasn't doing what you "caught" me doing. You're not my girlfriend, and this deffinatly sealed your fate with me." And then said, " I really had good times with you, but I can see this isn't going to work." I said " Good Bye" and hung up the phone. Never heard from her again. Thing is her and I had alot of conversation that helped form seeds in my mind, that have blossomed into ideals I have, and it becuase of here. Now I don't know how to get a hold of her, nor do I imagine she wants to hear from me. I was dating a few girls at the time and having sex with 1 of them, I guess I didnt feel like I had anything to lose with being blunt. I feel like I could have had a more civil conversation about it. She really was a nice girl. I hope she understood.

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Mescalito

^Wow.. you really make me look bad!

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wiseco

My Ex and I were going out for almost 2 1/2 years.

Starting the beginning of the 2nd year I would never call her, tell her where I was while she looked and tryed to find me all day. I would then bitch and complain at her for no reason. I didn't want to be with her anymore but I tryed to work it out. I eventually told her I didn't know if I still loved her and this went on for a few months. I would get fucked up and tell her I loved her one night, then not know what to tell her the next.

I eventually broke up with her but she tried getting in my way out the door, so I grabbed her by the shoulders, picked her up, and kinda tossed her aside. She had bruises I guess is what everybody including her, told me from grabbing her shoulders so hard to move her.

I treated her like shit, but I had some reasons but I'm not going into depth with it.

surf*and*smoke

damn dude...


i must be young or something...i havnt done any shit thats worthy of being posted in this thread

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The Rev

I slapped a chick across the face when I was 18. It wasn't backhanded or anything, more of an insult slap. She was cheating on me, and when I confronted her about it, she got all bitchy like, "Yeah, so I'm fucking another guy now. WTF do you care?" and I pretty much just slapped her.

I felt guilty about it for years tho, because I don't consider myself to be the kind that hits women. Well, I ran into her like 8 years later (rather, she ran into me; she was divorcing her husband and looking for a meal ticket for herself and her two kids) and we got to talking about that night. She was all about how she deserved it and shit, but I still apologized. It wasn't even about her at that point, it was more about how I felt about myself.



The Rev

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AlteredStateGrl

AND KEEP IT THAT WAY YOUNG MAN!

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surf*and*smoke

yea, well we will just see what happens when one of them gets out of line...

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wasborn@420

When me and my most recent ex were dating, she had a wreck and totaled her car. Well, i gave her a loan for $1500 for a down payment on another car. 3 months later, still hadn't recieved any money from her and our relationship was shakey. (not because of this but because i suspected her of cheating on me) Well, i caught her cheating on me and then so we had our nasty little breakup thing, and left it alone for 2 months. After 2 months, i find out from her uncle, who i still keep in contact with, that she is leaving in 2 days to go to virginia and live with this guy she met. So i go over there one night when she is asleep, steal the car and brought it to my house. She wakes up and calls the cops, says i stole her car. I show the cops the registration card, which has my name and her name on it. Well that makes what i did legal, it's legally my car and her car. So the cops leave and i still have the car today, 3 months later.

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AlteredStateGrl

thats not bad. ^^

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wasborn@420

I didn't think so either, but everybody i've ever told that to thought it was messed up, they all think i shouldn't of taken the car away from her because then she had no transportation at all. But its so nice to know that someone agrees with me.

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Sarah THC

that's not messed up. she totally took advantage of your trust by borrowing money. and it is technically your car lol. i would have done the same...

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nikkolle420

i guy i had been dating cheated on me, but he told me right away and ended it saying he didnt want me to find out the hard way. i was cheating on him also, but i still got pissed. a few nights later was new years eve so i called him and told him i was pregnant (a lie) and that i was going to have my mom go to the cops (he was 20, im 17) it created a bunch of drama which of course ruined his night and caused his new gf to break up with him.......really not that bad, he deserved it

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"you're right screw them igloo livin amish fucks lets be eskimos instead!"

ColtEtish

If this wasn't mellow stoners I would call you a few creative names for thinking he deserved that...I mean theres two sides to every story and we got the short version from you, but you were cheating on him.

So you called him and told him you were pregnant and you were going to have him arrested.

Sorry but a guy who admitted to cheating on you RIGHT after he did it doesn't deserve that...especially since you were cheating on him too...

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wasborn@420

I've come to a conclusion, those who smoke see my situation the same way i do, people who don't smoke, think it's messed up, or it might just be the people around here.

you might ask, why i posted that if i thought it was the right thing to do? well like i said, everybody i've told that too has thought it was messed up so i figured i was just crazy, but thanks for proving me wrong.

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Cerpin Taxt

I totally agree...the power women have in proclaiming such things is not to be underestimated at this age. My ex told me she was late the day I broke up with her...left me shittin' bricks until she called and told me she got it later that night...phew! (In retrospect, I had a feeling she was just saying it because I was breaking up with her..)

In any case nikk, he did not deserve the BS you put him through. He fully admitted to you what he did because he knew hearing it somewhere else would be A LOT worse. More importantly, you were cheating too! (And from what I've read, you didn't tell him).

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The Rev

What is it with young girls and wanting to stir up shit?



The Rev

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smoke

no he didnt. he was honest and you werent. you let your emotions control you, and you acted way out of line. i hope youve done a lot of growing up. you need it.

nikkolle420

ok i was childish and bitchy i get it. ive seen him since and apologized as did he. were cool now

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"why would you want to be amish? you'd have to live in an igloo"
"you're right screw them igloo livin amish fucks lets be eskimos instead!"

Sarah THC

aw well lets not stereotype, rev.

im a young girl and i prefer not to stir much of anything, much less shit

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